Fruitbat
Master Don Juan
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Just noting: all the men I know who have vast social proof, have very dominant women.
To explain: I am almost 40, my friends are all turning 40 at the same time.
In terms of 40th celebration. I have about 20 people coming. So does my other friend.
I have 2 other friends who are having MASSIVE parties. Like 100+ people
both of them have very socially dominant women. Women CONTROL social interactions. Most of the friends are due to the woman’s, not his.
so, these guys have massive social proof, but it’s all due to their generally very alpha women. They are also rich because their women are wealthy
this never interested me. Id rather not have a headstrong woman.
I guess I’m saying that women generally control social structures, so if you want real social standing, you want an alpha female. Yet , an alpha female will never make you happy.
I had this choice when I was about to get married and I chose the more submissive woman as I didn’t want to be a doormat. Yet now., i half regret it as I would love an enormous birthday party. My wife just doesn’t know that many people.
To explain: I am almost 40, my friends are all turning 40 at the same time.
In terms of 40th celebration. I have about 20 people coming. So does my other friend.
I have 2 other friends who are having MASSIVE parties. Like 100+ people
both of them have very socially dominant women. Women CONTROL social interactions. Most of the friends are due to the woman’s, not his.
so, these guys have massive social proof, but it’s all due to their generally very alpha women. They are also rich because their women are wealthy
this never interested me. Id rather not have a headstrong woman.
I guess I’m saying that women generally control social structures, so if you want real social standing, you want an alpha female. Yet , an alpha female will never make you happy.
I had this choice when I was about to get married and I chose the more submissive woman as I didn’t want to be a doormat. Yet now., i half regret it as I would love an enormous birthday party. My wife just doesn’t know that many people.