If you have any smarts, it will takes months to "qualify" a woman to be in your bed, much less your SO. I always test how they respond to training at karate and shooting. If they don't love it and work hard at it, NEXT. They can be feminsts to a point, I don't mind. They can be religious to a point, I don't mind. But if they are "shoppers", gamblers, smokers, dopers, attention- *****s or have kids, forget it. All it takes for a girl to become invisible to me is for her to light up a cigarette. Anybody THAT stupid is likely to do anything, so why give her the chance to screw me over, in any way?