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WTID

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I'm going through a divorce, and joined a dating site just to chat to women.
However one woman has contacted me and despite my profile saying I'm not ready for dating ,she kept hinting that I don't live far from her and then basically said she could be the distraction I need .
We have texted each other quite a lot ,but she seems very needy, should I avoid her at all costs or just let her know that I'm after sex and nothing more .or just have fun and see how it goes
 

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"distraction" = female codeword for casual sex

She knows you aren't "looking for anything" and is subtly telling you that is ok. Do not mention the casual piece again. She gets it.

Strike while the iron is hot.

But understand that she could still change her mind and flake. That can always happen, but have fun and try.
 

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WTID said:
should I avoid her at all costs or just let her know that I'm after sex and nothing more .or just have fun and see how it goes
Mike32ct said:
"distraction" = female codeword for casual sex

She knows you aren't "looking for anything" and is subtly telling you that is ok. Do not mention the casual piece again. She gets it.

Move on this one.

But understand that she could still change her mind and flake. That can always happen, but have fun and try.

Seriously. Everything about the description of how she's treating you screams that she's just looking for some new d!ck.

Maybe this broad isn't wife material, but hey, you might as well knock off the cobwebs and get back into the world of casual sex.
 
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