Yeah i stopped talking ot my ex for a month, via telling her to stop. She continued a few times. 1 Mailing me with a false email trying to talk ****a bout my band. 2. Calling my house pretending to be some guy wanting to join my band. 3. Making a note at school with her friends talking **** about my band. I just ignored it all. But for SOME reason, i feel like tleling her she can talk toi me again if shes mature about it. I actually want to talk to her. But its a the WRONG idea. She has a new bf that absalutely is pathetic, but she tries to rub it in my face when we did talk. And shes did really ****ed up **** to me and doesnt deserve my attention. But what is it calling me back.... i dont know.. its been a long time.
Someone give me strength
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spidersense
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to me, just by reading your posts, it sounds like the is borderline personality disorder, which those people, tend to be attention *****s. but in terms of giving you strength, I can't really think of much to say except, do you really want this annoyance in your life?
if you really don't want to be "mean" like I would be and tell her to stop contacting you, then just give her the so called "cold shoulder" stop listening and walk away, never contact her, if she calls you, say you gotta go and actually have other things to do like organize your baseball card collection if you have to.
Remember, there are sooooooooooooooo many other women out there, women, not girls like she is, but women, that want you and desire your, just your, attention. And many, if not most of them, will be more attractive to you than she is.
if you really don't want to be "mean" like I would be and tell her to stop contacting you, then just give her the so called "cold shoulder" stop listening and walk away, never contact her, if she calls you, say you gotta go and actually have other things to do like organize your baseball card collection if you have to.
Remember, there are sooooooooooooooo many other women out there, women, not girls like she is, but women, that want you and desire your, just your, attention. And many, if not most of them, will be more attractive to you than she is.
your right man..... she is ****ed up in the head.... and she isnt g oing to be changed in these months. But i feel as if i want the power to manipulate her and when she tries to contact me back give her very little attention, to show in a sense i dont care.
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heh.. all I can really say to this is don't care about not caring. don't try to show her you don't care, really not care about her. if she's dieng on the street from a car accident, then take care of her, but otherwise get her out of your life. don't be borderline personality disorder yourself, don't be that clingy.
your right man..... she is ****ed up in the head.... and she isnt g oing to be changed in these months. But i feel as if i want the power to manipulate her and when she tries to contact me back give her very little attention, to show in a sense i dont care.
thefonz
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maybe she doesn't like your band
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Which you are not strong enough to achieve since you apparently care...
Please cut all form of contact Straight Away since this girl is trying to mess with your mind. I am 99.99% sure that she was the one initiating the break-up....
MacDiddy
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have you already thought about using her just for sex?... like "why don't you come over so we can ****?"
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You seem to let women mess with you too much.You gotta wild out on people sometimes or they won't respect you.
Just let her have it man,just let go and tell her to stop playing games.
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i think ill leave it at that as i didnt email her today. The only reason any of this gets to me is that i have to see her and her bf EVERY ****ing day at school. All kissing each other and ****. And the fact i do think shes pretty and i miss those things piss me off. But even so i know shes ****ed up.
AlwaysExcel
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As they say on mASF, GO OUT AND FVCK TEN OTHER WOMEN!!
In my experience, it helps put her bunk ass in perspective.
SHE IS REPLACEABLE!! And sure, you may still miss her and may not like the other women as much, but having sex is a lot more empowering and validating than watching her makeout with her new BF in front of you. You'll feel much better once a bunch of other women have made you cvm.
In my experience, it helps put her bunk ass in perspective.
SHE IS REPLACEABLE!! And sure, you may still miss her and may not like the other women as much, but having sex is a lot more empowering and validating than watching her makeout with her new BF in front of you. You'll feel much better once a bunch of other women have made you cvm.
i mean its not that bad because ive realised shes with a faggot now, and i was much more above in many levels. But seeing it is still annoying and aggravating. But your most likely right, i need to find some girls man, get my mind off the stupid ones.
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AlwaysExcel right on.
Swede,
These borderline chicks, you should type in "borderline" in the search and see if she meets any of the requirements. If she does then...
In g chem, there is matter and antimatter. When the 2 come together there is destruction. We, as DJ's, are the Matter, the rock of the universe. Occasionally, we bump into anti-matter girls and following such girls leads to destruction. Out of 107 girls, I've done 2. It makes your heart weak and yes these girls are usually hot, biblically well-read in all the bad ways to seduce guys.
Take AlwaysExcel's advice and *** in some girls... up the butt for that matter... LOL.
Go for the nurturing type, big tits are usually a sign of a big heart.
Teamplayer
Swede,
These borderline chicks, you should type in "borderline" in the search and see if she meets any of the requirements. If she does then...
In g chem, there is matter and antimatter. When the 2 come together there is destruction. We, as DJ's, are the Matter, the rock of the universe. Occasionally, we bump into anti-matter girls and following such girls leads to destruction. Out of 107 girls, I've done 2. It makes your heart weak and yes these girls are usually hot, biblically well-read in all the bad ways to seduce guys.
Take AlwaysExcel's advice and *** in some girls... up the butt for that matter... LOL.
Go for the nurturing type, big tits are usually a sign of a big heart.
Teamplayer
