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[jag]

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Well im a recovering AFC,,and i decided enough is enough...im not gona get girls, get laid....and have fun!

now ive been on and off with these things..i mean...soemtimes...i pull it off sometimes i just chicken out and turn into a chump again.....plus i never really go out to look for girls....so anwayyz

today i decided to have a goal in life....every week i should talk to at least 4 girls 2 numbers and ask at least one of them out....im gona start small then gradually increase.

so anwyayz heres the first day...

June 7, 2005


1.)Natalie- hb 7.5- Met in friends school(i sat-in his class..for some reason the teacher let me)

jag: while takling to my friend..i notice this girl who came in class...got a strong EC .then.....not surprisingly..she sits beside me.....well........i gues its also coz thats the only seat available....but anwayzy
haha

jag: hey! wats ur name
natalie: smiles..natalie urs?
jag: its jag.....
natalie: is that ur nickname?
jag: well people sometimes DO call me hottie, cutie, or on days when im exceptionally hot...bradd pitt...but yea.... any will do really
hottie: laughs....haha ohh ok.i see haha...so what high school did u come from?
jag: ----- ....and u?
natalie: ._____ then the teacher comes in....so didnt get to talk much after.....
but then i see her write something..and i tried the old.....hand writing trick.....

jag: intrseting......
natalie: huh?
jag:ur hand writting.....
natalie: what u mean?
jag: well they say.....that a persons hand writting says a lot about their personality
natalie: ohhhhkaaayyyy.......

at that point i was pretyy bummed...not exactly the response i expected..so anwyayz....we jsut started listening to the teacher....then we would talk from time to time...jsut small talk.....got her to laugh a few more times..then.....finallyu said bye during dissmissal.....

heres my own review for what happnd...and i hope u guys can comment on this...and give me some tips..

good
1. was confident
2. got a her to laugh a few times
bad
1. ****y but not funny enough
2. talkd too fast
3. got the...ohhhkayyy? response
4. transition when talking wasnt that smooth imho
5. didnt get her number..(it just......went out of my mind...forgot to...)


Later that day

2.) ????-hb8--- met in cofee shop
so i was in the mall...looking for girls....then i see a group of girls sitting on the cofee shop where i was.......there were 4 of them......3 went somewhere..which left one.....so i decided to make a move.......

i didnt think about anything..i just........went there........and sat with her

hb8- looks at me with a surprised look
jag: heyy! watsup!
hb8- smiles..then says..hey....umm...someones sitting there
jag: yea i know...but i noticed that ur friends left u alone so i decided to entertain u for a while..
hb8: smiles..haha thanks
jag: so wats ur name
hb8:______
...........was hoping she would ask mine.......but i just went straight to....and what school do u come from?
hb8: ______ u?
jag: ______
hb8: oh yeah?? cool my sister studies tehre
jag: cool..wat course is she in?
hb8: lblalblblalba
hb8: my bf studies there too
jag: oh yeah? what years he in?
hb8: 4th
jag: woww..haha..big gap
hb8: yeah..........silence for a few seconds then
jag: so how old is ur sister?
hb8: 20....
jag: and u?
hb8: im also 19....
jag: youngest?
hb8: nahh....2nd eldest...i have 4 sisters
jag: cool! so whats it like......coz i have no sisters at all in my family....
hb8: all guys?
jag: well ....3 guys 1 fag
hb8: chuckles..ohh ok
jag: so yea...wats it like?
hb8: its alright
jag: waiting for her to say more....i could kinda tell she wanted to say a lot omre things.....coz i can see her lips..like kinda shaking so i figure she was nervous..which is a good sign??i think???
jag: haha...u seem pretty nervous
hb8: hahah.....no...im not....puts her head down a bit..
jagbull****) i just smile.....a little moment of silence...so i jmped to the topic..so what do u do for fun?
hb8: movies..music.....

then all of a sudden her friends..who was actually her sisters comes in....all 3 of them..plus 3 other chicks.....and well the chair is only like 4 so....i kinda panick......then my order finally arrives at THEIR table..so im like.....?!??!? ohh no its ok..here sit....

jag: so which one of u studies in _____
sister: i do
jag: ohh ok..cool i study there too...ill see u in school then...

then i turn to hb8
jag: nice talking to u....
hb8: u 2!smiles....good sign i guess?


good:
1. showed confidence
2. talked with transition again not the best...but fairly good imho
3. i felt really alpha...coz i could feel her shyness....and she smiled alot.....and i duno what this is supposed to mean..but i noticed...her lips were kinda shaking a bit.....well it moved a lot

bad:
1. forgot her name
2. couldnt think of a comeback about the bf
3. wasnt funny enough?? but then again..she did seem instrested in me...plus i didnt want to force the jokes
4. didnt know what to do when friends arrived
5. again didnt numberclose..but she has a bf...... so i duno

I need feedbacks here guys..tnx!

 

[nonstop]

deja vu

 

[jag]

hahha well what happnd was....yesterday i posted this here..but then i thought about it...and transfered to the bootcamp in the matures section...but ofcourse..i wasnt supposed to post there...so they told me to transfer it back....kapish??
hehe anwyayz....feedback??!?!? what should i have done??

 

[jag]

.still wondering what i shouldve done and tips , etc.
i have a party tom. night..soi need to know if im doing it right or not

 

[nonstop]

it sounds like you're on the right track to me.

just keep at it

 

[jag]

tnx dude..but my main problem is...how shouldve i acted when all her sisters came in..and hwo should i act with the "my bf studies tehre too"

 

[nonstop]

just don't give a shyt.

pretend she just made her bf up or imagine him as an AFC

tell yourself that she's after a real man like yourself.

The don juan that you are, her life would be nothing if you weren't in it. You're better than any man and that includes her bf.
If she really has one.

as for her sisters just introduce yourself and get to know them, be the man. I think you did anyway didn't you?

be the man, be the don juan and don't give a shyt.

 

[jag]

actually i didnt..hehe hehe...oh well..her loss..

tnx though for the response

 

[jag]

so im back...and heres my apporach for the day.....


2.) Crystal- hb 7.5- met in cofee shop
i saw this pretyyc ute girl in a cofee shop...so grabbed my balls...and went up to her...it was pretyy cool actually ....all i did was.....get my phone....go to the window....and i asked for her number from the outside..(she was inside the cofee shop)...she coudlnt understand me for a while..but its cool...she told me to come in...and she said..she didnt know her phone number....

jag: eyyy!watsup!
crystal: eyy. i dont konw my number..but if u could just give me ur number..then ill miss call ....so u get my number too....
jag: aryt..fine deal
i just kinda fluffed talk for a bit...and i dont know WHAT happnd....it wasnt smooth at all...i was talking too fast...etc. she could add me in my ym...
jag: yea sure..(stupidddddd!!! use the stalker lineee!!)
but yea...it didnt go smooth..i duno ...i guess it was too spontaneous..usualy..when i approach girls..i think for a bit..then go...but this one..it was instant..anwayz....at least...my balls are bigger now...i can go up to girls without hesitation...but i wasnt smooth as i was supposd to be..oh well.....


questions:
1. so what do i do now?? well she seemd pretyy receptive...didnt see bad signs...and i think my apporach was pretyy charming maybe?? so should i email her? and ask her out?
2. btw..i later found out she has a bf.....what does that mean?

3. i lost round one..but i think the next meeting if there will be...will make it up for that...despite her having a bf...coz hes extremely chumpish.....so yea...what do u guys say?