Sosuave Survey...Virginity Debate.

[Mr Wright]

Now I know some of you guys on here are still virgins and I just want to run a sort of poll/survey/social experiment.

Guys who have had sex-

What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship?
Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal?
After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again?
How long have you been having sex?
Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to?
Do you generally brag about having sex?
Is sex overrated?


Guys who have not had sex

What age would you have ideally lost your virginity?
How much of your time is spent actively seeking sex?
How much pressure would you say society has placed on you when it comes to trying to have sex for the first time?
How many of your other close friends are virgins?


There is a reason behind the survey and if you REALLY want to know, message me and i'll explain. All the best guys.

 

[SoSuave666]

Haha, I'll bite for some reason.

1.) I lost my virginity when I was 17? Maybe it was 16, can't really remember.

2.) After my first time secks was still a pretty big deal. Once I had secks with a different woman, I stopped caring about it.

3.) I broke up with my gf when I was in college Freshman year. I had been having secks with her for a year basically. A couple weeks later I had secks with another chick. So...a couple weeks.

4.) I've been having secks for about 8 or 9 years.

5.) Sure. She is a cool girl and I still remain cordial with her whenever I see her.

6.) I don't brag about having secks anymore. Once I left college I matured quite a bit. Unless you consider talking about the chicks I bang on sosuave threads "bragging" then no, I don't brag about it.

7.) Short answer: No, it's not overrated. Long answer: After having secks with a couple of chicks it kind of loses its lure. You are able to take secks off the pedestal and just enjoy it for what it is. You're also not as nervous after your first couple of times and it just becomes a more casual occurrence, or something like a milestone in a relationship. I won't go as far to say every hole feels the same....but it's pretty close.

 

[bigneil]

What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship? 19.9 ONS
Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal? Yes and no
After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again? 4 girls in first year.
How long have you been having sex? 22 years, 24 women who I did not pay for
Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to? She died at age 18 but she was a beauty so yes.
Do you generally brag about having sex? AlexDP would say so.
Is sex overrated? Yes.

 

[Upside]

Well this is more interesting than work.


What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship? 19. On a first date.
Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal? No, but I never thought it was THAT big of a deal in the first place.
After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again? One week. Same girl
How long have you been having sex? 2+ years.
Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to? Yes.
Do you generally brag about having sex? No.
Is sex overrated? Getting off is overrated. Actually touching the girl, smelling the girl, coupled with getting off is great.

 

[Eternal_water]

Ideally I'd have lost it at 13 when girls started developing cleavage and getting hot.

How much time is spent actively seeking it? not much

Society labels me as "not a real man" and "a loser" and "too sad"

None of my friends are virgins

 

[OnTheWayUp]

Interesting post, here are my details:

What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship? 20, it was a ONS with a very pretty, but (it turned out later) very slutty girl. We saw each other again twice before she ended it because I was being too clingy.

Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal? Yes and no. Bedding a new girl always feels good, unless she's really like a 4 or a 5 lol. If you start bedding a given girl regularly, it becomes less of a big deal.

After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again? See first question, about a week, with the same girl.

How long have you been having sex? About a year and a half. Thanks SS!

Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to? For sex, absolutely! For anything more, definitely not. Her sex drive is higher than mine, it would be almost impossible to keep her loyal.

Do you generally brag about having sex? To certain close male friends only. I like to think of it not as bragging, but as male banter/ a discussion on why I got laid and what went right or wrong in the interaction. My friends I talk about this stuff with are all into game, without exception.

Is sex overrated? 100% yes. And placing excessive value on sex leads all too often to oneitis and neediness. As guys, we have to remember that sex is easy to come by, far easier than most people appreciate. Once you put the initial effort into learning game/ improving your body/ being social/ succeeding in your career/ bettering yourself in every sense, you develop the mindset that there are lots of girls out there to potentially sleep with. Sex with one given girl loses its obsessive appeal.

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Getting my degree was a big deal.

Landing my first solid job after school was a big deal.

Buying a new car was a big deal.

Sex? No, not really. Not even remotely. Sex was never a big deal before or after I lost my virginity. People need to get out of this prepubescent American Pie mentality and stop obsessing over sex. It is just a normal part of life.

