Sorry guys but I feel like I've given up. Just don't care anymore.

Kal0051

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So this isn't a cry for help or anything because I honestly don't care about improving my chances with women. The amount of women that have rejected me with zero amount of success is staggering (I've probably asked out 60-70 girls in the last year, and have had only a couple of dates). You'd think I'd get lucky with that number of approaches but no. I've reached the point where I don't even feel like continuing to try. And why should I? To lose my virginity? I hear sex is overrated anyway. I don't want kids either so don't need a woman for that. I don't think I even want to get married. I just want to live my life for me (although once I'm finished school for the last time I'll need to come up with a new goal, maybe start my own company). Women don't seem to be worth the extreme trouble I need to go through, I'd rather find something else in life to fulfill myself. I think I may stick around on this site just because I do get a laugh out of some of the threads here. But I now declare myself the eternal bachelor. Oh and let the insults start in 3... 2.... 1....
 

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If it's not a cry for help, then why write this thread?

If you want to give up, then just walk away from your computer or click on a different site. Why bother with the announcement, as if anyone knows who you are or gives a f**k if you leave?

Oh and let the insults start in 3... 2.... 1....
Yeah well, what kind of response do you expect? You're a grown man making an "announcement" that you're giving up on an internet forum.
 

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That's too bad. I've often thought about quitting but I'm not ready to give up yet.

Normally I wouldn't suggest this, but, get a hooker. Seriously, look online for escort ads, look for the hottest girl and call her up. You shouldn't have to spend more than $300. Make sure her ad uses words like GFE, MSOG or multiple pops. In-call is prefered (her place) If you do a bit of research you can find a hot girl who would give you the ride of your life.

After you've had sex, then you can decide if you want to give up.
 

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I'm not giving up on a Internet forum (because really, who gives a ****). I'm giving up on women all together. I realize the chances of me improving my chances with them are next to nothing so what's the point?
 

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honestly once your stop caring and trying is when the women come.

its already clear to me, imagine how you come off to woman your meeting face to face, that you are desperately trying to lose your virginity?

sex is over rated? ya so are farraris and music and love.....

go read the bible and if your sick of trying by all means put your life goals first and the women will come... again thats in the bible. duh
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Maxtro said:
That's too bad. I've often thought about quitting but I'm not ready to give up yet.

Normally I wouldn't suggest this, but, get a hooker. Seriously, look online for escort ads, look for the hottest girl and call her up. You shouldn't have to spend more than $300. Make sure her ad uses words like GFE, MSOG or multiple pops. If you do a bit of research you can find a hot girl who would give you the ride of your life.

After you've had sex, then you can decide if you want to give up.
a hooker will do nothing other than be a waste of money. I already know that sex isn't all that.
 

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Kal0051 said:
a hooker will do nothing other than be a waste of money. I already know that sex isn't all that.
Here's a tip, the only guys that say sex is overrated are the guys who get plenty of it.

That's the same thing as telling a teenager who hasn't got their license that driving isn't that special.

Don't knock it till you try it.
 

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Maxtro said:
Here's a tip, the only guys that say sex is overrated are the guys who get plenty of it.

That's the same thing as telling a teenager who hasn't got their license that driving isn't that special.

Don't knock it till you try it.
well I'm not paying for it. No offense to you but I think it's pathetic that some guys pay for sex. Besides, a hooker just let's you masterbate inside of her, I'd rather sleep with a girl that actually wants to sleep with me. I'll hold onto my money and dignity thank you very much.
 

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Maxtro said:
Ha ha ha, you're funny cal.


Good luck with that happening since you've given up.
Well that just shows you how adamant I am about not sleeping with a hooker. I'd rather stay a virgin forever than resort to that. But good luck with the future STDs you'll have if you keep fvcking hookers.
 

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Kal0051 said:
I'm not giving up on a Internet forum (because really, who gives a ****). I'm giving up on women all together. I realize the chances of me improving my chances with them are next to nothing so what's the point?
So what's the point of this thread exactly? To announce that you've given up? Who on sosuave.com needs to know that?
 

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So what's the point of this thread exactly? To announce that you've given up? Who on sosuave.com needs to know that?
then don't comment. Wtf's the point of commenting on a thread you think is pointless. I'm just venting so move on...
 

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Kal, maybe changing your focus and goals for now will make a difference for you. Keep talking to people and meeting people, but do it to expand your social circle instead of looking for a girl. Your best bet for meeting someone that is a good fit for you is to get to know more people that you have things in common with to hang out with socially. If you do that, before you know it you will meet someone who is genuinely interested in you. Sometimes simply getting comfortable interacting with people in general makes a huge difference in confidence and comfort with the opposite sex.
 

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Kal0051 said:
then don't comment. Wtf's the point of commenting on a thread you think is pointless. I'm just venting so move on...
Oh. So it actually is a cry for help.
 

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As you can see from the replies you're getting Kal, quitters don't get any symp.

Stop coming on here, for a few weeks, don't think about girls, do what you ENJOY DOING...............family n friends, just take a streak out about forgetting girls for a minute. Come back, watch a few Pick Up videos online, read elsewhere, get a careless attittude, start hitting on girls, start getting rejected and smiling as you do, note down stuff in you're logbook, go out on a kill count, BTW, How old are you? I don't get why guys are virgin from +18...... If you're passionate enough about changing your situation, you'll win.

We all know that this thread was for the sole purpose of getting some form of HELP, I'm not sure how sincere you're about quitting, but maybe listing all the problems out here (In this same thread) you might think hinders you're success with girls. List every-fvcking-thing, your traits and weaknesses.

Just the way you're typing, I can tell you haven't got the fire in you're heart yet. It doesn't matter if sex is overrated, its the principle. Its like a PTE or Cadet getting his first badge of gallantry. Don't listen to guys who tell you to go out and rent a hooker, theres no win in that. The thrill of the chase and once you've got you're prey and molested it, you can stand up and be counted. Gotta wet you're steel, man. You have to.
 

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Hey guys, I'm quitting girls forever too! In fact, I'm so fed up, I'm gonna go bat for the other team now!

:D

Haha! Kal, you gotta learn NOT to take women personally. If you do, they'll get to you and make you feel like you're currently feeling. Just take a break...
 

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Kal0051 said:
a hooker will do nothing other than be a waste of money. I already know that sex isn't all that.
Eh...But u said your not interested in marriage or kids. A hooker seems perfect for you.
 

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Chromeo said:
honestly once your stop caring and trying is when the women come.
You know, I've always wondered how this works. If you stop caring and stop trying, you are no longer approaching women.

So for this to work, does that imply that once you've stopped caring and trying, the women will approach YOU?

Cuz otherwise if you approached, you'd still be trying. ;)


Just sayin'.
 

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I think it's when you stop caring about the outcome and trying to impress is when they come.

easier to type than do, thats for sure.
 
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