stay with one girl.. or keep 'em in rotation?

[strong like bull]

long story short:

been seeing this girl for about a month. beautiful, 6'1" 17 yr old german exchange student. things are progressing nicely. her IL seems to stay high; she always calls me before i call her, always very receptive to setting get-togethers, etc. very receptive to kino; always asking me to spend the night, etc etc etc.

honestly, from what ive seen so far, she is LTR material. just a sweet, warm hearted girl.

at the same time, other girls have made themselves available to me. one girl in particular HB2, even knows about HB exchange student, and has asked me on several occasions: "so.. is she your -girlfriend- or are you guys just dating?"

you know what that means.

HB isnt necessarily a slut, but i know i could have fun with her.

i just dont know where i stand on seeing others. hb exchange hasnt asked me to be monogamous yet, and i know better than to ask her first. while we arent committed, i see that she is ltr material. also, i know that if i found out she was dating some other guy, id blow her off.

sort of a, treat others as you wish to be treated sort of thing.

so, what do you guys think? hb2 isnt the only option, either. a couple girls who know about my situation, call it social proof, are available.

stay true, or shag 'em all?

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

HB2 .... How ugly is she? I wouldn't be seen near a HB2, it'll fvck up your social proof fast as hell.

 

[MetalFortress]

Originally posted by strong like bull
HB2,

Err, isn't this an oxymoron?

 

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

God damn 6'1" is huge for a biatch.. Anyway you said this German exchange chick is gorgeous and you're thinking of boning a HB2? Fvck that! Whatever tickles your fancy though.. I'd stick with the German chick. Why would you wanna bang a 2 anyway!?

 

[516]

Thats what I was thinking also, but then I realized he probably means HB #2. Anyway, as long as there is no mutually exclusive relationship between you and HBExchange, then you are free to fukk other chicks, and she is free to fukk other guys.

 

[strong like bull]

516 is on the mark. by HB2 i meant HB #2. cute, but not as good as HBExchange.

and yeah, 6'1" is tall. im 6'3" and its very interesting to stand eye-to-eye with a girl =)

 

[Kraken]

I'd stick with the german chick and keep the HB as a reserve.

 

[NewMan]

Negative.

Go for both.

Don't just stick with one woman god damit - have multiple on the go - then you can make the choice of who the best is for you.

 

[princelydeeds]

Why on earth would you want to limit yourself. Forget everything you have been taught. If you can have both, keep both. You are a man. Its ok to have wants needs and desires. Sometimes it takes more than one person to fulfill those desires. Do what makes you happy. Personally, I like having about a 4-5 chick rotation, It suits me. Plus Im always looking to replace the bottom chicks.

 

[InLawsHateMe]

Germans know how to f*ck!

You're young, keep em coming.... why just one?

 

[khanboy]

Dude, answer the following question and the answer to yours will become clear:

"Would you rather spend ten nights making love to the same beautiful woman, or a night each with ten different beautiful women?" - Nick Casanova (Machiavellian's Guide to Womanizing)

 

[strong like bull]

so... the general idea is,

date several to find out which is best for me?

then id assume is it wrong of me to treat her as i wish to be treated, as far as assuming monogamy.

this is where the old me, and new me get into battle. ive always wanted one, committed, loyal passionate relationship. the old me wants to play mr good guy and take it slow; assume monogamy etc. the new me (which surfaced after finding sosuave.com) wants to date 5 girls at one, banging all of 'em and then maybe decide which id like to be my number one.

bah.

HBExchange is coming over to my place friday (tomorrow) night. saturday i work with HB#2. and will probably see some of those other girls. old me wants to focus on one, new me wants to have hbexchange friday night, then one of those other girls saturday night, and maybe a nother friday.

BAH

 

[iqqi]

if i was

Originally posted by strong like bull
LTR material. just a sweet, warm hearted girl.

to you, and you did some sh!t like start seeing someone else anyways, i'd assume that i wasn't what you were looking for, and i'd kick your silly ass to the curb.


that's just me doh.

 

[strong like bull]

heres the question though, iqqi.

would you let those feelings develop without telling me? regardless of whether id see you as ltr material, would you automatically assume monogamy from the getgo? would you drop all of your candidates, for me? if you had enough care for me to be upset at the idea of me dating others.. wouldnt you confront me about it?

that reminds me. being an exchange student, she wont be here for long, anyways. she leaves in June. heh, that doesnt make her LTR material, but the question remains.

 

[iqqi]

1. do you want her to be exclusive to you?
2. do you want her, or them? (if you had to choose)

its all about you baby.

make sure you aren't playing games with yourself.

 

[khanboy]

Man, from your posts it seems as if what you want deep down is a LTR. In order to get that, you have to be exclusive, so do that. Do not do things a certain way because it is the sosuave way, do them because they are your way.

 

[madgame]

being an exchange student, she wont be here for long, anyways.

I was gonna say that. If you really "fell in love" with her though and I assume you guy are in college, you guys could see each other 50% of the year, cause (at least in germany) college students have like 6 months of classes and 6 months of free time :-D ...I know somebody whos been in a long distance LTR for over a year already and its working for them, but umm..I dont wanna push you into that kind of thing cause its probably really ****ed up and complicated, and from what I can tell chicks are even complicated if they`re not in a long distance relationship ;-)

Anyways, where in germany is she from? You could handle this situation like a real pimp and pass her down to me in june..like a couple of shoes or something :-D

just playing man lol but where exactlyi n german is she from though?Id reallyl ike to know dat. -peaCe-