Spotting Perfectionistic FANTASY-WORLD chicks

[blayde]

Guys, this comes directly from the school of PAIN.
Hopefully, it will help YOU avoid that school.

I'm an experienced dater(an understatement). I've learned the ropes of avoiding airheads, couch potatos, users, selfish types, but there's another more DEADLY type to avoid and she's hard to spot.

This is the female living in a fantasy world where she DREAMS. She's a dreamer. I'm still working on it, but here's a few signals:

1. You have a very strong relationship, good rapport, and chemistry but she's always unsatisfied and in her fantasy world is convinced there's a "perfect" guy somewhere out there.

2. She's never totally satisfied with YOU.

3. She is perfectionistic about meaningless things(translation, she worships at her local mall)

4. She's attracted to the WRONG types of things in people:

5. What you HAVE is never enough. Her mantra is MORE, BETTER, !!

Guys, the mystery/fantasy thing can be manipulated by a skillful dude, but you will not change this type of woman. All you can do is identify her as soon as possible, and walk on by.

 

[Imbrondir]

LOL

Sounds like me
(Except the female part)



Alright, I'm on my way of waking up - But I see your point. I'd be like impossible to please in my worst days...

 

[Miles Davis]

thank you blayde, this is the type of messed up woman I was in an 8 month relationship with. The first 2-3 months, things might seem peachy, but look out because slowly things change. Another thing about this type of women: They make you feel like the bad guy whenever you bring up anything REALISTIC, because it clashes with their fantasy world! Or, what you say will go in one ear and out the other.

Next time around I'll be sure to screen these types out.

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Interesting. Can you guys give more examples of the kind of actions these girls take? Describe in more detail please. Don't think I've come across one yet (pun intended ).