Step1: Attracting Chicks More Easily

[Pappadapolis]

Some of you post wondering why you aren't attracting any chicks, or about how chicks blow you off when you talk to them. Two details that are rarely talked about are (1) Your build (2)Your style. If you're not trying to attract a HB, then you don't have to worry those two things. But you need to realize that most HB's use your body and your style to create their first impression about you. When I was chubby hardly any chicks approached me, and I mean any including 0-6's. But then I muscled up, lost weight, and bought nice clothes that fit. The result of that was 11 chicks in 3 years, including the girl I'm with now and 3 currently that make sure I know they still care about me (That has to do more with game that looks). Chicks come into my cubicle and ask some bullsh!t question just to be around me. (They normally play dumb about not understanding something a 3 year can do.) Don't get me wrong, your body and style will do nothing to help you keep a chick long term, but it will help you attract them.


Being in Shape:

* Chicks LUST after guys they find hot. You'll hear a lot less bullsh!t when you try to get some from chicks.
* Chicks will overlook and/or ignore a lot of your fvck ups. They'll put up with your bullsh!t.
* Chicks will get an ego boost just because they are with you.
* Chicks will initiate kino more often.
* Chicks will be more likely to give you the time of day when you approach.


Chicks like a man that has style. I'm not saying you have to be a metro-sexual, but hang up the Jabba the Hut T-Shirt when you go out to meet chicks.

Your clothes:

* Wear clothes that fit you. This means your body and/or who you are.
* Buy the good sh!t. Cheap clothes LOOK cheap. You don't have to buy $300 shirt or $200 jeans, but throw that Wal-Mart sh!t in the trash. If you don't dress well, HB's will create a first impression that you are a dork.
* Payless Shoes. Hell to tha No!
* Do your best not to wear faded clothes when gaming on HB's that have never seen you before. If you can't buy new gear, buy dye. It's cheap and effective. (Solid colored clothes only. I have a feeling some you may try to dye a striped shirt.)

 

[asdfghjkl]

Hmmm, i agree with most of it....


However ALL of my clothes are faded. Ever heard of Abercrombie/American Eagle?

 

[Pappadapolis]

Hmmm, i agree with most of it....


However ALL of my clothes are faded. Ever heard of Abercrombie/American Eagle?

That was my bad. I should have thought about the exceptions. American Eagle sells stuff wrinkled. Not for me, but lots of chicks like it.

 

[Slevin]

Two details that are rarely talked about are (1) Your build (2)Your style.

Are you kidding? These topics are extremely common on seduction message boards.

 

[Mjazz]

I thought it was a good booster post.

 

[BBX]

um is it just me or am i the only one left hanging from this post...this is pretty key bord jocky info

 

[Pappadapolis]

Are you kidding? These topics are extremely common on seduction message boards.

They are common as general topics, but are rarely dicussed when dudes strike out when sarging. I can see out a guy can face rejection from 2-4 chicks in one night, but the other night I read a post where a guys said he struck out with 30. If he looks and dresses like Napoleon Dynamite, but the girls he was approaching look like Jessica Alba that's an issue. The real issue isn't being addressed when we reply to his post.

 

[musclyjerk]

I wouldn't say it's that easy to change your build but possible within 3 months to look more built and shapely if you're wearing the right gear.

The way I see it, the more effort you put in to your body, the less effort is required when sarging - far less.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[azanon]

Being in shape is important, just understand what being in shape for women means. If an image of Brad Pitt or Matthew McConaughey pops into your mind, you have the right idea. If Arnold Swartz***** (however you spell it) in his prime comes to mind, you have the wrong idea. It means being toned, modestly muscular, and not fat.

I have to settle for more Bratt Pitt since i'm predominately a natural ectomorph.

 

[Lompa]

Most of this is true.
As for the looks, sure being chubby doesn't help but to have some belly wouldn't be THAT bad... Sure the a 6-pack is sexy but even if you look good without one you will be cool.

after i lost 21kg's i have attrected 3 chicks in half a year.

 

[azanon]

Having some belly isn't THAT bad only because chicks have had to accept that the typical man is overweight. I think it would be a mistake though to assume that is ideal. It would still be better to have no belly, and IMO, anyone can make it go away with enough willpower.

 

[insanity]

i've seen bouncers who had big azz beer bellies pull in some hot looking vixens. it really isn't that important. it's how you carry yourself. i've seen the fat funny guy at parties have chicks flirting and getting together with him too. it's all in how you carry yourself

if being in shape makes you feel confident and sexy then rock on. if your have a beer belly and carry it well and don't give a dam then right on.

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

I agree with you dude on keeping your body in shape, hot babes desire strong powerful men, make it a rule to go to the gym at least three times a week and pump the weights.
I don't care much for clothes though, I just wear Denim jeans and a T-Shirt, I don't spend alot on them.
I always use deodorant under my arm pits though, that is as far as my fashion goes.
I am however strong and powerful, I cold approach the hottest babes with extreme confidence, I am always clean if not stylishly attired, not every girl desires me, but fortunately for me many do.

