Spontaneous Playful Originality. Show some on a FIRST date, and get a SECOND.

[vicki]

Ok, you're confident, articulate, a man of mystery, well dressed, funny, and not needy. You've learned some of the basics of the attraction game.

But its not QUITE enough. See, robotically following some of those guidelines might keep you from some of the basic faux pauxs but to keep a girl RIVETED and LOOKING forward to another date, you gotta show some originality. Something different. Totally unique. Personality. Charisma. And none of these advice things are gonna get it for you.

Here's what I'm talking about. A momento that a girl CANT forget if she tried when she thinks of you! Something playful and childlike.

1. You go to the movies and when you go to get popcorn you return with a toy ring from those gum machines and ask her to marry you(in a goofy voice)

2. Youre at a restaurant and suddenly you ask her to say everything backward for the next ten minutes. Make it a challenge. Pie like you do?

3. Youre driving and you put in a barry manilow tape and sing really loud acting like youre really into it. Wait untilt he end of the night to tell her you were kidding.

4. You pass a roller skating rink and she remarks that she hasnt done that since she was ten. You pull in right away and go skating like little kids. If she balks, you drag her in there anyway.

5. You see a stupid old lady's hat at the mall and you buy it on the spot and insist she wear it for the rest of the night.

Make up your own and take a chance. She'll love it.

 

[bust.it]

Some great ideas there. I think I'll add on:

6. You're at a casual chinese restaurant and she says that she hasn't used chopsticks in a while (or never). Challenge her to a game of chopstick fighting over a grain of rice and see who wins.

7. (I always liked this one) You're flirting or whatnot and at some point she remarks, "kiss my ass"... so you bend down and you do. (Did this once, she LOVED it )

 

[AceyR6]

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For absolutely no reason what so ever, punch her in the face as hard as possible and say something like "how do you expect me to eat soup without an envelop?". You can't get any more damn spontaneous then that. But seriously.

Don't tell her where/what you two are gonna do on the date. Just put on a sly grin and say "now wheres the fun in me telling you" (not recommended for the first date)

If the girl has a good attitude, tell her that you two will be switching roles for the night. Ex: She has to open the door for you. She has to direct the date. You simply have to constantly complain about your wieght and think of excuses for not inviting her upstairs to your place.

 

[Ragnar]

One time I took a woman down a dark road and into the forest where I proceeded to cut her into little pieces and then......oops...wrong thread...

No. I get it. Be UNIQUE and don't be afraid to be different.

By the way I really do Love Barry Manilow. "OH mandy"

Good post by the way....