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Sorority Exchanges

Ferdinand

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I'm in a fraternity at a large southern state school. I find that my most common starting off points with new desirable girls are the exchanges we have at bars every week with the sororities. I'm interested as to how best implement the techniques I've acquired through a very pedestrian study of pua game. This is a different situation and I wanted to have a good idea of how to work it.

The Setting:

Exchanges are fast paced events, where often the earliest bird gets the worm. They usually take place at bars or restaurants. They are often packed, so you cant help but run in to the same girls over and over. The girl to guy ratio is about 2.5 to 1 (sounds sweet but ill address this later). Im underage but buying drinks is no problem as the bartenders are instructed not to ID. Groups quickly form usually according to age/status.

My Target:

Hottie Breakdown 5 is average so like a 7 is do-able in my book.
10:10%
9:15%
8:20%
7:10%
6:10%
5:10%
4:5%
creatures i refuse to acknowledge: 20%

So Im willing to plow more than half the girls hear and Im willing to chat with a fifth of them in order to move on to greener pastures.

These girls are a very particular breed. They cluster into groups with their friends very quickly. There are airs galore amidst them, theyre the daughters of the souths richest, stuffiest bastards. They gauge the success of the night by how many beaus offer to buy them drinks. So yeah they dont have the most metro, progressive, mentality. They're very stubborn and they've proved immune to many of the more abstract techniques I've read. Working these girls is really tough.

My Competition:

My Fraternity is full of men who will be playing football or baseball professionaly. Theres also a plethora of rich boys who can talk up their trust funds like nobody's business. Trying to distinguish myself as an alpha male in this group is tough. I mean I love these guys, and Im never without a wingman, but they arent keen to the notion of spreading the wealth.

What I'm working with:

For starters Im very tall, even taller than almost all the guys in the greek. Im actually Greek, as in from Greece, this is a two edged blade, in that it is a good joke to tell and that it distinguishes me, but almost all the people at these things are staright up WASPS. Im also as thin as a rail. Im not particualrly well off, Id say that among men in Greek orginazations Im in the bottom fifth financially. I dress as well as my budget allows, and I'm pretty stocked with assorted perfumes. Im moderately handsome so I dont have excuses for not being able to compete with uuber hotties.

Whatever advice you have feel free to give me. Also, Im a novice at this, so if you think there is anything I should do to improve my game in all settings please provide it. Post links or anything. Im new to the single thing, and I really want to hit this circuit hard. Thanks I genuinely appreciate your help.
 

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Glad to see some more Louisiana folks on here? What part are you from?

Anyways, I was getting sorority chicks at my school without being Greek at all, and one of the only students who was doing that.

Judge nismo has looked at some points of your case and has found this:

1. You are insecure because you're competing with rich and athletic guys.
The court orders you to wake up because this is in everyday life. Upgrade yourself and apply my sig.

2. The earliest bird gets the worm, or in this case, the chicks.
The court orders you to become the earliest bird.

3. Girls judge their nights by how many guys buy them drinks.
The court orders you to NOT buy them drinks because that's supplicating.

4. Your frat brothers don't spread the wealth (or as I call it, breaking bread.)
The court orders you to go get a wingman outside of the frat and don't share your wealth.

As for this
Ferdinand said:
For starters I'm very tall, even taller than almost all the guys in the Greek. I'm actually Greek, as in from Greece, this is a two edged blade, in that it is a good joke to tell and that it distinguishes me, but almost all the people at these things are straight up WASPS. I'm also as thin as a rail. I'm not particularly well off, Id say that among men in Greek organizations I'm in the bottom fifth financially. I dress as well as my budget allows, and I'm pretty stocked with assorted perfumes. I'm moderately handsome so I don't have excuses for not being able to compete with uber hotties.
I had to edit that one.

You actually have an edge, but when you have a rich + handsome guy, look out! But do what fits you. Have you tried getting a wingWOMAN? Your status will be much higher because of pre-selection. You say you're thin? Bulk your ass up then! Always be trying to better yourself. Don't let insecurities hold you back. What did you mean by WASPS anyway?

This court will take a recess until the OP updates me with his competition and things he's doing to try and get girls.
 

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Thanks for responding, Im born and raised BR, parents from NOLA

WASP stands for welsh/white(not sure) anglo saxon protestants, or basically straight up white folks. its louisiana so youve definitely got your share of catholic kids from old families, but the really conservative, straight laced mentality is still very prominent.
My biggest plex is how to open these girls, theyre always in groups and often start to dance with each other when new guys come around. I dont want to start dancing with some girl I havent talked to, I dont believe it will be recieved well, for one it makes it very clear that SHE is the object of desire, and two I dont think a woman would want a random guy dancing with her. I could maybe use a few girls in greeks that i know as wingbroads (all these women are STRICTLY off limits for various reasons). Its something different at least.

Thanks for your help and a big félicitations for scoring these hard to bag hotties.
 

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Ferdinand said:
Thanks for responding, Im born and raised BR, parents from NOLA

My biggest plex is how to open these girls, theyre always in groups and often start to dance with each other when new guys come around. I dont want to start dancing with some girl I havent talked to, I dont believe it will be recieved well, for one it makes it very clear that SHE is the object of desire, and two I dont think a woman would want a random guy dancing with her. I could maybe use a few girls in greeks that i know as wingbroads (all these women are STRICTLY off limits for various reasons). Its something different at least.

Thanks for your help and a big félicitations for scoring these hard to bag hotties.
It's White Anglo-Saxon Protestants.

I've been all over LA, and it gets country when you go up Interstate 49 (Opelousas, Carencro, Alexandria) and I've been to the Luv's in Shreveport where people up there talk country, but they got some cute women up there and I chat 'em up before I go to Dallas!

Try getting a wingwoman that's NOT Greek.

You need to build rapport with the group if you're in clubs, because if you go for one, and the rest of the group doesn't approve of you, you're screwed. You have to be confident, and have some sort of social proof in club game. You can't look like a creep either.

I hate wingmen who (and I've been clubbing with these often BTW) Do bad and bring you down with them, or who do so good you go unnoticed.

Try gaming these girls before hitting the dance floor.
 
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