So instead of "game".. I've been working on being attractive as possible. Decent physique, really long cool beard, always a fresh haircut, financially independent no kids etc etc.
So I decided one day you know what mainly all I want is sex from these chicks. Sometimes I'll meet one and want more but mostly just sex.
Instead of pretending I want anything else or wasting money on days I've been being direct.
Example :
Plate #1: Hey I haven't heard from you. (we hung out once like 2 weeks ago.
Me: Been busy with work. You know I'm free at night though
plate #1: Yeah I'm busy with blah blah, so I understand maybe we can do a lunch date.
Me: I'm going to be honest. I just want to have sex with you. I don't do relationships and a lunch date is pointless. If you want a guy you can get a drink with and have safe protected sex I'm your guy. Anything more you should find someone else. No disrespect hope you respect my honesty.
Her: Say no more, I'm down for that.
Case two, Facebook friend, we went to elementary school together.
Me: Can I ask you a question without you judging me?
Her: Sure, what is it?
Me: Can we smoke a joint together and have casual sex from time to time?
Her: I quit smoking, but we can hang out and see if it's chemistry how long have you felt like that?
Me: I don't do relationships and I like your body. I don't play games you either with it or not.
Her: Cool let's give it a try.
I was pretty shocked. These were chicks who I never had sex with but I didn't really care if they got upset. They r both decent looking. I was expecting to get cursed at but they actually were down with it.
Give it a try with a plate you don't care about losing and you haven't had sex with. Probably works best if you know she is somewhat attracted to you.
Anyway lmk what happens.
So I decided one day you know what mainly all I want is sex from these chicks. Sometimes I'll meet one and want more but mostly just sex.
Instead of pretending I want anything else or wasting money on days I've been being direct.
Example :
Plate #1: Hey I haven't heard from you. (we hung out once like 2 weeks ago.
Me: Been busy with work. You know I'm free at night though
plate #1: Yeah I'm busy with blah blah, so I understand maybe we can do a lunch date.
Me: I'm going to be honest. I just want to have sex with you. I don't do relationships and a lunch date is pointless. If you want a guy you can get a drink with and have safe protected sex I'm your guy. Anything more you should find someone else. No disrespect hope you respect my honesty.
Her: Say no more, I'm down for that.
Case two, Facebook friend, we went to elementary school together.
Me: Can I ask you a question without you judging me?
Her: Sure, what is it?
Me: Can we smoke a joint together and have casual sex from time to time?
Her: I quit smoking, but we can hang out and see if it's chemistry how long have you felt like that?
Me: I don't do relationships and I like your body. I don't play games you either with it or not.
Her: Cool let's give it a try.
I was pretty shocked. These were chicks who I never had sex with but I didn't really care if they got upset. They r both decent looking. I was expecting to get cursed at but they actually were down with it.
Give it a try with a plate you don't care about losing and you haven't had sex with. Probably works best if you know she is somewhat attracted to you.
Anyway lmk what happens.