Stop fuking thinking about sex

[ImWithTheDJ]

I've had more sex than you can count and done it with 3 different girls. Its not that great, its the same as masturbation to me. Anyway, I began reading and studying seduction 10 years ago i believe and it didn't bring me any happiness. I had a gf but I wasn't satisfy with her or with my life. All i think about is this site and how to hook up with hot chicks. It's when i stopped going to this site and experience loneliness to the max that i learned to be independent. That alone has free me of any needs for women. I'm not gonna deny that I'd still like to have a girl but its not longer about sex and I no longer carry my heart on my sleeve. I feel empowered knowing the fact that I can get a girl easily just by being myself. All of you need to get your head out of your ass and stop thinking about being a pick up artist. That's the most selfish think you can do as a person. No amount of training will get you to where you think you can be so stop wasting your time. Happiness can only be attained when you're content with what you have. That is the key to end all your desperation and disappointment. It's not about look at all, its about how you treat female. Its perfectly fine to be nice but thats is a fault personality and you created because you think it can win you over. All it comes down to is genuinity and persistent. In the end, from my own experience what i can tell you is that all you gotta do is stop ilstening to all the sh*t that you currently believe in such as you need to do this and do that and be a certain way to attract women when all you need to be is yourself.

 

[jay_mo]

I find it hard to see that you would ever come to that conclusion if you never had started being a PUA, so in a way it helped you to become where you are now...
If you didn't start with it 10 yrs ago you would probably still be a sorry guy who crave for a woman.

For all men who does not know how to get women these techniques are great help to get started. Eventually you stop thinking about them and you can focus on being "yourself", the techniques you learned are still there, but you don't think about them anymore. And you find your own way of practicing them, so they become a part of you being yourself...

All these things on "you HAVE to do this" and "you HAVE to do that" are just examples to learn. In the end you will do what works best for you. And most importantly, what this site does is to get people start trying....

 

[DonGorgon]

...done it with 3 different girls. Its not that great, its the same as masturbation to me.

that means you have emotional issues that are causing sexual repression which stops you from accepting the full intimacy of it

 

[ImWithTheDJ]

Most of the questions being asked in this forum is how do i **** this girl? and that kinda of a turn off for me. There's more to life than just ****ing a girl. Anyone who say they can **** close a girl without exceptionally good looks or a lot of money is a f*cken liar. All you need to get a girl is bascially having hte balls to walk up to her and start talking like theres no tomorrrow and the best pick up line is "can I buy you a drink?" I've just taught you more than you ever need to know. Its all about how you feel abouit yourself and not use women to validate you.

 

[MainDroite]

Even though it has its moments, sex IS overrated. In fact, I find clicking my mouse in order to impale people in violent video games much more fun. And to hell with your pseudo-freudian psychology theories; I don't like hockey, does that mean I have emotional issues keeping me from enjoying it?

The seduction phase itself is the best part. As soon as you get the prize and that sexual tension has died (when you KNOW you can get the girl), interest drops. Sören Kierkegaard describes that in the novel A Seducer's Diary.

We are just driven by the same thing that has driven humanity for centuries. Lust and the urge to conquer.

 

[BPH]

Most of the questions being asked in this forum is how do i **** this girl? and that kinda of a turn off for me. There's more to life than just ****ing a girl. Anyone who say they can **** close a girl without exceptionally good looks or a lot of money is a f*cken liar. All you need to get a girl is bascially having hte balls to walk up to her and start talking like theres no tomorrrow and the best pick up line is "can I buy you a drink?" I've just taught you more than you ever need to know. Its all about how you feel abouit yourself and not use women to validate you.

You sound pretty sad man. Based on what you've told me I'm amazed you've laid the 3 girls you claim to have laid...unless they were years apart, in which you are seducing these women with the same state of mind as an AFC.

It sounds like you know nothing of pick-up, or being a DJ for that matter, you simply dont sound happy...like here:

No amount of training will get you to where you think you can be so stop wasting your time. Happiness can only be attained when you're content with what you have.

Happiness is a choice you make, not something that needs validation. Therefore I don't think you should ever give anybody on this forum woman advice or even why you chose to create an account simply for this post. For if you were happy, you would not need to come to this forum to complain about other people's posts.

 

[BlackMack177]

All the whining about sex being dumb and overrated amuses me here.

Let me tell you a little something. You are in a dating and relationship forum. Therefore, 95% of the questions are gonna be about dating and relationships.

This thread is pointless. What's wrong with guys asking how to get sex? Is it not basic human nature to want sex and intimacy with another person? Sex is the only thing that has kept this species alive for centuries. If your parents went around saying "durr hurr there's more to life then sex herp derp!" then you wouldn't be here

The topic at hand on this forum is sex. You don't like it, then go to a fishing forum. But don't go there telling them that there's more to life then fishing...

 

[MainDroite]

The topic at hand is not sex. It's about how to get to it.

 

[PapiChulo]

The topic at hand is not sex. It's about how to get to it.

I agree, I am driven by the chase, the game, the sensuality. In fact I become addicted to it. Sex it is just this, the physical experience, it is still pleasurable but at a lower level. I actually feel worse after having it with somebody who I share no emotional connection with or they come by too easily.

 

[ImWithTheDJ]

Today a couple walked out of the restaurant and I didn't even hesitate to say HI to the girl. That my friends is pure balls. You need to grow a pair like mine to get to my level.

 

[Scrat]

tl'dr

sex is good, do it heaps. get it as much as u can, practice being a porn star!

 

[MurdocIsGod]

I agree, I am driven by the chase, the game, the sensuality.

Same here.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

I'm not trying to hate on your post (even though most of what I have to say about it is negative), but there are a few things I can't get past:

1. You've had sex with 3 different girls. As someone who's had sex with 24 women (ages 17-38), I believe that "3 girls" does not generate a reasonable cross-section of sexual experience, even if you've had a lot of sex with those girls. There are things that experienced women can do that feel better than the best pleasure you can ever give yourself. Plus, sleeping with a woman who is hot enough to do porn makes the act itself like your own porn video. Because you think that sleeping with 3 girls makes you sexually well-experienced, I couldn't read your post with the assumption that you have any idea of what you're talking about. 6 women is average, so you're only half-way to breaking even with half of the population. You might want to try sleeping with a few more women before writing them all off as not contributing much to your sexual gratification. The older they get, the freakier they get, and the more tricks they know. Some of those tricks will blow your mind and your load!

2. Bad grammar. It's difficult to read a post with so many grammatical issues.

3. "all you need to be is yourself"... sometimes people forget that, even when they're not actively trying to change themselves, they're changing every day. The act of directed change is not fraudulent - it's rapid and effective and results in the alteration of behavior and mindset. You are yourself, and cannot change that fact, ever, even if you act differently. Therefore, you're always "being yourself." We change as individuals all the time, so there's no harm in trying to make positive change in our lives.

4. "I would still like to have a girl" "I know I can get a girl easily by being myself" Then why don't you have a girl?

5. "Happiness can only be attained when you are happy with what you have" - so then if someone is not happy with what they have, it seems that you are telling them "don't try to change what you have or don't have. Rather, find ways to be happy with what you do have." This creates psychological, emotional, educational, and financial stagnation. Being happy with what you have is NECESSARY when change is impossible. However, forcing contentment with what you have despite opportunities for achieving what you emotionally, intellectually, and morally desire is unnecessary and is the 'easy' way out.

6. "stop thinking about being a pick up artist" Agreed.