Something too feminine about me(With pic)

[BigWillyStyle]

If you enter I dunno if you can directly see my pic, if not go into my pictures and browse and see the one pic. Now I'm 21 and is there something rather "boyish", "innocent" about my look? Even the party I was at and the chick I hooked up with I kept getting the "cute" line, instead of "Damn, he's hot!" No I'm "cute" Been bothering me that I can't get the 18+ crowd, so any ideas what it is? Thanks. The link is now 2 posts down!

 

[DJDamage]

link doesn't work

 

[BigWillyStyle]

**** what's wrong with it, hang on working on it, any MSN people that use the "Create group" feature don't be shy to lend me a hand to patch this up. groups.msn.com/Sevenspics

 

[BigWillyStyle]

Ok I fixed it up, it's on my second post, then go to "my pictures" and download it.

 

[Wyldfire]

You have "preppy" hair, don't you? Try something a little more "edgy" and see how that works for you.

 

[Julian]

I dunno you look alright but wtf is up with that elton jon pose?

 

[DJDamage]

that picture doesn't say much. You look as if you can get those 18+ if you work on your game. Maybe its your behaviour that is immature and chicks often can tell between someone who is still a boy or a man by his behaviour.

If you think you are "Boyish" maybe get a different hair cut, and don't shave a few days and see if you get a different response.

 

[BigWillyStyle]

Wyldfire, I have a kinda preppy hair du, I've tried a more rugged look but I dunno, I think I come off as a try hard...

Julian, I'm just leaning on the table dude lol, someone told me to turn around for a cam shot, no intended pose.

So what's the go with these 15-16 yr old girlies liking me? why can't I get some older crew?

 

[BigWillyStyle]

Maybe its your behaviour that is immature and chicks often can tell between someone who is still a boy or a man by his behaviour.

No, I'm actually pretty reserved, almost stern around girls first off.

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
Wyldfire, I have a kinda preppy hair du, I've tried a more rugged look but I dunno, I think I come off as a try hard...

Julian, I'm just leaning on the table dude lol, someone told me to turn around for a cam shot, no intended pose.

So what's the go with these 15-16 yr old girlies liking me? why can't I get some older crew?

Go for a messy/spiky style...you can find all kinds of man's styles on the internet. Shorter, too...I think the length of your hair gives that "boyish" look.

 

[BigWillyStyle]

Thanks Wyldfire, chicks opinion is always wanted for this sorta thing. I'll try the hair spike thing, also not shave for 2-3 days. I've been told by one chick though that going "ferral" doesn't suit me coz I'm not the rugged bad boy type.

Also from my photo, what kinda level HB's you think I can game just from looks? The highest I go is about an 8, any higher I think there a bit too good for me in the looks department, I know ****ty mindset.... Anyone here they could see me with a gorgeous HB9, honestly?

 

[squirrels]

"Gayness" is not just in appearance...it's mannerisms, voice, etc.

You could pull off that look if your behavior was straight, but if it wasn't...let's say it could go either way. (No pun intended )

 

[BigWillyStyle]

Well I've heard my voice on tape and others have told me I have a deep manly voice. Anyway it's not about me being "gay" it's wether you folk can spot if I have some "boyish innocence" about me. And also if you think with game I could get HB9's with my look? Thanks anyway Squirrels

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by BigWillyStyle
Well I've heard my voice on tape and others have told me I have a deep manly voice. Anyway it's not about me being "gay" it's wether you folk can spot if I have some "boyish innocence" about me. And also if you think with game I could get HB9's with my look? Thanks anyway Squirrels

You're not ugly, dude. With "game" and a confident masculine attitude, I'm sure you could pull "HB9s".

 

[MinCO]

You are good-looking, but your facial features are small and more soft looking. I'd go for a more edgy haircut to balance things out. Take a look at colin Farrell. He has similar features, but his hair is spikey which gives him a rougher around the edges look.

 

[skinnydart]

You're not bad looking at all. I can see why they call you "cute" but I dont' think that should be taken negatively at all. To alot of girls that's the equivilent of "hot".

I mean, it's like different kinds of attractivness. I might see one girl who I think is like really cute, another I might call really hot, but each one I'd date as quick as anything.

 

[ScrewIt]

dont see anything wrong with that pic. it appears your overanalyzing yourself too much. just stop doing that.

 

[Sexy_Malibu]

I think you're a very nice looking guy. I wouldn't go so far as to say "Damn he's hot!" but I'm not very likely to say that to anyone really. LOL.

There *is* something sort of... (looking for a non-offensive adjective here) 'non-threatening' about your features. NOT feminine, but just... I don't know, familiar? Kind of boy-next-doorish. (That's not a statement on age, just vibe).

There are plenty of girls who find that attractive. (Attraction is subjective remember! What looks good to one, does not necessarily good to another). I think you just need to find the right girls and have the personality to go with it.

 

[KevM2]

I bet a lot of it has to do with your attitude as opposed to your looksl... Who cares if chicks think you're hot or cute? Merely being a good looking guy isn't gonna get you with the ladies that you want. As long as you're not deathly ugly, you have chances with plenty of fine women, so leave that at that. Make no mistakes, being great looking makes things easier, but there are more important factors. Stop being insecure about what women think of your looks. Insecurity = #1 date killer.

 

[ogre]

you are a good looking guy. I don't see what the problem is. Be happy. Me, I got problems. I look like the unabomber.