Something I am REALLY curious about - who exactly ARE you guys who post here?

[skip2mylou781]

What I mean is, I see all these usernames, yet I do not know whso got game to backup what they say and who doesnt, so id like to start something:

since this is 1 of those anonymous communities, i am just wondering how good are all of u guys REALLY with girls in the REAL world....aka LETS SHARE OUR STATISTICS.

me, im 21, been with about 50 - 60 girls (aka SEX), have made out with about 200 (lotsa lotsa kissing whenever i go to clubs)i almost never do cold approaches though, have picked up girls at parties and clubs a few times, but the bulk of my success has been through online (id say prob like 35 girls that i banged were from interenet, a few became solid gf's). I usually get girls to fall for me when im really sweet to them especially, but i have disarmed soem *****es really well before too, esp with c + f, and endng up hookin up with those too. I have also crash and burned a few times when it came to acting like a total AFC.

I just wanna actually know, all u guys that always post here, WHO ARE YOU? reading everyone posts would be so much easier if we all knew who the person was that was actually stating what they were stating

im PARTICULARLY interested in some of u guys who post like 3000 posts

 

[Stackthestyles]

You mean guys like me?

My stats are almost the same as yours. I cold approach all of the time, they aren't really cold though, I can't describe what it is, I see an opportunity and I take it, usually situational openers, or a legitimate question that relates to her and matters to me, than I vibe until we come to our crossroads. I know my town like the back of my hand, I've found my way into so many beds even when I can't walk straight anymore because I am so drunk... most of my pickups are pre introductions though, I am introduced to a friend of a friend, and we hit it off. I invite them for coffee, or for a drive around and I impress them through charm.

I live in a little town. We have ONE basketball court, and ONE soccer field(sand). The water in the bay is off limits for kayaking until August when there are no more breaking waves(I only have a fibreglass kayak, not a seakayak). I work as a dispatcher for an airline company, I run errands about 5 times a day, so I have chances during the day to sarge. I am on call 24/7, but I can get drunk and have people cover for me if I play my cards right.

My lifestyle quotes are:
Make a new friend everyday
People are best at what they have always done
When you speak to other people, talk to them as though you were wearing eachothers shoes.
Fear is the cultural divide, so save the fear from the side of the divide you are talking to

 

[JezDuffield]

Today I am 18 years of age, I have only ever engaged in sexual relations with one woman to this time.
From the age of about 13 when I started to become attracted to woman I have always only desired the Hot Older Babes which I was to find extremely difficult to get.
When I was 13 I had the hots for a Hot 28 year old Babe and although I did all that I could to win her over it just seemed impossible for me to make any real impression at all as she said I was a kid.
I continued to attempt to allure the elegant stylish highly educated and sophisticated Hot Older Babe who were in the 28 to 40 year age group when I was between 13 and 17 without my having any success.
As a 17 year old I developed a massive crush on a Hot 8 out of 10 Older Babe who I eventually won her over to myself but it took a very long time to convince her to go out on a date with me.
I am now 18, my girlfriend, Kendra, is 38, her eldest daughter, Sarah, is the same age as me, and I now have a baby daughter with her.
Kendra is an Assistant Manageress of a large Banking Branch here in Australia, she has plenty of money to do as she pleases.
I am studying my Diploma in Business so that I can provide something to our relationship when I complete it.
I don't need to sleep with other ladies because my lady is the "Perfect Princess" mature beautiful and successful.

 

[Docs]

I am now 18, Kendra, is 38
I now have a baby daughter with her.

Was that a decision you wanted fully, or her clock going boooma?

 

[aGAME]

Great thread for me to introduce myself.

I'm 23 and live across the pond in Scotland (a card I will play unashamedly when I visit North America!). So firstly hello to everyone on this site. I like what I see of the discussion here.

I've been studying PU theories and sites for a while now, though not religiously. Now, after reading The Game, posting on a number of other sites, and breaking off uni for the summer I'm stepping it up a level. I want to develop a proper game, and I've been doing alright recently Having learned a lot of the important life lessons. You could call me a 'rookie' on the first rung of the ladder.

Despite AFC-esque tendancies in my teens and very early 20's, I have still managed to amass around 15 conquests (full sex). A few of them I was with seriously for say 6 months also. Amazingly, despite average looks at best and a FEW AFC traits, I do alright for phone numbers in clubs etc too. I'm good conversationally and can approach relatively comfortably, depending on situation. The problems with me start because I get overly into a chick and then start making an arse of it.

