Awhile ago i read about a very interesting technique about stepping forwaerd two steps then stepping back one, once you have a girl interested in you. Like you advance to kissing a girl then u hold back a little so she wants u more. I tried to search for info about this technique because i forgot some of the details so if anyone has a link or knows what im talking about please help me out with the details... thanks alot for any help
step forward two go back one
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This is increasing & amplfying attraction. Your always making progress, but everytime you make progress you stop and step back. As soon as you can tell that she likes whatever you are doing, stop!, and lean back, make her want more of it. It creates a void and space that wants more. The best type is when getting physical with her. Hope that helps.
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This is the dumbest thing David DeAngelo ever came up with, but bless the man for thinking so hard to come up with metaphors like this.
SUPPOSE that you were a busy man with an interesting life who got laid a lot and had a bunch of woman pursuing him. Just SUPPOSE that for a moment.
Now imagine that you're a girl interacting with such a man. Sometimes he'd be unavailable, sometimes he would be preoccupied, sometimes he would treat you to his presence.
It would SEEM like he was "pushing" and "pulling" you.
It's really a gigantic statement about your social value and self-worth. If you're just plain old available all the time, you can't be worth very much.
So David DeAngelo teaches this so that people can try to SIMULATE high social value, but in fact it's a lot less complicated to just HAVE high social value to begin with.
The pushing and pulling will then happen automatically. (Although come to think of it, I still do keep a mental tab in my head... a score of sorts for anyone I interact with... to make sure I'm not being too available or too unavailable... one day, I'll probably even stop doing that... it already happens mostly automatically)
SUPPOSE that you were a busy man with an interesting life who got laid a lot and had a bunch of woman pursuing him. Just SUPPOSE that for a moment.
Now imagine that you're a girl interacting with such a man. Sometimes he'd be unavailable, sometimes he would be preoccupied, sometimes he would treat you to his presence.
It would SEEM like he was "pushing" and "pulling" you.
It's really a gigantic statement about your social value and self-worth. If you're just plain old available all the time, you can't be worth very much.
So David DeAngelo teaches this so that people can try to SIMULATE high social value, but in fact it's a lot less complicated to just HAVE high social value to begin with.
The pushing and pulling will then happen automatically. (Although come to think of it, I still do keep a mental tab in my head... a score of sorts for anyone I interact with... to make sure I'm not being too available or too unavailable... one day, I'll probably even stop doing that... it already happens mostly automatically)