 

[Eternal_water]

As guys, we have to remember that sex is easy to come by,

Not for me its not

 

[Desdinova]

What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship?
Age 20 and in a LTR

Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal?
Yes

After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again?
A few days. She tore and bled all over my d1ck. We both needed to get over that before we could fvck again.

How long have you been having sex?
14 years

Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to?

Actually, I did two years ago. I took her out on one date. I decided I didn't want to deal with her mood swings ever again and never called her back. She still had a great body, but her face isn't aging very nicely.

Do you generally brag about having sex?

Sometimes, but in a joking manner. If someone at work asks what I did the night before, I'll tell them.

Is sex overrated?

I think so. Men seem to chase after it like it's the meaning of life. It isn't. Sex is the greatest way two people can pleasure each other. Other than that, sex has no meaning nor effect on your life (unless you're trying to procreate)

 

[incognito42]

1) 15 in a relationship

2) yes

3) I'm sure it was within a couple days

4) 11 years

5) no. She was my first gf. She was amazingly hot, and well out of my league. Her family life broke down and she became a super slvt and ****ed my friends and who knows who else. I talked with her again when we were 19, about 2 years after we broke up. She moved in with me for a few months, we Fu led and she gave my jock itch that I was convinced was HIV or something, purely out of ignorant fear and an STD phobia I wasn't aware I had. I will never talk to her again. Getting over her was easy. Getting over the fact that all my friends betrayed me, or were willing to betray me if given the chance over a super hot piece of ass, and getting over my jock itch experience were not so easy (turns out the jock itch went quick, but I was mentally damaged for awhile and super stressed.)

No and no to the last 2 questions

 

[MrJibbles]

What age would you have ideally lost your virginity? 18

How much of your time is spent actively seeking sex? almost none

How much pressure would you say society has placed on you when it comes to trying to have sex for the first time?
More than I'm comfortable with. Everytime I go to parties, there is at least one or two people who pressure me into talking to girls and hooking up. I'm not at that stage yet (probably because I'm an AFC virgin) where I can easily and actively pursue girls and get what I want.

How many of your other close friends are virgins?
From my former social circle, none, as far as I know. Right now I have a cousin, a very good friend, who still has his v-card. He will turn 20 this weekend.

Just out of curiosity, what is the survey for, OP?

 

[Mike32ct]

What age did you lose your virginity?

28. Yes, it's no typo lol.

and was it in a relationship?

Yes, I was dating someone I met online.

Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal?

Yes. It became a BIGGER deal because I wanted to experiment with it.

After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again?

Just shy of a year later, this other girl wrote to me online, and we met and hooked up.

How long have you been having sex?

I first had it eight years ago. But I haven't had sex for eight continuous years. Dry spells of varying lengths are mixed in.

Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to?

Sure. She was a good girl.

Do you generally brag about having sex?

Yes, I used to. I know it's not cool, but as an extreme late bloomer, I did lol.

Is sex overrated?

Yes a little.

 

[dub_g]

18, No it was a one night stand but ended up with a few months of 'casual sex' which ended disastrously.

Sex is and has always important to me, perhaps too much so at times but hey you're only young once.

Had sex with a different girl about a week later and got myself on a pretty good roll for my first year where I was able to bed a dozen or so girls yet only sleep with half of them due to bouts of lmr and an ego which often got in the way of me pursuing them further.

A touch over 2 years now.

Hell no!

When I had my first few girls I talked about them a lot because I'm naturally a pretty open guy, but I quickly discovered that if you are discrete, and gain a reputation as such, you will have more chances at bedding girls in your social circle. I still however frequently tell funny or successful stories to close mates and I generally see no harm in that.

Sex is great, especially so once the nerves go away and you just relax and smash away.

 

[ladiesman217]

What age would you have ideally lost your virginity? I really don't know.
How much of your time is spent actively seeking sex? None at all.
How much pressure would you say society has placed on you when it comes to trying to have sex for the first time? Quite a bit, They make it sound SO great. I got my first bj a few days ago and it wasn't as great as I expected it to be much better. don't get me wrong, it still felt great.
How many of your other close friends are virgins? Yes, 95% of them are.

