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Master Don Juan
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Ok so I happened to have a very honest conversation with 3 teenage girls which live close to me, they often see me taking home girls and after finding out Im a laid back guy which despite being kinda sexist is open minded and has knowledge about dating and sex life, started being more open and open to me.
Anyway we had this conversation today where they told me about this guy
(two of them just started university while the third one is attending the last year of high school) that they all know, well this guy happens to be at the top of the dating ladder.
According to them (indirectly from their words) he is attractive because he is:
1)goodlooking, tall and muscular (while still being 19)
2)does a cool job after school (baywatch) and do many sports
3)he is very popular but despite that he sticks only to his girlfriend
They behave around him the same way a nerdish guy would behave near pamela anderson while dealing with many other average guys they shown many times uninterested attitude and sometime borderline cruel behaviour.
At that point I wanted to find out deeply what was going on and asked one of them if she would accept a fvck buddy relationship from him, even before she finished replying the other two said yes...
But I was not satisfied yet and asked if he asked them for a night of sex all togheter what they would say...well at first they had to fight with their anti-slvt shield but then they hinted that they would.
Had many conversations like this with them, and its clear to me that they dont live sexuality as a fairy tale or romantic experience, one of them had a fvck buddy altought she didnt like his personality, even made fun of him as a person while the young one doesnt mind flirting with guys she has no intention to date only for advantages like tickets to concerts and so on.
I guess a conclusion is not necessary and this simple fact can be an example of what is going on in terms of hypergamy and how it works, keep in mind this 3 girls are young and good looking, not some ugly girl with low self esteem or options.
Anyway we had this conversation today where they told me about this guy
(two of them just started university while the third one is attending the last year of high school) that they all know, well this guy happens to be at the top of the dating ladder.
According to them (indirectly from their words) he is attractive because he is:
1)goodlooking, tall and muscular (while still being 19)
2)does a cool job after school (baywatch) and do many sports
3)he is very popular but despite that he sticks only to his girlfriend
They behave around him the same way a nerdish guy would behave near pamela anderson while dealing with many other average guys they shown many times uninterested attitude and sometime borderline cruel behaviour.
At that point I wanted to find out deeply what was going on and asked one of them if she would accept a fvck buddy relationship from him, even before she finished replying the other two said yes...
But I was not satisfied yet and asked if he asked them for a night of sex all togheter what they would say...well at first they had to fight with their anti-slvt shield but then they hinted that they would.
Had many conversations like this with them, and its clear to me that they dont live sexuality as a fairy tale or romantic experience, one of them had a fvck buddy altought she didnt like his personality, even made fun of him as a person while the young one doesnt mind flirting with guys she has no intention to date only for advantages like tickets to concerts and so on.
I guess a conclusion is not necessary and this simple fact can be an example of what is going on in terms of hypergamy and how it works, keep in mind this 3 girls are young and good looking, not some ugly girl with low self esteem or options.