Stop using ****y+funny

[Daddy The Pimp]

I've seen a tons of threads " whats the best way to reply to this on c+f , how to be c+f etc.etc.etc "

I have a quick advice about it .

STOP USING IT . Try to be natural , try to be yourself . You dont need to reply with words of some nerds that you see on forum and never met .

Girl should like you for who you are , not for stupid canned sh1t .

IMO all the C+F works because YOU THINK its gonna work . Its all about believe . Also , it works because you're confident while you spitting your c+f stupid lines because you heard from someone that is getting laid by using them . If you say I WANNA FVCK YOU RIGHT NOW B1TCH , and you believe that its normal thing to say , and say it like your talking to her about sports , she gonna think its a normal thing .

I dont know , thats my opinion and felt like writing it after seeing all these guys trying to be something that they arent.

 

[MisterMcGee]

Let them be something that they aren't. They'll learn the hard way by following PUA bullshiz

 

[2.0]

Thanks for the tip!

Let them be something that they aren't. They'll learn the hard way by following PUA bullshiz

Isn't the point of a forum like this to help people "learn the easy way?" If everyone just thought, "Oh, let them learn the hard way," this website wouldn't exist at all.

 

[WC2]

I've seen a tons of threads " whats the best way to reply to this on c+f , how to be c+f etc.etc.etc "

I have a quick advice about it .

STOP USING IT . Try to be natural , try to be yourself . You dont need to reply with words of some nerds that you see on forum and never met .

Girl should like you for who you are , not for stupid canned sh1t .

IMO all the C+F works because YOU THINK its gonna work . Its all about believe . Also , it works because you're confident while you spitting your c+f stupid lines because you heard from someone that is getting laid by using them . If you say I WANNA FVCK YOU RIGHT NOW B1TCH , and you believe that its normal thing to say , and say it like your talking to her about sports , she gonna think its a normal thing .

I dont know , thats my opinion and felt like writing it after seeing all these guys trying to be something that they arent.

I don't know how being ****y and/or funny is not being yourself.

Do you think people are born ****y and funny?

It's simple-- people are nurtured to be ****y and funny. They learn these things.

If you go to law school and become a lawyer does that mean you're not being yourself?

While I agree with your argument of being 'you', everyone has aspirations to be something and change their identities accordingly.

If you want to be a funny person and work towards it, that's fine. You just better be consistent or you're going to be seen as phony.

I've seen you make some great posts, but I'd have to leave this one out. I've always been a little ****y and definitely humored women and have had great success. Making people laugh is an aphrodisiac. What's so bad about aspiring to be a little funnier? What's so bad about aspiring to be a little ballsier?

 

[slaog]

I don't know how being ****y and/or funny is not being yourself.

Do you think people are born ****y and funny?

It's simple-- people are nurtured to be ****y and funny. They learn these things.

If you go to law school and become a lawyer does that mean you're not being yourself?

While I agree with your argument of being 'you', everyone has aspirations to be something and change their identities accordingly.

If you want to be a funny person and work towards it, that's fine. You just better be consistent or you're going to be seen as phony.

I've seen you make some great posts, but I'd have to leave this one out. I've always been a little ****y and definitely humored women and have had great success. Making people laugh is an aphrodisiac. What's so bad about aspiring to be a little funnier? What's so bad about aspiring to be a little ballsier?

You're right. The difference is between it being natural and a PUA tactic. I think the op was talking more about people using it as a tactic rather then somebody after training themselves to become naturally CF.

 

[Nutz]

I think people have the wrong idea when they hear ****y Funny. The short short version is that it's basically witty flirting, nothing more.

If you think you can just memorize a bunch of witty lines you read online to spit back out for every situation that comes up then you're going about things the wrong way and are on the fast track to being a social robot. You could have all the community standard stuff memorized, but still be tripped up by real women. That's life. Your goal should be able to vibe and banter naturally and be able to think on your feet. Sure, having a few lines in the can help, but they're training wheels. Once you've gotten a hundred or so sets under your belt try putting the routines and canned material away and see how your natural game has progressed. More often then not people stick with the routines and whatnot far longer than they need to and they actually hamstring their own progress by leaning too much on the crutches. Finding ****y funny lines on the internet qualifies as such.

 

[everywomanshero]

IMO all the C+F works because YOU THINK its gonna work .

This is what I believe as well. If something feels natural and seems natural then it will probably be fine because it's really coming from you. If something feels weird or doesn't make sense to you, for god's sake don';t say it!!!! The same thing I could say without giving it a second thought and sound completely normal might come across as really awkward from someone else who is saying my words out of place and character. You don't have to say specific words to be liked or to be "cool". Conversation is about the sense of connection much more than it is about the contents of the words uttered.

 

[slaog]

Even if someone who's never used c&f in conversation started being c&f all the time, what's that to say that's not his real self? Just because he made a change means he's not himself anymore? Well then I suppose this forum is full of geniuses that have the personality of a 1 year old because they've never changed in their life.

