As I get back into the dating game (mainly in a few weeks when I hit it hard), I have to address one of my fears.
I have a fear of STD's like anyone else. And one thing I was thining about is how I actually don't necessarily like a girl giving me a BJ.
Partly because it takes me a while to get off, but the other part is I have a fear of contracting herpes this way.
Which leads to my ignorance, and I haven't researched it yet.
I know obviously a girl with herpes cold sores on her mouth can easily give herpes to you when she does oral on you. Is this the predominant way in which it's transferred to people?
Sorry to put fear into people but I had a scare once, it wasn't herpes but it was after oral from a girl. If I was more comfortable I'd tell more about it.
Maybe I should later (in fact I may have an old post on it). In which case I already blurted it out.
Just wondering.
I have a fear of STD's like anyone else. And one thing I was thining about is how I actually don't necessarily like a girl giving me a BJ.
Partly because it takes me a while to get off, but the other part is I have a fear of contracting herpes this way.
Which leads to my ignorance, and I haven't researched it yet.
I know obviously a girl with herpes cold sores on her mouth can easily give herpes to you when she does oral on you. Is this the predominant way in which it's transferred to people?
Sorry to put fear into people but I had a scare once, it wasn't herpes but it was after oral from a girl. If I was more comfortable I'd tell more about it.
Maybe I should later (in fact I may have an old post on it). In which case I already blurted it out.
Just wondering.