Starting approaching again, went 0-7... bad night but was still fun

[judoguy]

I went to a local shopping mall and did some approaches yesterday.

First approach was decent, but it went downhill from there....

First approach was an HB 8

(In Hollister)

Me: Hey what’s that look for
Her: (Smiling) haha
Me: What’s your name?
Her: Lana…
Me: haha , so do you always hang out here trying to pick up guys ?
Her: No ! I’m waiting for my cousin
Me: haha yea rite….
Her: I am
Me: So how old are you ?
Her: 19
Me: where you go to school
Her : blah blah
Me: ok well I wont hold you up any longer, I gotta meet my friend at Grand Lux Café, we should hang out sometime, lemme get your number?
Her: Let me get yours….
Me: I don’t answer numbers I Do not know… jus gimme yours and ill text you real quick…
Her: How about you just give me yours?
Me: ok… fine ill put it in…
Her: ok ill text you

(Needless to say no text)

( 2 set walking)

Me: Look at what that girl is wearing, would you ever dress like that ?
Her: Yea its cute !
Me: HAHA i knew you girls had no fashion sense
Her: Riittttte, bye

(Hottie eastern european girl eating)
Hb10
Me: Hey , nice purse.
Her: Rolls eyes, no response.
Me: Ive seen like 10 other girls with that same purse.
Her: *Disgusted Look*
Me: I was just joking, why you look so sad?
Her: *takes food and leaves*

(4 set, in hot topic)

I am looking at belts and she walks by wit her friends and says, life sucks, i Need a man. I thought she was saying this in reference to me, so I thought its go time.

* I grab a schoolgirl skirt, hold it up and say.
Me: Werent you the girl that said she needed a man?
Her: yea....*looking around* at her friends
Me: You should def. wear this if you want to get guys
Her: Um, I want a real guy, Ya know, one who likes girl for personality....* As she walks away w/ her friends*

This girl lingered around for a few seconds, I couldnt come up w/ a response and then her and her friends eventually bounced

My last attempt was with this sunglass hut lady. I flirted w/ her, asked for her number and got told she didnt give it to customers and ejected.


Later that night I called up a "sure thing" got in the middle of a ****ty handjob and then her *****y friend kept calling her and she told me ... it would be worth the wait and went and "rescued " her friend from my wing. ****

****ty night.. any tips?

 

[jj123]

props for going in and taking charge...remember rejection is all part of the game...so where was this? menlo mall? freehold mall? bridgewater mall? quakerbridge mall?

 

[judoguy]

Garden state plaza

 

[jj123]

Garden state plaza

ahhh cool. hey pm sent.

 

[hello2k1]

HB10's tend to open a lot better to neg openers... treat a 10 like a 5 and a 5 like a 10

 

[Jonblood]

Wow, mad jersey dudes. Repin' bergen county?

 

[mikeyb]

Um, I want a real guy, Ya know, one who likes girl for personality....*

Hahaha. I thought the skirt holding thing was pretty funny actually. Fun night indeed :rockon: .

 

[jj123]

Wow, mad jersey dudes. Repin' bergen county?

201? I had a friend from high school in Englewood cliffs...but he moved to PA. Yup Jersey we go hard

 

[Bonafide]

lol i would of offed myself

 

[Prodigy746]

damn hb10 was kinda harsh...

 

[trent81]

I went to a club last night, started dancing with myself and the guys I was with started dancing too. We started making fun of each other. I was laughing, having a good time. Some little bitvch comes up and says "Wanna dance?" she lets me finger her on the dance floor. I fuvk her in the ass in my car. I didn't do anything but show up to the club and more importantly went to dance.

 

[Scars]

I went to a local shopping mall and did some approaches yesterday.

First approach was decent, but it went downhill from there....

First approach was an HB 8

(In Hollister)

Me: Hey what’s that look for
Her: (Smiling) haha
Me: What’s your name?
Her: Lana…
Me: haha , so do you always hang out here trying to pick up guys ?
Her: No ! I’m waiting for my cousin
Me: haha yea rite….
Her: I am
Me: So how old are you ?
Her: 19
Me: where you go to school
Her : blah blah
Me: ok well I wont hold you up any longer, I gotta meet my friend at Grand Lux Café, we should hang out sometime, lemme get your number?
Her: Let me get yours….
Me: I don’t answer numbers I Do not know… jus gimme yours and ill text you real quick…
Her: How about you just give me yours?
Me: ok… fine ill put it in…
Her: ok ill text you

No rapport. Pick-up was boring and average. You asked for her number when there was no attraction and then gave in and gave away your number after you said you wouldn't.

Solution: Build more rapport. Open confidently, tease a bit, bs talk and then move the conversation into a sexual state using subtext, kino a bit, make sure there is some clear signs of interest and then ask for the number. You should of been able to read this girls body language to know she wasn't interested.

(Needless to say no text)

( 2 set walking)

Me: Look at what that girl is wearing, would you ever dress like that ?
Her: Yea its cute !
Me: HAHA i knew you girls had no fashion sense
Her: Riittttte, bye

You insulted her. You lost the F in C+F.

(Hottie eastern european girl eating)
Hb10
Me: Hey , nice purse.
Her: Rolls eyes, no response.
Me: Ive seen like 10 other girls with that same purse.
Her: *Disgusted Look*
Me: I was just joking, why you look so sad?
Her: *takes food and leaves*

For an HB10 you're going to need a better opener than "Hey, nice purse", unless you're extremely good looking or something. This is a girl who probably gets hit on everyday by creeps, and she probably knows that you have absolutely no interest in her purse, what man honestly would?

(4 set, in hot topic)

I am looking at belts and she walks by wit her friends and says, life sucks, i Need a man. I thought she was saying this in reference to me, so I thought its go time.

* I grab a schoolgirl skirt, hold it up and say.
Me: Werent you the girl that said she needed a man?
Her: yea....*looking around* at her friends
Me: You should def. wear this if you want to get guys
Her: Um, I want a real guy, Ya know, one who likes girl for personality....* As she walks away w/ her friends*

This girl lingered around for a few seconds, I couldnt come up w/ a response and then her and her friends eventually bounced

My last attempt was with this sunglass hut lady. I flirted w/ her, asked for her number and got told she didnt give it to customers and ejected.

With better delivery you could of made this work. You should of held the skirt up to yourself, it would of been funnier and shows your are confident with your sexuality and then went up to and said "I heard you were looking for a man", you're pretty much guaranteed to get laughs. This girl was obviously having a bad day, she needed a laugh, not a neg.

Later that night I called up a "sure thing" got in the middle of a ****ty handjob and then her *****y friend kept calling her and she told me ... it would be worth the wait and went and "rescued " her friend from my wing. ****

****ty night.. any tips?

Like I said earlier, try and work on your delivery a bit more. Also work on building rapport and try and keep a sexual frame. Learn the difference between a NEG and an INSULT. And above all, stop trying so hard. Let it flow naturally. Good luck man.

 

[judoguy]

Thanks for the tips scars. I agree with everything you said except the part about the HB 10. I was trying to neg her by saying, "nice purse. I've seen like 10 girls with the same one". I guess my delivery was off... oh well

Keep on truckin...