Social experiment with positive results. I challenge you all to try.

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So instead of "game".. I've been working on being attractive as possible. Decent physique, really long cool beard, always a fresh haircut, financially independent no kids etc etc.

So I decided one day you know what mainly all I want is sex from these chicks. Sometimes I'll meet one and want more but mostly just sex.

Instead of pretending I want anything else or wasting money on days I've been being direct.

Example :
Plate #1: Hey I haven't heard from you. (we hung out once like 2 weeks ago.
Me: Been busy with work. You know I'm free at night though
plate #1: Yeah I'm busy with blah blah, so I understand maybe we can do a lunch date.

Me: I'm going to be honest. I just want to have sex with you. I don't do relationships and a lunch date is pointless. If you want a guy you can get a drink with and have safe protected sex I'm your guy. Anything more you should find someone else. No disrespect hope you respect my honesty.

Her: Say no more, I'm down for that.

Case two, Facebook friend, we went to elementary school together.


Me: Can I ask you a question without you judging me?
Her: Sure, what is it?
Me: Can we smoke a joint together and have casual sex from time to time?
Her: I quit smoking, but we can hang out and see if it's chemistry how long have you felt like that?
Me: I don't do relationships and I like your body. I don't play games you either with it or not.
Her: Cool let's give it a try.

I was pretty shocked. These were chicks who I never had sex with but I didn't really care if they got upset. They r both decent looking. I was expecting to get cursed at but they actually were down with it.

Give it a try with a plate you don't care about losing and you haven't had sex with. Probably works best if you know she is somewhat attracted to you.
Anyway lmk what happens.
 

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That's actually really cool.

But do us a favour. Post back when you've banged these chicks for full results.
 

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That's actually really cool.

But do us a favour. Post back when you've banged these chicks for full results.
Yeah bro I agree with this. Instead of detailing what you want, show them. Take them for a drink and then have it lead to sex.

But it's interesting they were so straight forward, most girls don't like to be so direct about sex. :cheer:
 

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Thanks guys. I just feel like its a good approach. I feel like women pretend they r so pure but they all have an inner slut.
I will let you know when I bang them but I'm not going to chase either. They both have my number so we will see if they call. If not I'll continue plowing till I find someone worth settling with.
 

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But I really want you guys to try it too. Just a plate you find attractive but don't care about losing.
I think it works best if you look good.
Less attractive guys may have trouble with this.
Just my hypothesis. My Facebook url KingCp89 I believe. I'm a dark skin tattooed black guy built like a nfl line backer. In other words I feel like I'm very **** able but your dad may not like me. This may not work for like preppy guys
 

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Dude. I'm 6' and 200lbs with brad Pitt looks to suit. I'll do just fine. Just post back when you've banged these chicks.
 

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When you say plate it means these are chicks you've courted or are already banging.
 

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He may be courted chick one like barely.. Like no effort at all.
Chick 2 I've known since childhood.
 

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I don't think it'll work. Don't get me wrong, the concept is ideal, and it would make life simpler for 99.9% of us, but chicks like game, sexual tension, being chased, and they LOVE drama. If you can get them to bang straight up outta the blue like this, then mad props to you.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I gotta hear this. If this works... I have the balls, enough breakable plates and the follow through (and a broken heart for oneitis) to make it happen. But... I really need to hear it working and an HB # to try it.

I was actually thinking that because I have enough plates by now (thanks to sheer sarging and cold approaches) that on New Years Eve, I was going to send out a mass text to every plate that I have a # for, this text:

"To all my plates, spinning and broken, thank you for making it a great year. I hope your next year is as good as mine ended up."

I would include every girl I have spoken to in all places of attraction and completion. Including... My 7 Year Ex. My oneitis. My F Buddy. Girls that disappeared. Girls I am seeing. Every one! It has to be at least 25. In a mass text they would all get each others #s. Some will be perplexed and ignore. Others will rage and talk sh!t. Others might actually call and inquire. One or two might actually stick around.

Why would I do this? Because of all of them, I have only slept and developed 4 of them. It will force me to start all over again, and separate the wheat from the chaff. It will force me to keep going and not get mired in the tar pits of mediocrity.

While we are talking about sheer balls to text girls;

Thoughts?
 

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You need more data for assumptions.How about you msg 1000 chicks ? I mean 2 girls is not even statistical error. It means nothing.And your advice is really worthless - no offence, if it would that easy life would be heaven but 99% you will get rejected even if chick is interested because they don't want to feel like slut until you are really good looking, famous or rich.

Also I see no fun here. What you conqured ? You gave bid and that's it, no thrill, no adrenaline, no skill ... BORING.
 

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This does work with a certain amount of playfulness and honesty. Particularly so with online girls. You tell them straight up that you're not in the city always (and do a lot of travelling), you're not looking for a relationship at the moment but who knows for the future but at the moment you don't want anything serious and just looking for someone you can chill and have fun with. She'll get the message loud and clear and either go out with you and fvck you or won't waste your time.
 

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This is based on one of the cornerstones of game not giving a **** and also understanding women are all basically sluts at heart. I think being so direct isn't always the best way to go though. When that girl suggested lunch you could have just suggested drinks letting the sex be implied. Same with the girl from your childhood, you should have just invited her over to smoke and let the sex be implied. I once told a girl not to wear any bra or panties for our date and when she agreed but said "we're not going to do anything" I said "yeah just talk." So you can not give a ****, go directly for sex, and still at the same time give their hamster something to do instead of making the sex obvious by spelling it out for them. Though there is a certain look at me I don't give a **** I just want to have sex thing that can work in certain situations and you seem to be working that angle well. I personally don't use it unless it's obvious that's what the girl is looking for.
 

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Poop1337 said:
This is based on one of the cornerstones of game not giving a **** and also understanding women are all basically sluts at heart. I think being so direct isn't always the best way to go though. When that girl suggested lunch you could have just suggested drinks letting the sex be implied. Same with the girl from your childhood, you should have just invited her over to smoke and let the sex be implied. I once told a girl not to wear any bra or panties for our date and when she agreed but said "we're not going to do anything" I said "yeah just talk." So you can not give a ****, go directly for sex, and still at the same time give their hamster something to do instead of make the sex obvious. Though there is a certain look at me I don't give a **** I just want to have sex thing that can work in certain situations and you seem to be working that angle well. I personally don't use it unless it's obvious that's what the girl is looking for.
This is what Todd from RSD preaches, to give her the excuses before she comes out with them. Telling them you like to take things slow, or don't expect anything. Also using reverse physcology "you don't have to come if you don't want to", "if you feel this is nothing special and just a random thing or whatever you can delete my number right now", and when she's at your place "I'm not kissing until you really want it, you're going to have to beg for it."
 

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I've always done the same without being blunt. Depending on the vibe I'm picking up I'll give them a very sexual compliment, they have a hot body... I'll ask them for their number. But for this to work you have to pass the physical attraction test.

It does work. But it will not work with most women... experience at picking up the clues. How they dress... how they look at you her body language is the key. Or you can be blind lucky.
 
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