Most of you posters here suck ass! I mean REALLY suck it.
Why?
You're posting.
Once upon a time
...there was a big bad lurker who sat there and read through the very same forum you're looking at right now. He had no name, but that didn't matter, he was eager to learn and discuss! He was overwhelmed by all the new information, thought that some bits were more sensible than others, and decided to help out with some of the bleating about 'this girl':
Newbie 1: theres this 1 girl in my class, she always sits next to me and we see each other drunk sometimes but i think i did something wrong as she takes a while to reply to my texts now and i dunno what to do
Ex-Lurker: Hey Bro! Wait a while before you send your texts, to make you seem like you're the man and busy with your life.
And so the advice seeker went on his way, armed with this knowledge, and tried it out! He found he now had a supa-secret weapon with which to text. He thought he was the man, being all busy counting minutes and making her wait for his massive schlong, when in actual fact, he was behaving like a girl.
Most of your theories, techniques, 'magic tricks' and discussion topics are bull****, and simply represent something to obsess over other than the fact you aren't living your life.
Lets pretend...
Would you alter whether or not you would have sex with someone based on (from one glance at the front page):
1) When they text.
2) How they greeted you.
3) Whether or not you thought a date was 'casual' or not.
4) Whether people who have never met either party involved think flirting was going on based on a cursory description on an anonymous forum.
NONE OF IT MATTERS AT ALL
The most important mindset you need to learn is this:
I'm not trying to find out whether I'm good enough for her.
I'm trying to find out whether I think she's good enough for me.
N.B.
There are tonnes of people posting who admit to huge flaws in their interactions with women yet insist on giving advice. Great if you can talk to women, even get a number!
But if you can't consistently pull women if the first 10 seconds has gone well, don't post advice that you read somewhere else. All you're doing is giving people, with the exact same problems as you, one more thing to think about, when all you both need to do is clear your head.
Please bear that in mind when posting, I only wish people had when I first found this place.
Why?
You're posting.
Once upon a time
...there was a big bad lurker who sat there and read through the very same forum you're looking at right now. He had no name, but that didn't matter, he was eager to learn and discuss! He was overwhelmed by all the new information, thought that some bits were more sensible than others, and decided to help out with some of the bleating about 'this girl':
Newbie 1: theres this 1 girl in my class, she always sits next to me and we see each other drunk sometimes but i think i did something wrong as she takes a while to reply to my texts now and i dunno what to do
Ex-Lurker: Hey Bro! Wait a while before you send your texts, to make you seem like you're the man and busy with your life.
And so the advice seeker went on his way, armed with this knowledge, and tried it out! He found he now had a supa-secret weapon with which to text. He thought he was the man, being all busy counting minutes and making her wait for his massive schlong, when in actual fact, he was behaving like a girl.
Most of your theories, techniques, 'magic tricks' and discussion topics are bull****, and simply represent something to obsess over other than the fact you aren't living your life.
Lets pretend...
Would you alter whether or not you would have sex with someone based on (from one glance at the front page):
1) When they text.
2) How they greeted you.
3) Whether or not you thought a date was 'casual' or not.
4) Whether people who have never met either party involved think flirting was going on based on a cursory description on an anonymous forum.
NONE OF IT MATTERS AT ALL
The most important mindset you need to learn is this:
I'm not trying to find out whether I'm good enough for her.
I'm trying to find out whether I think she's good enough for me.
N.B.
There are tonnes of people posting who admit to huge flaws in their interactions with women yet insist on giving advice. Great if you can talk to women, even get a number!
But if you can't consistently pull women if the first 10 seconds has gone well, don't post advice that you read somewhere else. All you're doing is giving people, with the exact same problems as you, one more thing to think about, when all you both need to do is clear your head.
Please bear that in mind when posting, I only wish people had when I first found this place.
