Social proof

[Metro3pilot]

having female friends, does it increase your value ?

can it ever be a bad thing or make you look like a player ?

 

[john_1234]

having attractive female friends will not increase social proof in the eyes of your own circle of friends. it's a different story though in the context of a club setting. you cruise to a club w/ attractive girls, the other girls will take notice and social proof will increase. i doubt that it could ever be a bad thing and you'd probably appear to be a player if you were seen making out w/ each of the girls you're w/

 

[Desdinova]

I've had no negative side effects from having social proof. Not only does it help attract other women, but it also helps attract any female that you're using for social proof. It can easily be a win-win situation.

Don't be worried about being labelled a "player". After all, it's only a label and nothing more. Words mean nothing to women who have "feelings" for you.

 

[STR8UP]

Not only does having women around increase your social value, but I have a lot more fun when I'm out with women or a mixed group rather than just guys.

The only times I have ever been called a "player" were when the chick wanted to get in my pants. Just like when a chick wonders whether or not you are gay. She has to be THINKING about you in a sexual context for the thought to even cross her mind.

So the answer is no, it's not bad to have that label.

 

[insanity]

that depends on the situation. i've made more killings hanging with girls than i have with guy pals.

if were talking club settings, then the problem with guys is, their to reserved.
they just look and stare and say look at her.

when your hanging with women their introducing you to her and her and alot of girls are always hitting the dance floor, so when your dancing with them and you wander off to dance with some other girls, if they like you they'll invite, if they don't seem so inviting then just join your group again. they'll be more chicks in rotation

 

[Thomas94305]

Whenever I get a number at a club, just after that, I'll often go dance with a different woman. I did not do it to make the phone number gal jealous, I just didn't want to feel silly standing around. *HOWEVER*, I end up noticing the phone number gal checking me out dancing with the other gal. AND, the phone number gal is far more receptive when I call, and is less likely to flake.

I'm still not settled if I should do this. I am not seeking to make someone jealous. But, I hate the flaking, and I do want to meet up with the gal later from a position of strength.

 

[flexion_]

Well its a lot of energy to have a bunch of female friends.

It is always useful to have all the women around you knowing and liking you though from a social proof standpoint.