So what am I here for? I'm here to learn. I make no bones about that. Life is going alright at the moment, I have a good few career opportunities coming up, and I know the real man's role in life after de-brainwashing myself of feminazi, Hollywood pseudo-reality.

You'll only see advice from me if I genuinely know what I'm talking about. If I don't, I'll keep my mouth shut, watch and observe. Good luck to you all.

 

[JezDuffield]

Ever since I was 12 or 13 when I became attracted to Hot Older Babes I had always been obsessed by my be able to win over a Hot Babe who was many years my senior and getting her pregnant so that she would have a baby who was mine as well.
I have never desired a younger girl, the youngest ladies that I have ever been interested in have been 28 or above.
I love Hot Older Babes who are either very highly educated or are extremely successful like my, Kendra, is, as it really turns me on.
I love holding the hand of an older lady and I love her arms as well because they are mature and sexy.
The only problem I have is that I have never been attracted to a lady over 50, but, Kendra, is EVERYTHING to me, so if I do eventually leave her I still want her to be my friend and I don't want her to be hurt if this happens.
We have talked about these things so she should be able to cope with it if it does happen, she thinks I am a cute guy, so she feels like a young girl again of which she is extremely happy about.
I think alot of the older guys who are, Kendra's, age like the younger girls like her 18 year old daughter, Sarah, who is as pretty as her mum, but the young guys like me prefer the beautiful, educated and mature types of ladies.
If I was to breakup with, Kendra, now I would try to replace her with another Hot Older Babe in the 28 to 42 year old age group because these babes drive me wild, I love them.
My mum isn't happy about me being with, Kendra, but my dad told me that it was great for a younger guy to experience his sexuality with a Hot Older Babe, Kendra's, daughter, Sarah, isn't that worried about it now, but her son, Ben, who is a couple of years younger than me isn't happy about it at all as the kids his age have stirred him about it, my Grandma is over the moon about it either and nor are, Kendra's, mum and dad, or anyone in her family, but they all love our baby. :rock:

 

[L777]

What I mean is, I see all these usernames, yet I do not know whso got game to backup what they say and who doesnt, so id like to start something:

since this is 1 of those anonymous communities, i am just wondering how good are all of u guys REALLY with girls in the REAL world....aka LETS SHARE OUR STATISTICS.

me, im 21, been with about 50 - 60 girls (aka SEX), have made out with about 200 (lotsa lotsa kissing whenever i go to clubs)i almost never do cold approaches though, have picked up girls at parties and clubs a few times, but the bulk of my success has been through online (id say prob like 35 girls that i banged were from interenet, a few became solid gf's). I usually get girls to fall for me when im really sweet to them especially, but i have disarmed soem *****es really well before too, esp with c + f, and endng up hookin up with those too. I have also crash and burned a few times when it came to acting like a total AFC.

I just wanna actually know, all u guys that always post here, WHO ARE YOU? reading everyone posts would be so much easier if we all knew who the person was that was actually stating what they were stating

im PARTICULARLY interested in some of u guys who post like 3000 posts

I'm, 19, mancunian, and don't like making up/exagerrating experiences I've had in my life, particularly when theres no way of validating them.

 

[WC2]

It's good to point out though, the best DJs aren't the best at giving advice. Some guys have it naturally and don't know how to explain it. It's the guys who have learned from failure and their own AFC mistakes that really know how to give someone advice. Being a good looking guy, I could always score some tail but only what was thrown at me. Not what I earned. I started making my conversion from AFC to DJ around two years ago. Since then I can't really count the number of girls I've banged, but what's more important is that for once I could start using more than looks and charm to get girls.

 

[Stackthestyles]

It's good to point out though, the best DJs aren't the best at giving advice. Some guys have it naturally and don't know how to explain it. It's the guys who have learned from failure and their own AFC mistakes that really know how to give someone advice. Being a good looking guy, I could always score some tail but only what was thrown at me. Not what I earned. I started making my conversion from AFC to DJ around two years ago. Since then I can't really count the number of girls I've banged, but what's more important is that for once I could start using more than looks and charm to get girls.

Dude, welcome,

I am suffering as a guy. A guy who can't explian "it". Before I came to this site, I thought I knew what "it" is, after I try to put it into words, I realize how wrong my words sound.

Do you realize all the advantages that are given to us?

