STD-Any Ideas On How To Handle This One?

[latebacon]

About July-Aug last year I was tested and cleared of all STD's. I had one partner for about 2-3 months in that time who was inexperienced.

In late December, I started seeing two girls as fVck buddies although I think one sees it as a bit more.

I am certain one of these girls infected me with Chlamydia which is a bacterial infection which can lead to infertility if left. It is easily treated with a course of antibiotics.

I have spoken to one of the girls who insisits she has never had an STD. I think she was the one but I was discreet, told her about the other girl, and told her to get tested.

I haven't spoken to the girl who is keener on me yet. I have to see her at dance classes and I'm currently waiting for her call.

To complicate matters, I dated another girl last week who seems very keen on me and I have a high interest in her.

I am dating her tomorrow night. Luckily, she made me wait for sex on the first date. How do I handle it, if as I anticipate, things get a bit hot and steamy tomorrow and I have to stop her?

I would like to be honest with this girl but I don't want to blow myself out of the water before we've started, so to speak.

Any suggestions would be appreciated.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Tell the two f-buddies to get tested. Get rid of your VD with doctor prescribed antibiotics. Don't have sex with the girl tomorrow night. Wait until you're finished with the 7 day treatment or 1 day treatment depending on the medication you're given. There is no need for the girl that you're dating to know about your STD, unless you've had any type of sex with her.

No big deal.

 

[latebacon]

I'm not experienced with STD's. Never had one.

I've fVcked about 50 different chicks in my life. Whether that's experienced or not I don't know but I think I've got some idea.

I have told one girl and will undoubtedly tell the other which may mean she burns me. I've gotta cop that.

I believe I'm mature but I haven't ever encountered a situation where I am the one who is backing down in a sexual situation. Therin lies my inexperience. How do I do that discreetly without giving away my STD?

 

[ER!C L!VE]

I've had crabs once and chlamydia twice. Dood, it's not worth the risk. You don' t need that bad karma in your life. Besides, If she's really digging you, she'll wait seven days.

I gave my gf chlamydia. I drove us both down to Mexico, bought antibiotics, put the drug into different capsules, told her they were vitamins and I wanted her to take them every day. I didn't have sex with her for a week. We were both cured after that.

I'm sure this thread will be sent to Health and Fitness soon.

 

[latebacon]

I think that helps. I'll come up with something. The doctor told me today he's given me the wrong antibiotics so i have to go and get another course.

I'll think of something to slow things down tomorrow night.

Cheers

 

[KarmaSutra]

Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
I've had crabs once and chlamydia twice. Dood, it's not worth the risk. You don' t need that bad karma in your life. Besides, If she's really digging you, she'll wait seven days.

I gave my gf chlamydia. I drove us both down to Mexico, bought antibiotics, put the drug into different capsules, told her they were vitamins and I wanted her to take them every day. I didn't have sex with her for a week. We were both cured after that.

I'm sure this thread will be sent to Health and Fitness soon.

But the question remains, did you drink the mexican water?

 

[Desdinova]

I'm sure this thread will be sent to Health and Fitness soon.

Good idea

 

[penkitten]

no sex until after the meds are finished and you should probally wait a few weeks.

then no more unprotected sex unless you want to catch more stds.

anyone you recently had sex with needs tested and antibotics too.

dont tell the new chick anything yet, and if you have to say no to sex, tell her you want to be friends first, or you dont have sex on the first few dates.

 

[prosemont]

Originally posted by ER!C L!VE
I've had crabs once and chlamydia twice. Dood, it's not worth the risk. You don' t need that bad karma in your life. Besides, If she's really digging you, she'll wait seven days.

I gave my gf chlamydia. I drove us both down to Mexico, bought antibiotics, put the drug into different capsules, told her they were vitamins and I wanted her to take them every day. I didn't have sex with her for a week. We were both cured after that.

I'm sure this thread will be sent to Health and Fitness soon. [/QUOTE

haha. That's some funny shiite. Here's what I did in a similar circumstance where I had a couple FBs and a GF and got it from an FB and must have passed it around. I told the FBs that I had it and that they needed to get checked. No big deal.

With the GF, however, here's what I did: went to one doctor who diagnosed it and gave me meds, then I went to another doc at another clinic who also diagnosed it and gave me meds. Then I saw GF and said ... geesh, went to the doctor who said I had a urinary tract infection and gave us each these pills to take. No sex for a week. That I already had the pills for her seemed to completely satisfy her that it wasn't a big deal.

Anyway, be sure you tell everyone you may have infected. You don't want some chick to be sterile for life just because you didn't have backbone enough to tell her. And, just dont have sex with the new girl yet. You can wait a freaking week and half to do that ... then be sure to use condoms with her for sometime after that until you are sure that you are cured.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

well first off, START USING A CONDOM!!!

Second, I had that burning sensation when I pissed...

Two pills were given to me after I tested positive for bladder infection(the clap)... tested clean when I went in for the test the next day

Start telling these girls that you don't trust yourself, that you've tested positive before for STD's when you slip on the condom...

Joke about it, if that's going to make it easier on the girl

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Originally posted by ethnomethodologist

Start telling these girls that you don't trust yourself, that you've tested positive before for STD's when you slip on the condom...

This is a bit off topic of me, but telling a girl that you've tested positive for STD's in the past just before banging her for the first time is not a good idea.

 

[ethnomethodologist]

Originally posted by ethnomethodologist
Joke about it, if that's going to make it easier on the girl

That's only if she wants you to ride bareback since she's on the pill.