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Social Proof REALLY works

Starman

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I went out with my sis..she is a pretty good lookin chick (she looks like demi moore)

we went to a dance club..where she knew most of the bartenders and bouncers..free drinks all night..

there were this group of 4 chicks..I talked to one..said YO baby whassup!! (I may have grabbed her a$$ too I was drunk)

then left her and went back to my sister..at the bar..All of a Sudden! The 4 chicks come right next to me..and start grabbing ME..and I started to flirt with all of them (except chick #4 who was being a byatch)

then I start flirting mad with girl #2, girl #1 gets mad..girl # 3 says "C'mon lets go! he is just a player!"

then they all left..

I never realized the impact of social proof...for you DJ's/NEwbies..take OUT your LJBF girlies,sisters, cousins whatever.. and USE them to score others..

just a short field report

Peace
 

SamePendo

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bump

My cousin is a goldmine.
 

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It's great when you have good looking relatives, because you can go out with them and they are total social proof and there is absolutely no chance you'll ever fall for them. Perfect!

The second way to do it would be to use girl "friends", which is why it's so important to be friends with a girl even if she rejected you or has a BF but is hot and wants to hang out.
 

SamePendo

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Originally posted by becker
It's great when you have good looking relatives, because you can go out with them and they are total social proof and there is absolutely no chance you'll ever fall for them. Perfect!
You can never be sure of that. These things simply happen.
 

Trapspringer

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Originally posted by becker
Whoa, easy there SamePendo, down boy! :p

LOl.

Starman, so your sis looks like Demi Moore, huh? The one from G.I. Jane or the one from Striptease? Oh, hell, it doesn't matter; they both look good!

I will try the social proof soon. I have just been in the habit of hanging out with the guys.
 

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Originally posted by Trapspringer
LOl.

Starman, so your sis looks like Demi Moore, huh? The one from G.I. Jane or the one from Striptease? Oh, hell, it doesn't matter; they both look good!

I will try the social proof soon. I have just been in the habit of hanging out with the guys.
Dont get me wrong, its always good to hang out with guys. But dont you think youd have more fun if there were some also hot girls by your side?
 

Trapspringer

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Originally posted by killerasp
Dont get me wrong, its always good to hang out with guys. But dont you think youd have more fun if there were some also hot girls by your side?

I think you misunderstood my response, killer. I didn't say it couldn't be fun. It can but I just never think about it when I am calling my buddies up or when they call me up to go out to party, and pick up women. When they start calling me up on the weekends, I just get ready and meet up with them and we go and do our thing. We just usually don't think to ask other women to come with us.

Rarely, one of our LTRs or LDRs will tag along but she will most likely be the only woman. When they start saying, "you never take me out any more. You only go out with your friends while I stay home," one us will have social proof that night. Unfortunately, he will be unable to take advantage of it.

And telling them just to go out with their friends time afer time won't work forever.

Well, I got of track but yes, it can be fun.
 

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Make sure you're there with girls that will give you freedom though and won't care if you leave them for a while and mack on other girls.
 
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