 

[jonwon]

just found this site.

been married for over 2years alot of issues, learned alot from it, i was very successful pre-marriage and even in marriage (we fell out for two months i dated about 8 girls). My partner was an attention seeking women, had a lot of male friends drinking with them till 4am in bars, just her with guys that wanted to screw her e.t.c. Being married make you hold on to alot of crap, anyway out of it now and back on the scene and i could not be happier.

Reason i am here trying to get back some of that lost PUA stuff and improve my game again, this site speaks alot of truth and reading some of the stuff wont just help me improve if applied i know it works

Statistics:
31 slept with well over 100 girls some hot some not, had tons of one night stands, dated loads of girls e.t.c.

I started to get good when i used to go out with a guy who was very successful with girls, he played the numbers game, rejection was the best advice i got from him, to get over the fear, i just need to get over it all again lol.

I have a lot of exp' to share from relationships (hey they may have been poor but i learnt alot, if i can use some of it to help ppl dodge a bullet at least it means something, to me at least).

Going to buy, feel the fear and do it anyway, apparantly it is a great book for all ppl to read.

Books i have read that have helped.

How to win friends and influence ppl (great due to the realisation ppl are converned by there own world and not by YOU!)
Magic of thinking big
David d angelo stuff, advanced stuff e.t.c

Think its important to know areas of your life that can be improved on. some of mine are:
insecurtiy and jealousy.
Why do i end up in bad relationships? its down to insecurity even with a high success rate i still have those issues i need to work that out, for example i see negative or bad behaviour i would tolerate it due to oneitus (thanks to this site) and down the road things just do not improve, if there are issues now there will be problems later.

Jealousy, to handle situations in this manner even knowing it is counter productive, when it is far wiser to either walk away or brush it off, simply if you cant handle the situation then instead of forcing your values, you should decide if this is waht you want, you cant change anyone, something all must understand.

Looking to spend alot of time reading these boards it is pure dynamite.

 

[Amigu]

Ok here goes. I'm 18 and a virgin. I'd say I have average succes though. I'm alright looking and I get a bit of intrest from girls but it means nothing until you respond properly. In the past I've acted like an AFC on occasion and underestimated girls intrest in me which probably lost me quite a bit of action.

My stats? I've made out with about 15 girls and gotten two of them in to my bed (No action beyond the underpants though). I made out with two simultaneously which I was kind of proud of. Non of these were from cold approaches though. Probably a 50/50 split between girls I new through school and randoms I met at parties. No repeat action and no girl friends.

I'd say until now my experience with girls can be put under "Teen age shinigans". I could have probably made with 5 or so more girls and had sex if I had chosen to but I have standards (ie they have to be attractive sober) and I'm sure if I had been more secure and confident I would have had even better results. For example many people think I've already had sex because of the way I socialize and carry myself with people I feel comfortable around but I'm pretty insecure when it comes to girls (especialy ones I don't know yet) Most of the action I got was because of my looks or because I was on a role on the day. Now that I'm becoming more social and growing as a person (I beleive these two are integral for constant succes) I want to amp it all up a bit and start genuinly dating girls, cold approaching, upping my numbers and getting laid. I'm not looking for a LTR at the moment I'm not opossed to them but right now I'm in it for the fun

The goal I've set myself: Enjoy the company of, make out with and sleep with as many pretty girls as possible but keep it real.

So there you go. I'm just entering manhood and am starting to learn how to be a DJ, I've integrated the basic ideas in to the way I act towards girls (i.e. understanding they want it just as much as i do, being the light of the party, teasing, taking initiative and not being an afc) but I still need to jump over my shadow when it comes to cold approaches and taking risks. Plus I'm always learning


Edit: Just thought I'd expand on my goal of keeping it real. By that I mean I don't aim to become a PUA robot. Rather than being a notorious womanizer I prefer being a fresh fun seeking guy who gets enough regular action. To me that just seems to be the more positive approach and I always seek the positive approach. That's why I can't tolerate some of the posts here about "destroying" women or people who think it's ok to play ladies. Because of that I really like Jugglers approach: It should be an art and not a science!

 

[Wiesman44]

Ok SKIP, i have a question for ya. I'm very successful in bars and clubs, but horribly unsuccessful online. I've nailed probably about 20 women in real life, and 1, i believe, from online.

1) What websites do you go to.

