ShawnStJames
Don Juan
There's a lot said about meeting women wherever you come across them. That's all to the good, but there's actually a better way, and you won't have to "sell them". They'll already be sold.
See, if you meet a girl at a "lots of chicks/few guys" situation
such as a laundromat youre at a disadvantage because YOU
are immediately percieved as desperate for chasing her.
See, most POWER originates not individually, but in GROUPS. Everyone has predominant social groups to which they are affiliated: schools, fraternities, jobs, clubs, sport teams, etc.
And Power SNOWBALLS. The more positive connection you have with people IN THE GROUP, the more POWER you are percieved to have and the more CONNECTIONS you develop as a result of that power.
When you are IN a group, there's a pipeline of information about you and about everyone IN the group, and there is a social hierarchy. To simply be a PART of a group is advantageous because you have connections to opportunities. But to be POWERFUL within that group has ENORMOUS power potential.
THIS is exactly where you are MOST LIKELY to meet women you would want to date rather than the ANONYMOUS social encounter for the following reasons:
1. As Dale Carnegie pointed out, what attracts most people is INTEREST, SIMILARITY, and PROXIMITY. With a GROUP you get all three.
2. It gives you access to females without having to DATE them without KNOWING them first. Less wasted time, and money.
3. It provides the opportunity for THEM to chase YOU.
I've had lots of women ask me out, and it usually happens in GROUPS.
So HERE'S YOUR HOMEWORK::::::
1. In the next two months, become part of TWO new groups. Make sure that:
A. There are lots of females in those groups.
B. You have a genuine interest in LEARNING/Giving to that group
C. Make sure you have something to OFFER to that group of a unique value
D. Develop a strategy to develop POWER within that group.
SUGGESTIONS:
1. CO-Ed Tennis team or volleyball TEAM
2. COOKING school class.
3. COMPUTER Software Design Class.
4. Church SINGLES GROUP
5. Part time JOB with local Sports/Entertainment company
6. Student Government/Political/Environmental Group
The best groups have all of these:
Lots of women members, prestige, service to society, self improvement, etc.
Which group are you going to join this week?
See, if you meet a girl at a "lots of chicks/few guys" situation
such as a laundromat youre at a disadvantage because YOU
are immediately percieved as desperate for chasing her.
See, most POWER originates not individually, but in GROUPS. Everyone has predominant social groups to which they are affiliated: schools, fraternities, jobs, clubs, sport teams, etc.
And Power SNOWBALLS. The more positive connection you have with people IN THE GROUP, the more POWER you are percieved to have and the more CONNECTIONS you develop as a result of that power.
When you are IN a group, there's a pipeline of information about you and about everyone IN the group, and there is a social hierarchy. To simply be a PART of a group is advantageous because you have connections to opportunities. But to be POWERFUL within that group has ENORMOUS power potential.
THIS is exactly where you are MOST LIKELY to meet women you would want to date rather than the ANONYMOUS social encounter for the following reasons:
1. As Dale Carnegie pointed out, what attracts most people is INTEREST, SIMILARITY, and PROXIMITY. With a GROUP you get all three.
2. It gives you access to females without having to DATE them without KNOWING them first. Less wasted time, and money.
3. It provides the opportunity for THEM to chase YOU.
I've had lots of women ask me out, and it usually happens in GROUPS.
So HERE'S YOUR HOMEWORK::::::
1. In the next two months, become part of TWO new groups. Make sure that:
A. There are lots of females in those groups.
B. You have a genuine interest in LEARNING/Giving to that group
C. Make sure you have something to OFFER to that group of a unique value
D. Develop a strategy to develop POWER within that group.
SUGGESTIONS:
1. CO-Ed Tennis team or volleyball TEAM
2. COOKING school class.
3. COMPUTER Software Design Class.
4. Church SINGLES GROUP
5. Part time JOB with local Sports/Entertainment company
6. Student Government/Political/Environmental Group
The best groups have all of these:
Lots of women members, prestige, service to society, self improvement, etc.
Which group are you going to join this week?