SS is putting me off women......

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Reading sosuave over the past couple of years....

My mind is now confused and everytime I look at a HB7 or above, I remember what SS say's don't put them on a pedestal and the same thought runs through my head every time....Someone, somewhere is sick of her sh1t.

That one thought takes them off the pedestal so much that it actually puts me off them!

So I am immediately put off them no matter how hot they look. In fact the hotter they look the more trouble I know they are.

Maybe I am just jaded after the sh1t storm I went through, but I am getting the creepy feeling that they are now to be viewed as the enemy and not to be trusted or maybe I am just reading the wrong threads...

Stuff like watch your six and never believe what they say only what they do is leaving me in mass confusion.

I now talk to a pretty girl and find I don't believe a word she says!

Can reading SS too much be bad for you? Is it just better to get the basics like the laws of poon and move on?

It's all very well to have your eyes opened but the more I hear about modern western woman and her branch swinging, entitled, selfish and blameless ways the more I just don't want anything to do with them.....
 

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PeakIV said:
Reading sosuave over the past couple of years....

My mind is now confused and everytime I look at a HB7 or above, I remember what SS say's don't put them on a pedestal and the same thought runs through my head every time....Someone, somewhere is sick of her sh1t.

That one thought takes them off the pedestal so much that it actually puts me off them!

So I am immediately put off them no matter how hot they look. In fact the hotter they look the more trouble I know they are.

Maybe I am just jaded after the sh1t storm I went through, but I am getting the creepy feeling that they are now to be viewed as the enemy and not to be trusted or maybe I am just reading the wrong threads...

Stuff like watch your six and never believe what they say only what they do is leaving me in mass confusion.

I now talk to a pretty girl and find I don't believe a word she says!

Can reading SS too much be bad for you? Is it just better to get the basics like the laws of poon and move on?

It's all very well to have your eyes opened but the more I hear about modern western woman and her branch swinging, entitled, selfish and blameless ways the more I just don't want anything to do with them.....
Absolutely, read the basics and move on out and do what works for you and what suits you. its too easy to get wrapped up in other people train wrecks and take their bitterness and let it cloud your views.
women arent the enemy, they arent the goal, they are just women doing what they do, once you understand the way they work, your life wilbe that bit easier
 

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Be more selective about what you read here. Limit the time spent here.

The nature of this site will attract a lot of bitter and negative people.

Use the site for what it was intended. Get inspired, get motivated and then go out and "do".
 

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When you get a vaccine against a virus do you whine at the needle for being sharp?


Sosuave is the needle....my posts, danger, (.)(.), brad, arcbound, sarcastic sam, rollo, atom, some others are the vaccine.

don't be mad at the needle for being sharp...it needs to be sharp to cut through the thick skin of ignorance that society creates :)
 

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PeakIV said:
Reading sosuave over the past couple of years....
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I am getting the creepy feeling that they are now to be viewed as the enemy
Is that a big surprise, most men here, especially in the "mature" man section, hate women :crackup:
 

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don't be mad at the needle for being sharp
I'm not mad at the needle for being sharp, it's just that the needle has put me off going near the jungle where you catch the disease. Don't go into the jungle and get sick then you won't need the needle.

Is that a big surprise, most men here, especially in the "mature" man section, hate women
I don't hate women, viewing someone as the enemy is not the same as hating them.
I just want to keep them at arms distance as they can be dangerous and I am also getting to the stage of I can't be bothered.....
 

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Zarky said:
Is that a big surprise, most men here, especially in the "mature" man section, hate women :crackup:
tough day at the homeless shelter Zarky warky? :up:
 

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The problem is that Romanticism has been deeply ingrained into your brain. Trust me, it's not easy to undo all that conditioning.

Just take a look at how "courtship" is played out in the natural world. How is it played out in the world of most mammals? In wolves, in elephants, in lions, in moose and in apes?

We have a cerebral layer to our brains that animals don't have. Because of this, we overthink the simple natural, evolutionary forces at work when it comes to sexual relations and many other aspects of our lives.

There's nothing "bad" about reality being what it is. It just is. The problem is that your deeply ingrained conditioning is judging your perceptions.

When two wolves fight for the right to a fvck a female, do they really stop to ponder whether what they do is right or wrong? No, they just do it.

That's not to suggest that we start acting like wolves and fight to the death in order to get some pvssy. But we should understand that there are evolutionary forces behind our sexual desires.

The truth may sometimes seem harsh. But it's sure better than ignorance, isn't it?
 

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Good, I was put off by women too for some time, take that time and focus your energy on yourself. Then the right women will eventually come around, at least some right nows.
 

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Burroughs said:
Sosuave is the needle....my posts, danger, (.)(.), brad, arcbound, sarcastic sam, rollo, atom, some others are the vaccine.
Ahahahahahahahahaa, this must be the funniest post of 2013.

Look at that list...

