Striper Girlfriend

[nan3109]

My girlfriend told me that shes going to Amateur's night at a strip club and she wanted to work there. I personally wouldnt not want my girlfriend who I really care about to be working there considering all my friends would see her and could get lap dances from her.She told me she wants to make some money within the next month for college and that's the only reason she wants to do it.

How can I tell her that if she does it I wont go with her anymore?

 

[nan3109]

sorry, stripper* , I spelt it wrong.

BTW: like another post said, strippers are trash and I wouldnt want one as my girlfriend.

GIMME SOME IDEAS GUYS!!

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by nan3109
BTW: like another post said, strippers are trash and I wouldnt want one as my girlfriend.

this person is an ignorant idiot who is probably on a first name basis with every sex worker in his town.
Like you said, your girl is using the money for college. There a lot of sex workers who do this. Some are stupid ho's who just want to buy desiginer clothes and other crap, but some chose that kind of work to make ends meet. Does not make them trash. Does Not make them *****s.

Your girlfriend made the dumb move of telling you that she wanted to give it a go. If her stripping really bothers you, tell her and try and help her find other ways of getting the cash. However if she's really set on playing flash for cash, one way or another she's gonna do it.

 

[nan3109]

i guess the whole idea of my girlfriend rubbing her tits and ***** in other guys faces and rubbing all up on makes me un easy.

 

[ShortyBrown]

Originally posted by nan3109
i guess the whole idea of my girlfriend rubbing her tits and ***** in other guys faces and rubbing all up on makes me un easy.

I don't blame you. Just talk to her and see what happens.

 

[nan3109]

by the way, I found out about this cause my friend called me and told me his friend Dustin said he met this girl Kiki at the club and was gonna go see her strip at the club (aka, kiki is my girlfriend)

I asked my girlfriend about this and she told me at the club the guy asked her to hook up with him and she said she couldnt cause she has a b/f. The guy asked her what she was doing monday and she told him she and her friend we gonna go to amateur strip night at the club.So she told these other guys about it before me. I didnt find out until I confronted her and she told me she was gonna talk to me about it tomorrow.

Now all my friends will know my g/f works there and will come to get lap dances and see her stripping and rubbing her cooch.

AM I THE ONLY GUY WHO WOULDNT APPROVE OF THAT!!??!?!

 

[Chip]

Like you said strippers are trash and I agree.
Just tell her - "Stripper's are trash and I don't date trash."
Or you can just f*ck her and dump her later.

 

[MDgood]

I'd have trouble dating a stripper... I would not approve of it.

Yeah, they make a shytload of cash, but does that justify anything? How much cash does it take to surrender your personal dignity to a bunch of drooling men?

I'm not going to lie: I've been to strip clubs before. But honestly, these chicks don't turn me on. I look at them and feel bad for them.

As a suggestion, tell your girlfriend that, yeah, she can make a lot of cash as a stripper and do cooch shows for your friends, if it's ok for you to make a lot of cash selling drugs to her friends.

Just because it pays the bills doesn't mean it's the right thing to do.

 

[Matt ala Casanova]

I've dated strippers and they are fun and good social proof but never became anything long term. I mean does it really make you upset or are you just insecure about it?

With my experience, I ended up having 2 threesomes with my stripper girlfriend. You know what....I don't regret it to this day!

M.A.C.

 

[racerX]

Unfortunetly, it all comes down to the MONEY. There is a crapload of $$$ that strippers make each week. Everyone knows that a good looking, young girl can pull in $1500-$2500 cash a week w/ little or NO taxes or experience. And its LEGAL! Thats why they do it. Think of how much time & money it would take to get a college degree & be in the workforce to make that type of insane $$$?? 10, maybe 15 years....if there very lucky. Yes, its humiliating. But so is working for a living in some respects. A good looking girl getting up at 6am, commuting to work 1 hour in traffic to work 8 hours/5 days a week for some stupid company answering phones all day for $9@hour is just a waste of time. With companies constantly having layoffs/cutbacks/2-3% raises every year, i can see why alot of women are stripping nowadays. It doesnt make it right, but i understand why they do it.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

wtf?

For me, it's "No or next".

If she was already one that's a different matter. I'm not sure if that's a hypocritical position, but for me that's the only way it's going down.

Osc.

 

[nan3109]

Yeah, the Funny thing is I told her I was interested in drug dealing and asked her if any of her friends wanted to buy and she told me that "selling drugs is bad and wrong, they're better more honest ways of making money"

WHAT A HYPOCRITE!!!

 

[nan3109]

bump!

 

[reformedafc]

Well, about the drug dealing thing, she has a point. One is illegal, one is not. One will kill you, one will not. I think calling her a hypocrite is a bit extreme.

As for the rest of it, why have you not yet sat down with her and told her exactly how you feel? It isn't going to do much good telling us. If you don't want her to strip, make it clear that is what you want and that you will not be with her otherwise.

I think you are probably afraid of the conversation because she will choose stripping over you.

 

[blasmo]

Dude, having a stripper girlfriend ain't all that bad. I have had 2 of them. I admit though that with the first one since i was so young (19) i didn't handle the situation the best way i could and i would sometimes get jealous. I would see her lap dancing with other dudes and that would set me off but a experienced pimp told me once not to worry about it if she is going home with me and i am ****ing her every night. With my second stripper gf, i wasn't jealous at all. Just be confident in yourself and you will be ok.

 

[mr.buick]

If you stick with her, your in for a disappointment my friend. Tell her it's fine if she want's to pursue that, but it will be without you. The decision is squarely on her shoulders. You or Stripping. She sounds like a major attention wh-re anyway. You're better off finding another woman. Good luck Bro!
John

 

[echo1212]

DANGER! DANGER! DANGER! Will Robinson. Avoid this chick at all costs!!

 

[violator]

It takes a special breed of man to seriously date a stripper or consider one for an LTR . One who is emotionally strong and detached and otherwise open minded. I actually dated one when I was 18 and who did a brief stint in porn.

You can't be the jealous type because they are constantly being oggled by men. And if they are not fycking around with other guys, they almost certainly are fooling around with other women. Yes, female strippers by and large are bi-sexual and certainly not faithful.

Then there is the baggage that follows them; the ex bf or husband who is in jail or pushes dope; drug addiction; past history of being sexually abused or raped, etc.

Other than that, they are great for social proof and a means to
meet sexually open minded women to have threesomes with.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

And if you don't currently use rubbers, start immediately and don't accept any excuse of hers not to, under any circumstances.

 

[Jay26]

That sux dude, strippers are good and all but not if your g/f becomes one! I was at a friends wedding recently, and ****, if that was my G/F gyrating on him, I'd be PISSED!