 

[Packers2010]

Guys who have had sex-

What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship?

20, and no. we wasn't in a relationship

Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal?

not really no.

After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again?

like a week. was with the same girl. i haven't had sex since her though. been like a year. and a few moths


How long have you been having sex?

since i was 20 so 2 yeras. though i don' get it all the time.

Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to?

no, i loved her for 8 years. just just recently messaged me out of the blue when her friends saw i was back in town.

Do you generally brag about having sex?
no. everyone got it before me. so. why brag. maybe if i was the first in my group of friends. maybe.

Is sex overrated?

yes, as a teenager who hasn't had it. most guys can loose confidence as they get older. see. i could have had sex when i was 16. though i could never pull the trigger. it's all a metal issue for me.


Notes: i was lucky. The girl i fell in love with all those years ago, just got out of a ltr and was down to **** who ever was there... i just happened to be there. so. i'm lucky cos i know i would still be a virgin if i wasn't. i'm also lucky that we had sex like 20 times over a coupple of months. it just wasn't the first time. which is good for me.

hope this helps

 

[FG'man]

Havent had yet!

What age would you have ideally lost your virginity?

15-17

How much of your time is spent actively seeking sex?

I don't know, not much, I let things come to me.

How much pressure would you say society has placed on you when it comes to trying to have sex for the first time?

This differs, some create pressure, some do not.

How many of your other close friends are virgins?

I got 2 close friends, both virgins.

 

[SamTheHobit]

Are you still a Virgin?

Yes..

Are you a Virgin by choice?

Yes..

Have you had any opportunities for sex?

Yes..

Where they begging for your d!ck?

Yes..

Why are you a Virgin?

Because I don't want to hurt them with my large Penis..

When do you plan on losing your virginity?

When I find a girl that's been stretched out properly.....

When do you really plan on losing your virginity??

When I'm in a relationship with a girl that deserves my virginity....

Lol

 

[PDubb75]

What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship? I was 17, and yes, it was in a relationship.
Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal? Yeah, I still feel like an 18 year old the way I think about sex.
After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again? Umm... 15 minutes? Then the next day. Unless you mean with a different girl, then it was 2 months later.
How long have you been having sex? roughly 9 years
Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to? Trying to fvck her again. She's ridiculously hot now (I would say a 7.5 when I fvcked her, 8.5+ now).
Do you generally brag about having sex? Not at all... except for with 2 of my buddies because we have little competitions with each other.
Is sex overrated? Really tough to answer. This could be an entire debate. In some cases my answer is "sex is not overrated. Many people just have no idea what they are doing, so they don't get the same experience they should be." But on the other hand... sex is the center of the universe for some people/media/etc. In those cases, it's kinda crazy how talked up it gets. I think this is a huge reason why people who want sex incredibly badly remain virgins for so long. They hear it being talked up so much that it becomes this impossible feat. So, in those cases, yes think it is overrated.

 

[AAAgent]

Guys who have had sex-

What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship? 20 and yes
Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal? not as big
After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again? had it over 100 times with first girl second girl was a few years after
How long have you been having sex? 5 years
Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to? not proactively as she was bpd
Do you generally brag about having sex? not really
Is sex overrated? no.

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

What age did you lose your virginity? and was it in a relationship?

At 17, with a girl I was dating.

Once you had sex, was sex still a big deal?

Of course! In that it was/is a big deal because (1) we enjoy it (2) we are biologically programmed to want it, to seek it.

After you first had sex, how long did it take for you to get it again?

If you mean with a different girl, then a few months.

How long have you been having sex?

28 years.

Would you go anywhere near the girl you lost your virginity to?

Heck yeah. She's still a friend after all these years and I'd tag it in a second.

Do you generally brag about having sex?

Not usually, unless it was particularly a great pull and a great freaky porn-monkey time.... This last May was the last example.

Is sex overrated?

Nope. It is the all time world champion, and anyone who says otherwise is lying to you and/or themselves.

In terms of the stupid, over the top, and even illegal or immoral things people will do to get what they want, sex beats money, fame, status, food, luxury, etc. every freaking time.