Sosuave DJs vs non-sosuave "DJs"

[tactic]

Now, I wanted to talk about this. Mainly because I don't feel comfortable or satisfied about what the people say about women.
Now, don't get me wrongs guys... there are several guys who think they know a lot about women by just claiming what they see is right.

I'm not talking about members with over 1,000+ posts but this is also a fact as well. Some members who post here have tons of posts and yet claim they are DJs and they are not. Some people also believe that the more posts you have, the more of a DJ you are. I don't think so. But having lots of posts only shows you put a lot of your time here, whether you are posting tips or not. I want to avoid flame, since I have over a thousand posts but I don't claim myself a DJ just because I have a lot of posts.

Also, if you're offended by what I said about having lots of posts, don't take it offensive because the fact that most guys with lots of posts are actually HELPFUL but makes me confused how this works.

Anyway... here's a question:

The members here who claim themselves as DJs, and those who really are DJs because of their lifestyles... and those who do not go to this site nor any other dating sites but they would be considered a DJ because of their lifestyles.. What are the differences?

Now, to break down some parts of being a DJ, let's talk women.

SoSuave DJs have experience and they learn them and teach others. They give out techniques, basic information, etc. They also claim they were dating 8's and 9's but when you look at pictures of their dates, they don't look like 8's or 9's. Then again, I¡¯m not speaking of all the people here, but very few.

Non-sosuave DJs have experience but they cannot teach in a way that the learner will be comfortable and will feel that they learned something with "details". They claim they have met pretty girls and hot girls... and when I see them, they are right. This is just my opinion on how I see girls and everything, but for reason, I don't feel as much satisfied with what I see at this site (pictures) than with the people who just go outside and experience things (non-sosuave people).

My friends don't even know about this site. They go out there and they tell me stuff. Like how they met a pretty girl... and when I see them, they're very pretty. Another thing is that, with sosuave DJs, they want rejection and they want to experience mishaps to do better, which I find it very good to hear, but the people who don't know this stuff don't like rejection. Also, from what I can see, some people I know (non-ss), never get rejected, but as DJs say... "You gotta' get rejected many times". Does it have to be this way?

 

[h2o]

hmm...i don't think i really understand the question.

however, does post count have anything to do with how much of cool guy you are in real life? nope.

i recently passed the 200 post mark :woo:
but am i more of a dj for it? nope.

i have changed/matured/learned a lot, and i'm getting more dates with girls, but to say that there is a direct correlation between post count and life skill is ridiculous.

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for the other part of your question...comparing natural djs and guys who learned their stuff through something like this site...

...i gotta say, i'm glad i learned it. like, i'm glad i wasn't born with it naturally...i've really enjoyed and continue to enjoy the journey of learning more about the "game" as some of you call it...the everlasting pursuit of achieving better health, becoming more mature, and learning how to deal with women better is a great journey, because at each level of success i enjoy it so much more simply because i had to achieve it...

also, you don't have to learn all of that from sosuave. when i first joined here, and actually until recently, i would spend a lot of time reading stuff on here... actually, the real learning comes from experience

 

[undesputable]

unless someone that has a high post count is just a post*****, like posting 10 posts per day or something like that, i think that posts are somewhat of an indication what somebody is about. Most people's first post was probably asking how they could get a girl back after he has confessed all her feelings for her, made her a cd with all her favorite love songs and told he how much he loves her.

It takes a while to reach 1000+ posts, at least a year if youre not a post *****. so if you really have been reading, putting to practice the readings and everything like it should be done you should have some experience by the time youre at a 1000+ posts.

 

[So pimp its scary]

About the best thing that I could say is look at WHAT people are saying. The questions that they ask, how they are phrased, read between the lines. You can see the difference in what people say that live what they speak and the people that let their arse do most of the talking.

As for the rating scale, it's so variable. Really, think of it like this :
10 : Model hot. Would fvck her and show her off to all your friends.
7-9 : Would fvck this girl and be proud of it.
6 : Would fvck this girl and have no qualms about it
5 : Would debate about fvcking the girl
4 : Would fvck drunk and talk about it.
3 : Would fvck drunk and keep it to yourself
2 : Would fvck if so drunk that you could not get a stiffy
1 : She's gotta have some birth defect or something

Also that one mans' trash is anothers treasure.