Many of us who are GUYS have been in situations where we see a girl and her looks are hot. You are drawn in by her looks. But as you get to know her, the personality is off and she begins to become less attractive. But there is always a guy willing to put up with her since he is willing to put up with a ***** in private, in order to have other guys envy him.
Then there are the cases where you meet a girl and she's not all that. So you figure you'll go out with her and maybe get laid. But as you get to know her, her personality is really great and you love being with her. There may be conflict in your head,though you like her you wonder what other guys will think of you.
Then there is Ms. Perfect. She is not only beautiful, but her personality shines. She has tons of Alpha males after her and she can afford to be very piicky! That is the gal most every guy dreams of. Because she has it all. rarely does a guy without major cash, or looks, career AND personality able to get this women.
Looka matter to a degree with just about everybody. Girls with low-self esteem will be less picky about it especially if they had been played by good-looking guys before. But you have to at least be sexually attractive to her, otherwise she will sleep with you, but always fantasize about someone else. Girls can do one thing guys can't. They can fake it. Therefore there does not need to be attraction on her part for you.
i will never forget the conversation I had with a goldigger a couple of years back. She was dating a writter for a top TV show,who made out like a Bandit because he owned a percentage of thae show. So when the show went to syndication he got MEGAbucks and with that the HB's follwed. Anyway, the girl I know was 22 and this guy at least twice her age. She was looking to get engaged as that meant she would never have to worry about money again. There were a group of us together and a few of the guys in that circle come from very wealthy families. thing is, as pretty as this girl is, her personality can never get her the guys she really wants because there is too much competition for those guys.
Ok, so let me continue with the story. She was talking off the side to one of the girls and laughing. She said her fiance had an ugly body which was totally gross because it was also hairy. I wanted to slap the B**ch because there are tons more where they come from.
It's not that many don't care about looks. They are willing to forego it for other stuff. Money, power, she may have kids and need a guy to help support them and can't be picky, she may be nuts,whatever. Girls and guys rarely will settle if they don't have to.
But like this girl, she understands most young, attractive, successful men with their head together are going to have lots of women to choose from. So she takes her easiest prey.
Quick sidenote. I had an incident happen this weekend where I met a couple. friends of my parents. Guy is in his 50's not attractive but makes tons of money. Girl is probably late 20's eraly 30's and HB solid 9! After talking to her for about 2 minutes I realized why this troll who thought she was the cat's meow was dating some old goat for money. Because any guy with a lick of sesnse and a decent future runs from girls like her. All she talked about was where he had taken her on vacation and the fact she wears only LaPerla underwear. LaPerla coast about $200-$300 just for a bra. I think he would have been better just alone. But ego's get in the way as with most guys dating hotties. They refuse to let her go no matter what a ***** she may be at home.because the arm candy gets envy and attention from other people and validates their self-worth.
I wonder how many guys in here who are just average or below average who date HB 9's and 10's. They are a lot of work. It looks easy when you see couples like that in the street, but I guarentee 90% of these cases guys put up with a lot of BS to be with these girls. Unless he is loaded. Then she tries to be more accomodating!!!Money talks to hot girls above anything else.
Sad...