I believe the OP mentioned canned CF lines. If you improve yourself and make CF a natural part of yourself then thats different.

 

[War Against Betaism]

****y and funny is a very useful weapon but a lot of guys use it in the wrong way because of the way David DeAngelo advertises it as. He makes it out to be the ULTIMATE weapon in attracting women and ****y and funny is used by people in every single context when it only fits the mold of certain contexts. When you're ****y, it shows that you have confidence; you're not phased by the people you are talking to since you have balls to do or say something really ****y, but the funny part disarms the "****y" and what is left is confidence. As you can see by this it is an effective formula, it is that many people who try it out get bad results; David D is always talking about getting mass newsletters from people complaining that they are being seen as a jerk instead of the Don Juan they expected to be if they were ****y and funny. I was one of them before, I almost made a girl cry--I wasn't funny, shoot I wasn't even ****y, I was a jerk--but since then I am always seen as a funny guy who enlightens the group. I actually suffered through a lot of humiliation but I've come a longs way then and I don't regret it. Let them suffer through the humiliation and if they come out, they're going to be better men.

 

[#41]

Replace "****y" with "Confident"

Replace "Funny" with "Personable"

The result is the same, no matter the words used.

 

[slaog]

To me, those 2 sentences don't go together. I think that you can used canned C&F lines over and over, IN ORDER for you to naturally come up with them at the right time (improving yourself), and THUS, make it a natural part of yourself.

I think it's good because so few guys do it and the girl will be surprised.

If you're just repeating canned material then you won't learn. Anything CF has to come from within. It's all about realising what CF is and being CF. Realising what it is and seeing things in a CF way.


When I say be CF I mean CF in a joking manner. A ****y person is a pain.

 

[War Against Betaism]

I mentioned this in another topic but when I was first starting out I had a notebook full of ****y and funny lines that I written down from this site, other sites, and movies. I didn't use any of them and the few that I tried out, it came out awkward because the line didn't fit in with the context of the situation. Human interactions are like snowflakes, each one is different. I could have an entire binder memorized and the lines I would use would probably come out awkward still.

 

[loving]

C&F is a method taught by someone

It is a method of human behavior

Very few human behaviors are ones we are born with - truly "natural"

Even how you are now is a learned behavior.

Thus the focus must be on the quality of this behavior, and that is determined by its effectiveness.

So the question is, should people be adding this behavior to their selves?

Personally I believe everything has its use, and I'll listen to his CF tapes for the knowledge just in case.

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

I don't know how being ****y and/or funny is not being yourself.

Do you think people are born ****y and funny?

It's simple-- people are nurtured to be ****y and funny. They learn these things.

If you go to law school and become a lawyer does that mean you're not being yourself?

While I agree with your argument of being 'you', everyone has aspirations to be something and change their identities accordingly.

If you want to be a funny person and work towards it, that's fine. You just better be consistent or you're going to be seen as phony.

I've seen you make some great posts, but I'd have to leave this one out. I've always been a little ****y and definitely humored women and have had great success. Making people laugh is an aphrodisiac. What's so bad about aspiring to be a little funnier? What's so bad about aspiring to be a little ballsier?

Brother you got me wrong . As slaog said , i meant to write how they should stop using these stupid lines they read on internet . Its great to read them to see what its like , and than use it on your way .

When i wrote this thread , i was pissed because i read some posts asking how they should reply to X comment X message etc . in C+F way . Also ive seen comments they get from other users . PATHETIC .

This doesnt work this way. They have to get that calibration , and use their own words , their own routines . Things that i say to girls probably wont work if someone else says them because i say them with total believe and i know where and when to say .

I hate when i see someone trying to be ****yfunny with a line they read on book . Ive also seen that people who start reading David D's book and worship it , see every fvcking thing as a test . And they feel the need that after every question or every little request , they should reply with C+F comment that they read on book or internet . It totally pisses me off .

I have nothing against ****yfunny , confident and funny people do it all the time . But using it in the way im seeing some guys using it ??? :box:

Also , long time ago i gave to my friend DYD , THE GAME , VENUSIAN ARTS and some RSD products to read .When i got out with him to sarge , it was pathetic . It was so weird seeing him burning himself by saying lines that had nothing to do with the current situation .

My original post had some mistakes that made you misunderstand the point .My message is :

STOP MISUSING ****Y+FUNNY . LEARN THE CONCEPT , LEARN WHAT IT IS AND START DOING IT IN YOUR NATURAL WAY , WITH YOUR TOTAL NATURAL LINES DEPENDING ON THE SITUATION .

EDIT: here's an example of what pisses me of
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153341

He told a word to a girl , and when she asked whats that he was trying to make her beg for the meaning of a fvcking word . Here's how misused C+F backfires .

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

This is what I believe as well. If something feels natural and seems natural then it will probably be fine because it's really coming from you. If something feels weird or doesn't make sense to you, for god's sake don';t say it!!!! The same thing I could say without giving it a second thought and sound completely normal might come across as really awkward from someone else who is saying my words out of place and character. You don't have to say specific words to be liked or to be "cool". Conversation is about the sense of connection much more than it is about the contents of the words uttered.