Your posts ? ArcBound? He can't even legally drink, right?

Don't you compare yourself with Rollo, burgers. You are not even close.
 

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You've only been exposed to these red pill truths for a couple of years vs your 40+ years of blue pill brainwashing. Of course it isn't gonna go down well when your lifetime fantasy gets shattered. You're just moving through stages of grief, and eventually you'll reach acceptance.
 

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Your PHD loan balloon payments getting to you Boily boily? :):):)
 

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Boilermaker said:
Don't you compare yourself with Rollo, burgers. You are not even close.
True, Rollo posts what's known as "content."

Threads along the lines of "Wow, aren't all women worthless *****s," which make up about 85% of the threads posted in the 'mature' forum, aren't exactly content.

In fact, of all the boards I've ever been on, and I've been on a lot, this is the board that I would put my money on having the most FBI analysts lurking on it, just waiting for some George Sodini or Gunwitch-like guy to spill the beans that he's about to shoot up some woman's gym somewhere.

Lack of sex does awful, awful things to mens' minds. :crackup:

I read a book on Jack the Ripper awhile back and it cited evidence that he had a micropenis. His inability to screw women literally caused him to go nuts and stab them with a big knife -- a metaphorical phallus. Many of the guys on this board "f*ck" women by calling them names anonymously rather than actually being able to f*ck them literally.

I'd be really interested to know what these guys look like. Really interested.
 

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At least you can tell who on here is bitter and/or just pretending by way of theories and no experience to back up their words. The basics are phenomenal lessons that can be found in the stickied threads and outside of the forums in the tips or articles (the same ones I have not had to pay anyone for). Keep those in mind as well as the notion that you NEED to keep yourself and your heart protected as was taught here.

Try not to be like numerous posters on this site who are out of touch with reality, making the same mistakes repeatedly and failing to gain any insight as to why things keep souring for them! If you've got no confidence that is one thing that needs to be addressed until it is spot on. If you keep going to these same bar and club venues and even free online dating services, do you think you will meet quality women more than half the time? My own personal interactions in bars and clubs have told me NO. Practice and refine yourself and you will get to where you need to be at this point in your life.

Am I going to tell you to flee the country in search of "better" women? Fvck NO. These guys saying that barely have any self-esteem and credibility to begin with, so much so that they are bringing their own flaws and baggage to their next destinations. Hell, I just leave the country for work assignments sometimes, not to seek out wives. I have plenty of opportunities right here. Almost anytime I go out the women are very open and friendly when I open them in public, plenty are glad I acknowledged them and want to talk with me. Yet I still hear people saying that it's weird to do this in public and it won't lead to anything. Really? These are the same guys who get stuck in mid-brain with all the "advice" and "techniques" they read about and try to apply and end up freezing up/lucking out and putting on a false front... Which leads to excuses and placing the blame on the opposite sex entirely. As if they have not learned how to filter hoes from decent women. I guess that goes with the no experience thing.

Keep a life outside of the world wide web and definitely avoid the pitfalls of closed-mindedness. Several opportunities exist and not just with women but throughout your entire life.
 

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Zarky:

You seem to be singing from the same exact tune lately. I get the point, but I don't buy it.

"You don't like the way American women are? Oh, that must be because you aren't banging them."

isn't much of an argument. I have heard that too many times, it's a little juvenile to say the least. Our prolific bb makes a new thread every other day

saying pretty much the same thing to men who like to think a little more than 2 seconds on a subject. "Oh, yeah, you are stupid, and you are not getting

laid! Hmmph! "

The problem is obviously more complicated than that.

Foreign women provide an interesting contrast, not because they are easier to game ( if you have ever gamed a foreign chick, you'll know that, and I have banged chicks from every continent in the world because I used to travel a lot),

but because they are genuinely different.

The ways they are different are topic of another post. My time today is out.
 

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Boilermaker said:
Zarky:

You seem to be singing from the same exact tune lately. I get the point, but I don't buy it.

"You don't like the way American women are? Oh, that must be because you aren't banging them."

isn't much of an argument. I have heard that too many times.

The problem is obviously more complicated than that.

Foreign women provide an interesting contrast, not because they are easier to game ( if you have ever gamed a foreign chick, you'll know that, and I have banged chicks from every continent in the world because I used to travel a lot),

but because they are genuinely different.

The ways they are different are topic of another post. My time today is out.
Foreign women put American women to shame.

Here is my wife of 2 years..happy as hell. Never needing advice in this place that is for sure.

 

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Burroughs said:
When you get a vaccine against a virus do you whine at the needle for being sharp?


Sosuave is the needle....my posts, danger, (.)(.), brad, arcbound, sarcastic sam, rollo, atom, some others are the vaccine.

don't be mad at the needle for being sharp...it needs to be sharp to cut through the thick skin of ignorance that society creates :)
Is it a vaccine or is it poison?
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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