some girls are real biotches

[Swede54]

So ive been talking to this girl, we got together a few times made out few times and crap. But she has some issues and was really good at aggravating me. So i told her not to talk to me anymore. So she continued to on aim, heres some examples of what it led to:

Her: shut the **** up trevor
Me: but way sexier
Her: no
Her: first of all
Her: you are not attractive so shut up
Her: second of all you are an *******
Her: so shut up even more
Me: ok
Her: thirdly you arent half as great as you think you are
Me: word that
Her: and finally
Her: you arent as funny as you play yourself out to be either
Me: boy that sucks
Her: so
Her: you will tell me either i am right
Her: or i am wrong
Her: in all that i just said to you
Me: honestly insulting me to make me mad, isnt going to do anything
Me: i still dont care



then she continued to say what a horrible person i am. But that isnt really what bothered me. I told my friend (a girl), abotu the **** she said. Then my friend goes "Not to be mean or anything, but why do you think anything someone says bad about you isnt true?" then stopped responding. Thats pretty jacked for a friend to do i think. Some people think im concieted but its just my sense of humor. For example ill say "its because im dead sexy" and im serious about that? **** no. Some people need to loosen up maybe?

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Stop hanging out with broads so much,man.That **** can rot your brain.

 

[Jariel]

I experienced a similar attack recently, but it turns out it was just her in a bad mood, which is what I based this tip on: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=70420

For example ill say "its because im dead sexy" and im serious about that? **** no. Some people need to loosen up maybe?

Of course you aren't serious, but maybe she perceived this as overconfidence and her insults are just a way of trying to bring you down. The clue here is "arent half as great as you think you are". I got a VERY similar insult and it turned out she didn't mean it and was just trying to get to me.

And personally, I think you handled it perfectly.

 

[Swede54]

Originally posted by Jariel
I experienced a similar attack recently, but it turns out it was just her in a bad mood, which is what I based this tip on: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=70420



Of course you aren't serious, but maybe she perceived this as overconfidence and her insults are just a way of trying to bring you down. The clue here is "arent half as great as you think you are". I got a VERY similar insult and it turned out she didn't mean it and was just trying to get to me.

And personally, I think you handled it perfectly.

yeah i was trying to stay neutral as possible i knew she was trying to make me mad. However this is interesting, she finally changed the subject. And started talking about the type of guy she wants, as if i really cared. She rejected me a long time ago thats why i was droppin her for one reason, but read this.

Her: i will never be in a relationship for the rest of my life
Me: lol ok
Her: unless it is with someone who is an ******* treats me like **** but buys me everything i want and knows im the hottest girl ever
Her: and is very good in bed
Me: that sounds like me except for the buying thing because lets face it im not the type to waste money.
Her: yes
Her: and he has to be beautiful
Her: and every girl has to be all omg hes so gorgeous
Her: and i will be all duh
Her: and hes mine
Me: thats pretty sad
Me: but whatever floats your boat
Her: we will make passionate kinky sex all the time
Her: and we will be gorgeous
Me: well i must say beautys in the eye of the beholder so just keep looking
Her: and he will cuss at me all the time
Her: and buy me good things
Her: actually that sounds kinda gay
Her: i cant decide
Me: lol ok
Her: i dont want to be in a realationship
Me: well you keep workin on that
Her: im too lazy
Me: sounds good
Her: actually
Her: my next boyfriend
Her: i have to think about this
Her: well he hast o be an ******* be thats hot
Her: and all taht abusive ****
Herx: cause well duh
Me: your crazy?
Her: and loyal because that would be nice for a change
Her: not like just random hit me
Her: but you know
Her: in bed
Me: loyalty is number 1 for me
Her: hot
Her: duh
Her: um
HEr: older
Her: dur
Her: loud. drinker. smoker.
Me: haha im a newly ****ed up smoker now
Me: yes for addictions
Her: bad
Her: but thats all i can ever be attracted to
Me: as you may of noticed im a bad kid


Im like 90% of the things she said, except for the really wierd ****. Pretty sad aint it?

 

[Jariel]

Also, the worst rejections are the ones that try to protect your feelings, i.e. "Let's be friends" or "You're a nice guy, but...". Insults, on the other hand, show there's still some passion.

 

[Swede54]

Originally posted by Jariel
Also, the worst rejections are the ones that try to protect your feelings, i.e. "Let's be friends" or "You're a nice guy, but...". Insults, on the other hand, show there's still some passion.

haha aint that the truth.

 

[Swede54]

Originally posted by Swede54
haha aint that the truth.

bump.

 

[seize_the_pattern]

Her: "you arent half as great as you think you are"
You: " Hm, well glad you like it"
Her: "Where did I say I like it, you *#&$#(*&@"
You:"Well you're still talking to me"

 

[white cloud 8]

You should have just walked away once she started talking s***, you shouldn't put up with that crap. Tell her to shove it up her ass next time.

 

[christz]

Originally posted by Jariel
Also, the worst rejections are the ones that try to protect your feelings, i.e. "Let's be friends" or "You're a nice guy, but...". Insults, on the other hand, show there's still some passion.

hey anybody that shows emotion towards you good or bad, means they care or cared about you and your still on there mind.

its the girls that are totally neatural that say.. lets just be friends kthxbi! that could care less if you dropped of the face of the planet.

 

[bud_2005]

Do you even have a backbone? STICK UP FOR YOURSELF!!!!!!

 

[Wyldfire]

Why are you even focusing any of your attention on someone so caustic and miserable as this in the first place?

Rather than asking why this girl is such a biotch perhaps you should be asking yourself WHY you are attracted to someone with such a negative and rotten disposition.

This reminds me of this girl I work with. She is downright miserable. She is always biotchy and in a lousy, negative mood. She's the worst attention wh*re I've ever seen. She will flirt with guys just enough to get them to get interested in her and lead them on. She makes fun of them and puts them down behind their backs and is downright mean to them most of the time. But then she will give them just enough of the flirting and leading them on to keep them coming back for more abuse.

The vast majority of guys will fall for this crap time and time again. There is ONE guy at work who was too smart to fall for it, though...and he makes fun of her all the time. It cracks me up when I see that and boy oh boy doesn't it just piss her off.

Don't be so dumb when it comes to these kinds of girls. The girl this post was written about sounds much like the girl I work with. Don't waste your time and energy on her. There are plenty of very pretty girls who are not like this and guys should be more selective in who they go after. Stop rewarding biotchy miserable girls with your attention...

 

[bladeux]

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Haha, I didn't know girls that dumb existed.

 

[Swede54]

Re: -

Originally posted by bladeux
Haha, I didn't know girls that dumb existed.

haha they do, and apparently all of them are the ones i run into. But for some reason i always get hooked on girls that are absalute idiots. Maybe those are the only ones i meet. How do i know who to give attention to and not to. Ones like this seem to draw my attention wether i want to give it to them or not. Often i just give it to them because im bored or no other girls are around that apply to me.