My gf and I are on really rocky ground right now and it sucks so much. Arguing for a couple of days now. Yesterdays was really bad. I need to vent really bad.
We been together for like 8 months and broke up once a couple of months ago and got back together pretty fast. Before we broke up the first time we had a couple of arguments over stupid sh#% but it was both of our faults. I would get pis*ed but the time we broke up I got so pissed because I thought everything was going good but she just got so dam$ weird and out of the blue she wanted to break up. She claimed she needed space. I gave and still give her space all the time I let her be independent dont say anything when she is with her friends every weekened all the time. She calls me way more often then I call her.
She gets out of control selfish sometimes. Overall things were going pretty well then we got in the argument about her being selfish over something stupid. She is now starting to make space I think. The first argument in this series was about her being selfish cause I needed her one night and that barley happens. It turned into her starting to say I dont want a serious thing right now I need space and I dont want to have to answer to anyone. This is all out of the blue but it was after she asked me to move in with her in july and I said ok. This is so da*n weird.
After the first argument I went down to the city to get away from her for the weekened. She must have called me like 5 times while I was away asking me when I was coming back. I came back saw her everything was all good hung out and slept together. then yesterday on the phone she started hinting big time that she was wanting to make space started using excuses and stuff so in my human nature I was like wtf. It was just weird how it was said. Got in an argument almost broke up (dont think we did) but I said if you cant help then I am done with you but she was basically saying she didnt want that. she came over and said she still wanted a relationship but not serious or serious, I have no fu$*in clue. We talked about how she doesn't like it when I get mad at her which rarley happens I know when I get pis&#d I get stupid sometimes she gets scared and I talked about how she has to stop being selfish and that we would try to work with one another to fix these stupid little problems. I think we both agreed. I guess the question is what should I do? I put a lot of time in effort into all of this. All of this sh8t is stupid. Should I become more distant with her for a while? Cause I know she is going to start to do that now for a little bit. Or should I do something else. I think the answer is to distant myself also for a little bit but I dont know if that is right considering I might have f'd up here because of me getting mad at her over something little but at the same time legitimate. Let me know fellas. Thanks.
We been together for like 8 months and broke up once a couple of months ago and got back together pretty fast. Before we broke up the first time we had a couple of arguments over stupid sh#% but it was both of our faults. I would get pis*ed but the time we broke up I got so pissed because I thought everything was going good but she just got so dam$ weird and out of the blue she wanted to break up. She claimed she needed space. I gave and still give her space all the time I let her be independent dont say anything when she is with her friends every weekened all the time. She calls me way more often then I call her.
She gets out of control selfish sometimes. Overall things were going pretty well then we got in the argument about her being selfish over something stupid. She is now starting to make space I think. The first argument in this series was about her being selfish cause I needed her one night and that barley happens. It turned into her starting to say I dont want a serious thing right now I need space and I dont want to have to answer to anyone. This is all out of the blue but it was after she asked me to move in with her in july and I said ok. This is so da*n weird.
After the first argument I went down to the city to get away from her for the weekened. She must have called me like 5 times while I was away asking me when I was coming back. I came back saw her everything was all good hung out and slept together. then yesterday on the phone she started hinting big time that she was wanting to make space started using excuses and stuff so in my human nature I was like wtf. It was just weird how it was said. Got in an argument almost broke up (dont think we did) but I said if you cant help then I am done with you but she was basically saying she didnt want that. she came over and said she still wanted a relationship but not serious or serious, I have no fu$*in clue. We talked about how she doesn't like it when I get mad at her which rarley happens I know when I get pis&#d I get stupid sometimes she gets scared and I talked about how she has to stop being selfish and that we would try to work with one another to fix these stupid little problems. I think we both agreed. I guess the question is what should I do? I put a lot of time in effort into all of this. All of this sh8t is stupid. Should I become more distant with her for a while? Cause I know she is going to start to do that now for a little bit. Or should I do something else. I think the answer is to distant myself also for a little bit but I dont know if that is right considering I might have f'd up here because of me getting mad at her over something little but at the same time legitimate. Let me know fellas. Thanks.
