stop telling this

[descartes]

I hate something on this board.It is people telling others to next grls with boyfriends. WHY?
It is obvious. Girls hate to be alone, they would rather be with someone they dont really like, or someone that is not really special to them just because they dont wanna be alone.
I have talked to many grls who told me they had boyfriends, I then ask them one of Ross' question
"is it the kind of man that can touch you deep inside, or you are just keeping him around just before you find someone better?"
Guess what, most of them cant answer that question, or they say they' re just keeping him around.
Even if she has a boyfriend, go for it, it wont kill you.

 

[DankNuggs]

I 100% agree with you...You certainly think therefore you are...I always say that its the girl that should be faithful to her boyfriend, not some random guy...You reading this are not responsible for any relationships other than your own...Why be loyal to some guy you haven't met who may just as likely beat his girlfriend than treat her right, versus trying to establish a connection with somebody that embraces it???

 

[HeyPretty]

Girls hate to be alone, they would rather be with someone they dont really like, or someone that is not really special to them just because they dont wanna be alone.

Not every girl hates to be alone. There's a big difference between being alone, and being lonely.

Do you want to date a chick who's just with you because she's emotionally crippled?

If you can break up a girl's previous relationship, what makes you think another 'dj' won't do the same to you next-time 'round?

I've had the chance to date lots of men. Personally, I prefer to just fvck them, and move on. Most men aren't worth the effort.

Like DJ's, most women worth their weight will only date because they *want* to be with the person. Why not try finding those chickies.

 

[Slickster]

The reason for this advice to next girls with boyfriends is because too many guys end up focusing all their energy on getting a girl with a bf.

Its worse than oneitis over a single chick.

Plus if she leaves him for you then she'll leave you for some other guy.

If you're ok with that then go for it. But it seems like a lose-lose situation.

 

[OleRyder]

Originally posted by descartes

Even if she has a boyfriend, go for it, it wont kill you.

"It" won't, but her b/f might. ;-)

 

[Helter Skelter]

This is like the abortion issue. Both sides can make a good agrument.
I will post the definitive answer to this question. IT DEPENDS.

You can't make blanket statements. You should be able to determine from your own experience (assuming you have some) if the girl is worth pursuing, based on a number of factors. Since we don't have an example you can't answer the question.

If the girl is very unhappy- maybe yes

If the girl is happy, probably no

 

[b's nuts]

hmm. I would be a little hesitant 'bout that. Even guys checking out my girl will piss me the fvck off. I wouldn't if I were you, but if you think you can step to this... HA

 

[Giovanni Casanova]

Originally posted by descartes
Girls hate to be alone, they would rather be with someone they dont really like

So you're saying to go after women who are emotionally insecure, clingy, needy? Some of these women become STALKERS when you dump them, because they just can't stand to be alone.

If all women were like that, you might have a point. But they aren't all like that... in fact, there are an awful lot of great, attractive girls out there who are single by choice. They're also a lot more mentally stable.