Some New friends

[kk2004]

Hi guys, ive been thinking and Ive only got about three good friends who I spend my time with. Its my girlfriend and two of my buddies call them A and B. My girlfriend hangs out everyday with her friends and she seems me like twice or three times a week. I used to see buddy (A) like once a week or even twice a week but he works now so i only get to see him like twice a month. Then i have buddy (b) who i see like once every two weeks, sometime every week. Maybe like four or five times a month. Im feeling lonely cuz I have no one to spend time with. I have more friends but ill see them maybe once a month or after two three months, there realli not friends just ppl i kno who hang out with me.

I dont know, Im just not good at making and keeping friends. Im feeling lonely and realli down cuz i have no one to share my time with, In the summer, im just home most of the time, and I dont feel like doing anything.

Maybe if u guys can give a few tips for making some new freinds, it wud be appreciated.

 

[diablo]

AE...

 

[quest]

as certain people have attempted to join my group of friends recenently, this is what i recomenend you DON'T do.

-tell outlandish stories that are so obviously false and exagerated.
-talk about your many personalities on the internet (seriously, one guy did this.
-talk about yourself.
-talk about your car.
-talk about your life plans.

its alot like meeting a girl. new guys will like you if you are:

-funny
-friendly
-cool (show it, don't talk about it)

if you go out with some new guys, (don't talk about the hows and the whys of meeting women) but let them see you doing it. guys like guys who can get girls. DO NOT get attached to any of these girls and ditch your new friends for the night.

 

[kk2004]

the problem

I dont know what my peers consider funny, cool and freindly. I realli dont do those things well. So i dont make that many friends. It sucks but what can i do about it

 

[aftershock]

Re: the problem

Originally posted by kk2004
I dont know what my peers consider funny, cool and freindly. I realli dont do those things well. So i dont make that many friends. It sucks but what can i do about it

Become a more interesting person or die miserably, thats what.

 

[quest]

Re: the problem

Originally posted by kk2004
I dont know what my peers consider funny, cool and freindly. I realli dont do those things well. So i dont make that many friends. It sucks but what can i do about it

how old are you?

if you're between 16-9,000,000 years old, guys will think you're cool if you can get girls. DON'T TELL THEM ABOUT IT! LET THEM SEE IT!
funny is a bit of a grey area depends what your new friends interests are. what kind of friends do you want? friends into drugs? friends into sports? friends into computer games? friends into surfing? friends into skating? friends into cars?
my group of friends is fairly sporty with side interests in cars/computer games/light drugs.
for me personally, i suppose my main interests are drinking/sports/girls.
friendly? well. don't be an *******. don't go over the top and get used by them eg. driving them to the city every saturday night so they can drink. but don't just take. and when joining a new group, you may have to give just a little more then you take.