strange pick up, got number, rejection after. premeditated?

[big weezy]

i just had a very strange pick up encounter which has left me a little baffled, i didn't do as well as i normally did but i didnt do too badly.. maybe friendzoned but not what i expected. 6/10 i'd have rated myself in the pick up, but realistically i need to be hitting 8/10 if i want to successfully create IL.

anyway she was next to me, i started talking, usual chit chat.. nothing too heavy, tried making her laugh.. bit of clash of cultures. started to neg her a bit, she didn't respond to well but was very polite etc. talked for about 45 mins (too long i know) and she got up to leave.

i suggested we go for a drink and she seemed keen but when i go for the number she goes 'i prefer to use bbm instead' or something along those lines. i didnt think anything of it just maybe she wanted to save money on call costs.

she added me to blackberry bbm.. and i took the number as well. and as she left she goes 'bbm me when u want to go for that drink'.

2 mins later i check my bbm and she's deleted me as a contact.. now im not sure if i deleted her myself but im 99% sure she did it.

was this her sneaky way of rejecting me? i dont see the point in her walking away saying 'bbm when u want to go for that drink' apart from making a point of look at the fact you're not on my contact list anymore.. i think maybe it's her way of rejecting guys?

the only other thing i can think of is that my bbm status message says 'world of wh0recraft' which is a private joke between my buddies (i dont usually add girls to bbm so i dont think about what i write) so i'd be surprised if that offended her.

is it likely it wasn't the msg and she was literally planning to reject me hence her insistence of using bbm? it seems me going for the no. baffled her plans a bit but the result is still the same.

i texted her after to say 'hey send me your bbm pin again i think i deleted it, sorry' her non reply tells me all.

it's strange, at the worst i'd have been friendzoned, didn't expect such a swift rejection.

 

[big weezy]

maybe it's just bad luck, i got straight rejected by the next girl i tried to pick up.. maybe it's just a bad day.

what's weird with this girl in the post before is she kept doing/saying things to suggest we should meet up again but also testing me.. like she asked me 'do i come here often?' to some what indicate will i see u here again? (i kinda panicked with that question cos my initial thought was 'has she seen me before?' does she know i pick up here?') and she tells me which place she normally goes to (as in you'll find me at the 1 other 1, i go there too to pick up haha maybe she has seem me before picking up..)

and like she asked me do i shop at this expensive shop/store which sells everything from food to clothes etc

i said 'no'.. some of her questions seems a bit wh0rish and gold diggerish but she comes from a rich family so i was kinda surprised. she is a part behaviorial psychologist student so she must have been judging my body language at the time to see if i was lying.

it's just very odd, like she said at least 2-3 times for me to bbm her when i want to go for that drink.. she even took my bbm pin and added me there and there and checked to see if i got her request.. i wasnt going to even check it there till later.

could it really be she was offended by my status messsage?? hahaha... just seems so odd.

pity really, she was hot but her tits were small. i could have done better in fairness but it was my 1st pick up of the day which usually is my worst..

retrospectively i should have not bothered to text her after for her to resend her pin, she was just being sly. i might as well delete her number. i think she was testing me throughout and maybe realised after that i was tryna pick her up and she wanted to friendzone me.. maybe she has bf who knows.. it's just very puzzling)

 

[Myrrdin]

The path goes like this:
fail, fail, fail Fail FAIL........ and then you start winning. Stop worrying on what they do so much. They're random most of the time.

 

[craigt5]

Wold of Warcraft screwed you up

She didnt understand your inside joke and either thought you were a nerdy loser or didnt know it was you BBM'ing but, some scammer.

 

[Jeffst1980]

Welcome to the world of cold approach pickup.

You are going to get rejected a TON, even when you DO get good at this. Some girls just won't be interested, and that's ok. Rejection does not MATTER; even if only 1 out of 100 girls are interested, we are going to FIND those girls!

The best PUAs don't try to get every girl; their skill lies in picking the girls that are potentially interested right off the bat. This is why approaching 3 sets, etc. are often your best bet- chances are, at least one of them is single and looking, and signs of interest will be easy to pick up on.

This girl wasn't really all that interested, and giving you a bbm number said it all. Still, it was worth a try- it takes courage to approach strange women and try to get phone numbers. For next time, try not to play it so safe with polite conversation, and instead talk to her as a man to a woman. It is better to get rejected early on, rather than be in set for 45 minutes only to get a flaky #.

 

[big weezy]

Welcome to the world of cold approach pickup.

You are going to get rejected a TON, even when you DO get good at this. Some girls just won't be interested, and that's ok. Rejection does not MATTER; even if only 1 out of 100 girls are interested, we are going to FIND those girls!

The best PUAs don't try to get every girl; their skill lies in picking the girls that are potentially interested right off the bat. This is why approaching 3 sets, etc. are often your best bet- chances are, at least one of them is single and looking, and signs of interest will be easy to pick up on.

This girl wasn't really all that interested, and giving you a bbm number said it all. Still, it was worth a try- it takes courage to approach strange women and try to get phone numbers. For next time, try not to play it so safe with polite conversation, and instead talk to her as a man to a woman. It is better to get rejected early on, rather than be in set for 45 minutes only to get a flaky #.

oh dont get me wrong i didn't play it safe.. i just didn't play it well as i could i.e. may came across too available and needy in conjunction with negging etc like didnt really demonstrate all positive traits.

i did get the phone number, what i mean is she offered her bbm 1st, so i took that.. what i dont know is whether she deleted me cos of the 'world of wh0recraft' status msg on my bb or whether she was just being sly and never intended to meet me for a drink anyway?

it seems strange cos she kept saying 'bbm me when u want to go for that drink..' which would normally indicate interest OR potentialy trying to draw attention to my bbm contact list to realise she's not on there, despite the fact i had her number now. she said as she left 'bbm when u want to go for that drink' maybe bearing in mind she knew i had her number and expected me to call instead.. who knows now cos if i deleted that status msg as i was suppose to do prior to accepting her bbm request at least i'd know now if she was p1ssing me about.

cold approaches are ok in coffee places, if i do well i always get the number.. if i do average and get the number i usually dont get a reply. im just surprised cos i know i didnt do that well but she 'appeared' to be pretty keen to meet up again. i guess she was faking it.

 

[big weezy]

It just seems so elaborate that she would go through the effort to tell me to bbm her for that drink twice just to then go and delete me after. Why not just ignore my message/text/call like most women do?

It just seems excessive which makes me think it might be because of my status message. Tbh I'd be ok if its purely cos of a poor pick up rather than just a stupid status message that caused a complete drop in I'll that turned her off, not knowing bothers me.

Thinking back when I got the no. I missed called it and before it rang her phone she claimed she got it, that seemed odd. I don't know why she would go through such a route to reject me that way when not replying would be easier. What a manipulative b1tch

 

[Fred_Scuttle]

45 min? Looks like that was her sneaky way of rejecting you. Rubbing the salt in the wound so to speak. 2 minutes was rather fast to delete you. See, she knew you would look for her number and she would delete it when you looked. bbm should given you the hint. She doesn't sound like much fun anyway so dont worry about it. I wouldn't really neg women from other cultures. They dont understand it they take it the wrong way thinking you're insulting them when you're not.

 

[Ace_Magnamus]

well weezy 0 for 4

at least you didn't tell this chick off

I don't think the wh0recraft thing made any difference. Her deleting the number and not replying gave you the answer.

maybe the next one will be better....keep at it man...you will get there.

Good luck in your next one!