Just had a couple of unanswered questions that have been on my mind lately..
#1. Do the sports make the body, or does the body make the sport? What I mean is I've always been blessed with really strong/large legs & shoulders. Is this because most of my physical activities revolved around track, bike riding, and basketball growing up? (Upper-body-friendly, full contact based sports like football & wrestling were off-limits for me growing up because my dad was afraid of expensive injuries *sigh*).
Or, is it more about genetics so basketball came easier for me because of them? What are the sports you've done during growth spurts, and where are your strengths?
#2. I noticed twice when I dressed in tight shirts around girls I had a rapport with they grabbed my triceps VERY deliberately.
Is this some ancient female technique related to measuring body-fat & muscle size ratios?
Both times they did it mid-conversation and it completely caught me off guard. My best prepared response to this in the future is to do something like grabbing her arm immediately while flexing my tricep, but using the counter grab to smokescreen the fact I'm not flexing to impress I'm just imitating her to be funny.
What's your interpretation, is this standard stuff? Are they expecting me to flex and I should just do it?.
#1. Do the sports make the body, or does the body make the sport? What I mean is I've always been blessed with really strong/large legs & shoulders. Is this because most of my physical activities revolved around track, bike riding, and basketball growing up? (Upper-body-friendly, full contact based sports like football & wrestling were off-limits for me growing up because my dad was afraid of expensive injuries *sigh*).
Or, is it more about genetics so basketball came easier for me because of them? What are the sports you've done during growth spurts, and where are your strengths?
#2. I noticed twice when I dressed in tight shirts around girls I had a rapport with they grabbed my triceps VERY deliberately.
Is this some ancient female technique related to measuring body-fat & muscle size ratios?
Both times they did it mid-conversation and it completely caught me off guard. My best prepared response to this in the future is to do something like grabbing her arm immediately while flexing my tricep, but using the counter grab to smokescreen the fact I'm not flexing to impress I'm just imitating her to be funny.
What's your interpretation, is this standard stuff? Are they expecting me to flex and I should just do it?.