Social sticking point

[Jimmtl]

I can basicaly short it down to Looking good Socialy . Like i want to be known as a high status guy that people respect or something and this prevents me to go out there have an adventure , say crazy stuff to people , and risk looking stupid.I got a natural friend and i noticed that this guy realy doesnt give a **** about his social image.This is totaly random but like last week he told me he loves shemale porn and i was like "damn dude your a fag" and he just laughed it of and said "If liking that makes me a fag then so be it!" , he REALY didnt give a **** about my opinion of him.
I dont know if i realy got something here but can anyone relate to this? or am i totaly of the map?

 

[The Comeback Kid]

It's quite simple. Your friend has no self-consciousness, which permits him to be more confident in social settings. This confidence rubs off on the people he is talking to, and thus he becomes known as a "confident person." Someone who is too self-conscious and totally cares what others think is labeled as insecure.

 

[badboyjmm]

It's quite simple. Your friend has no self-consciousness, which permits him to be more confident in social settings. This confidence rubs off on the people he is talking to, and thus he becomes known as a "confident person." Someone who is too self-conscious and totally cares what others think is labeled as insecure.

Right on the money Comback kid ! I gotta mention that you relay too much on people to be the high status guy. You have to say crazy things, you gotta have fun, you gotta act like nobody around. Because it's all about you ! People will notice and pick on this. Never forget: It's about you and nothing else. So do what you have to do, say whatever you want and use the mistakes to be stronger in your journey.

 

[kingsam]

dont worry . you cant be everything to everybody
its better to be known by many people and hated by some (as some will still love you) than not be known at all.
emulate your freind...