2) If you use myspace, whats your % that actually respond back ? I bet my response rate is probably around 5%, and even less for those that give me their AIM sn and I'm around a 7.5-8 on the looks scale.

I think the problem is too many guys hit on girls on that site. Whats your trick ?

 

[TheFlyingMan]

I'm 24, haven't really tried to get that many girls in my life, but I've had a few fall into my lap, i think it's because i look better then average, so it was just dumb luck.

found this site because my ex (HB7.5) cheated on me, it took me 2 years to recover, I got another, HB9, and she cheated on me too. It broke me like a b!tch, and I came here to discover that I was way too nice.

So haven't been working on cold approaching too much, just working on inner game. Recognising the BS women do, the psychos and the users, and learning to kick them out!

 

[BlahBBlah]

OK well I'll be one of the first to admit that I do not have as much experience.

I'm 21 and have only dated three girls. At the most, I was with one of them for a couple of weekends. I've never had a girlfriend though. I've only had sex once and that was with the third girl (HB7).

I think a lot of it has to do simply with the fact that I don't ask out women as much as I should be doing. I've been meeting a lot more women since I've started reading tips on this site and really trying to improve on my game. I've always been a very quiet and reserved guy so it decreases my chance of getting *** everytime I go out somewhere. I've been trying to talk more in general even if it's just fluff talk. I try not to overdo though either. I don't want to be desperate about it either.

Anyway, so yeah, I need to find a wingman in my city (St. Louis) or maybe join some bootcamps or something.

 

[sparky0000]

Oh wow! This is like sitting in a circle and opening up to one another. Well, let me see.

My loves: Opera, Contemporary Art, Ancient Art (Greek, Etruscan, Phoenician, etc.), Design, Wine, Meditating, Love, Passion, Romance, Language Study, Ballet (Watching), Solitude, The Color White, Molding The Minds Of My Beloved Vika and Her Friend Ala.

My dislikes: I really try not to dislike anything. Some people simply have a different way of looking at things. I will say that I do not like people who are unable to change their minds. Life is about learning and discovering. Oh yeah, I also have a hard time stomaching loud people.

Did You Know? I have a very sensitive stomach. Causes me to eat mostly bland foods and in very small portions. Hence, I eat a small meal every three hours....I spent a good bit of time living and learning from Orthodox Christian monks not too far from Dracula's home ....I like giving unusual little gifts to friends and people.

Ok, enough about me. I just hope that we all continue to strive for growth in our lives.

 

[skip2mylou781]

Ok SKIP, i have a question for ya. I'm very successful in bars and clubs, but horribly unsuccessful online. I've nailed probably about 20 women in real life, and 1, i believe, from online.

1) What websites do you go to.

2) If you use myspace, whats your % that actually respond back ? I bet my response rate is probably around 5%, and even less for those that give me their AIM sn and I'm around a 7.5-8 on the looks scale.

I think the problem is too many guys hit on girls on that site. Whats your trick ?

Online, I have had proven success before on buddypic.com but now myspace.com is the thing.......the key is to remmeber that there are SO many girls on that site that its a numbers game......just initiate contact with as many chicks as possible, doesnt really matter wat u say, just DO NOT call them hot

 

[rocky_mtn]

I'm a blind squirell who has found enough nuts to stay alive, but never enough to really to live life to its fullest.

I've had like 10 serious g/fs and another 10 not so serious g/f and another 10 fvcks, but it all fell in my lap, literally. But I could never just go up and get women. I don't care now, I'll go up to a HB just to see if she is having fun. getting old isn't so bad because inhibitions go way down. I look young and like to have fun, so READ the DJ BIBLE, it is the best thing I have read. Read some more books on communication and self improvement and it take it from there.

I'm an internet forums junkie, guns, jeeps whatever. But making a hobby of meeting hot women has been the best thing I've done.


Sometimes dudes need to get some advice and reassurance for what should come naturally but doesn't.

Just don't spend too much time online, go out and do it.

(edited for spelling)

 

[Don Juan the Fantastic]

I had almost ZERO experience with girls before I found this site back in high school. In these past 4 years, I've played the field, dated a LOT, had some relationships.. had 6 (or 7?) 3somes..! Now I just managed to steal a super hot model-type that I actually like from her jackass boyfriend.. this site has very good things for you if you know what advice to listen to.

There is a very wide variety of people on here now, a lot of the "advice" these days is garbage, which is unfortunate. But people are learning =)

ps. Jez.. you sound a little f'ed up man. There's no way this ends up well for the daughter you had in your fantasy relationship..