 

[azanon]

I wasnt suggesting don't do what you can with women if your body isn't perfect today. "Rock on" regardless. I'm only defining an ideal body and something to work towards; nothing more. I do think it'd be a mistake to just ignore a beer gut when its so easy to do something about it.

 

[insanity]

the beer belly is the hardest battle to defeat. to this day i have a mini gut from the years of partying. i'm glad my woman thinks it's attractive. i have a friend who would be considered overweight but he carries it really well and his sense of humor is killer. i think his style is drab but it works for him but you would be shocked at the woman who is dating him for the last 8 years. she's killer.

 

[musclyjerk]

i've seen bouncers who had big azz beer bellies pull in some hot looking vixens. it really isn't that important. it's how you carry yourself. i've seen the fat funny guy at parties have chicks flirting and getting together with him too. it's all in how you carry yourself

if being in shape makes you feel confident and sexy then rock on. if your have a beer belly and carry it well and don't give a dam then right on.

Bouncers carry one of the highest social passes though - anyone whose a bouncer (no matter how ugly or fat) can lay hot chicks without making an effort - they're swamped by them every night and all want to f*ck a bouncer.

The Muscly Jerk

 

[azanon]

the beer belly is the hardest battle to defeat. to this day i have a mini gut from the years of partying. i'm glad my woman thinks it's attractive. i have a friend who would be considered overweight but he carries it really well and his sense of humor is killer. i think his style is drab but it works for him but you would be shocked at the woman who is dating him for the last 8 years. she's killer.

The older i get, the lower I've had to hold my body weight just to eliminate my belly too. I fully understand this. And i'm starting to realize there is probably a point where i do more harm than good getting my body weight so low, that i look frail overall in my effort to lose that mini-gut.

I'm at 163, 5'11" now, and if i go much higher (bodyweight wise), its almost an absolute certainly that some of it is going to go to my waist. Damn'ed if i do, damn'ed if i dont.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

Some of you post wondering why you aren't attracting any chicks, or about how chicks blow you off when you talk to them. Two details that are rarely talked about are (1) Your build (2)Your style. If you're not trying to attract a HB, then you don't have to worry those two things. But you need to realize that most HB's use your body and your style to create their first impression about you. When I was chubby hardly any chicks approached me, and I mean any including 0-6's. But then I muscled up, lost weight, and bought nice clothes that fit. The result of that was 11 chicks in 3 years, including the girl I'm with now and 3 currently that make sure I know they still care about me (That has to do more with game that looks). Chicks come into my cubicle and ask some bullsh!t question just to be around me. (They normally play dumb about not understanding something a 3 year can do.) Don't get me wrong, your body and style will do nothing to help you keep a chick long term, but it will help you attract them.


Being in Shape:

* Chicks LUST after guys they find hot. You'll hear a lot less bullsh!t when you try to get some from chicks.
* Chicks will overlook and/or ignore a lot of your fvck ups. They'll put up with your bullsh!t.
* Chicks will get an ego boost just because they are with you.
* Chicks will initiate kino more often.
* Chicks will be more likely to give you the time of day when you approach.


Chicks like a man that has style. I'm not saying you have to be a metro-sexual, but hang up the Jabba the Hut T-Shirt when you go out to meet chicks.

Your clothes:

* Wear clothes that fit you. This means your body and/or who you are.
* Buy the good sh!t. Cheap clothes LOOK cheap. You don't have to buy $300 shirt or $200 jeans, but throw that Wal-Mart sh!t in the trash. If you don't dress well, HB's will create a first impression that you are a dork.
* Payless Shoes. Hell to tha No!
* Do your best not to wear faded clothes when gaming on HB's that have never seen you before. If you can't buy new gear, buy dye. It's cheap and effective. (Solid colored clothes only. I have a feeling some you may try to dye a striped shirt.)

yeah, this is becuase looks DO matter.

Women are visually based like men are when it comes to mate selection, contrary to the lies this board and phony "gurus" promote.

 

[st_99]

Definitely agree with the toned decent body part... Sure I've seen out of shape guys with pretty decent looking chicks but you can't depend on that, some people hit the lottery too.

When I hook up with a chick that has a slamm'n body I tend to ignore a lot of her character flaws because I want to keep hitt'n that. I would assume the same goes for women, if you're body looks really good she will put up with your **** to. True though, if you want to keep her around for a while, you gotta have a least a little game.

 

[God_of_getting_layed]

Heh, don't even start, man. If you want to go add your own shıtty little looks-matter thread to the compost heap in Anything Else, be my guest...but it's pretty pathetic to try to slip in some random Pro-AFC comment in someone else's thread to try to stir shıt up.

Im just providing relevant and accurate information to this thread. Since its relevant, how can you say Im starting sh1T?