TOTALLY TRUE !! I wanna bold these words .Everyone read them ^ . This is what i meant .

 

[Daddy The Pimp]

I mentioned this in another topic but when I was first starting out I had a notebook full of ****y and funny lines that I written down from this site, other sites, and movies. I didn't use any of them and the few that I tried out, it came out awkward because the line didn't fit in with the context of the situation. Human interactions are like snowflakes, each one is different. I could have an entire binder memorized and the lines I would use would probably come out awkward still.

Also this post . READ IT .

Lot of chumps are using lines and coming off as weird . My message goes to them .
Being ****y funny in your natural way is awesome . Adapting that behavior is awesome too . But using LINES is horrible , weird , awkward .

 

[Solomon]

I've seen a tons of threads " whats the best way to reply to this on c+f , how to be c+f etc.etc.etc "

I have a quick advice about it .

STOP USING IT . Try to be natural , try to be yourself . You dont need to reply with words of some nerds that you see on forum and never met .

Girl should like you for who you are , not for stupid canned sh1t .

IMO all the C+F works because YOU THINK its gonna work . Its all about believe . Also , it works because you're confident while you spitting your c+f stupid lines because you heard from someone that is getting laid by using them . If you say I WANNA FVCK YOU RIGHT NOW B1TCH , and you believe that its normal thing to say , and say it like your talking to her about sports , she gonna think its a normal thing .

I dont know , thats my opinion and felt like writing it after seeing all these guys trying to be something that they arent.

CHUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCCCCCCHHHHHHHHH

even Neil Strauss said that he didn't need canned ish no more because his swagger(confidence) was so high, that he could just open a girl up and be himself and pick them up without using mystery's stuff no more


WOW

 

[Yotsuya-san]

Replace "****y" with "Confident"

Replace "Funny" with "Personable"

The result is the same, no matter the words used.

****y and confident are not the same! ****y is associated with immaturity and big talk. You can be funny without canned routines or a straight man (as in comic and straight man, not sexual orientation). You can be funny just by making clever and orignal observations about the world around you (cartoonists have been doing this for decades) without it being at the expense of the person you're talking to. You don't need to diss, psyche, or do any of the high-school stuff. And you don't need sarcasm, which is grossly overused and again comes off as unoriginal. A confident person is mature and does not need to peacock. Confidence doesn't mean being glib and devil-may-care. Confidence means that you know how to take care of your buisness in a mature and competent way. No flashy show needed. Too many young guys are trying to be what they see in the movies and TV. I say to them, "forget trying to be James Bond, Gregory House, or Tyler Durden. Those are fictional characters, not real people. They are cool because they are written to be cool". If that's what the OP meant by "Be yourself", then I'm for it.

 

[WC2]

Brother you got me wrong . As slaog said , i meant to write how they should stop using these stupid lines they read on internet . Its great to read them to see what its like , and than use it on your way .

When i wrote this thread , i was pissed because i read some posts asking how they should reply to X comment X message etc . in C+F way . Also ive seen comments they get from other users . PATHETIC .

This doesnt work this way. They have to get that calibration , and use their own words , their own routines . Things that i say to girls probably wont work if someone else says them because i say them with total believe and i know where and when to say .

I hate when i see someone trying to be ****yfunny with a line they read on book . Ive also seen that people who start reading David D's book and worship it , see every fvcking thing as a test . And they feel the need that after every question or every little request , they should reply with C+F comment that they read on book or internet . It totally pisses me off .

I have nothing against ****yfunny , confident and funny people do it all the time . But using it in the way im seeing some guys using it ??? :box:

Also , long time ago i gave to my friend DYD , THE GAME , VENUSIAN ARTS and some RSD products to read .When i got out with him to sarge , it was pathetic . It was so weird seeing him burning himself by saying lines that had nothing to do with the current situation .

My original post had some mistakes that made you misunderstand the point .My message is :

STOP MISUSING ****Y+FUNNY . LEARN THE CONCEPT , LEARN WHAT IT IS AND START DOING IT IN YOUR NATURAL WAY , WITH YOUR TOTAL NATURAL LINES DEPENDING ON THE SITUATION .

EDIT: here's an example of what pisses me of
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=153341

He told a word to a girl , and when she asked whats that he was trying to make her beg for the meaning of a fvcking word . Here's how misused C+F backfires .

Amen to that bro -

I'm on the same page, I'm not a big fan of scripted material. Actually let me rephrase that; I pity the fool who uses scripted material.

Those books you mentioned, like you said, are really worth nothing. You learn more through experience and shaping your person as you grow.

 

[MascaraSnake]

It works if that's you. I'm a perpetual jokester and I use a moderate amount of neg-hits, but I wouldn't feel comfortable greeting someone with a semi-insulting pet name. If you use it 24/7, you'll just attract insecure and stupid women (which is sadly half of them).