 

[Man Of Adventure]

Im a 20 year old whos been in and out of relationships and this ongoing war in Iraq. I found this site probably when I was 15, had severe onitis with multiple girls in succession. I met a great girl when I was 16 had a fling, then onitis kicked in a freaked her the **** out. From then I had a long term depression and decided to do something about it. Started checkin up on David DeAngelos ideas and started getting results. I picked up a good girlfriend when I was 17. I also joined the national guard. I went to basic the summer of my junior year in HS. I got back, turned 18 and my gf kept blowing me off so I broke it off with her. From there I went just kind of in and out picking up phone numbers and emails not getting many good responses. I managed to get with a couple hot girls: One turned out her Dad is a ****in psycho and made **** not really appealing. Another girl ended up ****ing my friend (bastard) and getting with him for quite some time when I finished up my advanced basic my summer senior year. I get back on my nineteenth b-day and get a notice that Im going to Iraq.

Iraq comes and a few months go by. Its long and never ending blah blah blah. Here come's my leave. Hey, that friend that nailed the girl I was trying to get with is constantly in and out of their relationship plus theyre supposed to be engaged. She wants no kind of relationship whatsoever like that or anything to do with him. What should I do? Hey, hes heading of to basic. Sounds like its fair game. nuff said

More months of Iraq. I have a LDR for awhile which seems to do okay. I turned 20 in August 2005. I get home that December finally. My LDR turns into an LTR until about 2 weeks ago and I broke it off. So now Im just lookin around lately grabbin a few numbers here and there. I just want to take it easy for once since Ive been back home. Relationships are a lot of work. Theres probably the last 5 almost 6 years of my life. Ive learned a ****load in that time.

 

[DarkLight]

I'm 26yrs. old, working 2 jobs, 7-days a week.

I'm all about stacking cake right now. I used to work as a professional photographer, made great money, travelled the world for 5 yrs. on and off. 2 of those solo, without coming home. Excellent adventure in realization. Spent a year of that in India, meditating, etc. Losing my mind, realizing life.

In regards to chicks. I've waxed probably around 30. Longest LTR... almost 2yrs. B!tch killed me, led me to this site. Been getting my sh!t down ever since. Main sticking point... just too fvckin sensitive of others feelings. I've always had a deep character, so thats how it reflects (on the negative side).

Father is a Loser w.a good heart that he never trusted in. Mother is everything. No suprise uh!? lol. Anyways... been studying phychology, hypnosis, seduction, power, mysticysm, shaminism, truth, death, etc. for as long as I can remember. Always on the up, in regards to claiming my power, and improving myself through letting go of myself (if that makes sense to the peeps here).

My game is mostly one of superior intelligance expressed in formless charm, all the while a strong devilish-naughty streak running underneath. I'm excellent in social finesse, due to travelling so much, and having to deal w. (REALLY) different people. While most dudes where doing a keg-stand... I was in India fcking a swedish girl in the sands of a holy place.
So I'm sort of a different breed, always have been.

Back to it... worked as a Pro Photog., started my own skate/streetwear clothing company, worked in putting together multi-hundred million dollar financing, have studied and traded the FOREX (foreign currency market) and am now on the rise again, working at both a gym and a restaruant. lol

I enjoy the hustle. My father always got screwed over in biz deals, so I've grown up developing an extroadinary savvy for business, as well as reading people/situations. I enjoy using all my faculties, and commanding positions of power, in that I know my choices are succesful, intelligent and effective.

Haven't read too much of Mystery's stuff... but homey's life is about this, so I enjoy the passion and value he's yielded. Don't like the canned sh!t though, really.

Really like David D's sh!t, in that its so well communicated. He really does a good job in helping peeps "get it." On the bigger pic levels as well. Evolution, etc.

Juggler gets much credit from me. He's just a Suave fellow. Seems mad mature, and really genuine and charismatic guy.

Down w. Xuma, and Gun's strength too.
Not to mention POOK, and a Load of Pimpin Suave Cats still in effect here. (word up, much gratitude)

Blah blah blah... but I think my most valuable card, is my multi-dimensional perspective, and depth. I've lived a life bigger than most, and I'm barely 26. One thing I've found is its bottom line... all about you. Realize and channel the glory within, and it will be reflected through-OUT!

Peace'