Social Circles of High School

[Steel Dragon]

After about 7 solid months of dealing with a certain group, I've had enough with them. You guys know what I mean, the losers, nerds, jocks...them types.

I dont' want any part of these groups after the most recent encounter with one that I thought were good people. It all started when I met this girl who's about a 7 and she was into the same things as me. For about 3 months I was told by all of her girlfriends that she was crazy for me and that I should ask her out for Homecoming. I did and it back fired on me. She said "I didnt' know her well enough to like her." She ended up going with a guy from a catholic school who can drive.

Now as of recent, I had been involved with her friend who is better looking to boot. She invited me to her little parties and stuff and I thought it was quite a shock. I suddenly lost contact with her after 2 weeks and now she won't look at me. I did nothing wrong and hell, I wasnt' around her long enough to do something right so what was the problem? I think its because these people have a bad self image of themselves but try to look good by having a given power to allow new 'members' to their cliques. I'm an honest guy, I work, I dont' drink or smoke and I have a country boy type common sense that you'd get from a 50 year old man. My wisdom is light years ahead of these kids who are the same age as me. I often sit back and laugh at social circles because I have friends in all groups.

I think High school is a hard time for any teenager, and you'd be a liar if you claimed different. Now that I had wasted a great portion of 2003 on this group I have become a wiser man and will not make the mistake of hunting for girls like these, pretty or not. If I could give any advice to a guy who just dont' know his place socially in high school it would be to stay true to yourself. Dont' bend who you are to fit in with certain people just for girls. If there is such thing, be a more confident guy in something other then DJing, if it be basketball, guitar or life itself and that will possibly bring the girls to you ten-fold.

FINAL CONCLUSION:
Honestly, I would rather have no friends at all then to have one's who have serious stress over stupid things. Afterall, we'll only be together for 4 years of our long lives, why make it so hard?
Cliques are overated and only WEAK people who can't go without reliance of "FRIENDS" are involved in cliques. Its sad if you ask me. Anywho, I'm going to retire from girls for awhile because I'm in no hurry to get laid. I'm focused on my music more than ever and I feel great about who I am and I feel sorry for the kids who aren't like me. Although, I would like to get with atleast 2 hb 9's before I leave for college. I dont' think that will be a problem with the great talent of advice we have on this message forum and you new NEW guys should be very grateful to have these guys help you out.

 

[AC/DC]

Sophomore year, I thought the exact same things. You are doing exactly what I did.

Sophomore year, I began to question everything about cliques. Then I found out the most popuilar kid in school was a kid I went to school with in elementary school. I took advantage of it, and soon I was pimping. All the girls came after me. I still havent perfected social skills, but I'm getting there.

Junior year will be a great year for you... I guarantee it. ust continue, and remember being friendly is ALWAYS the way to go.

 

[MacdaddyJr]

Listen, I'm a lot like you in the way your talking about your friends. I know people from every group and I try to be chill with everyone. I try to be cool with everyone and no one seems to have a problem with me. I'm very open and fun. The only thing is, I don't have a group of close friends yet. And at lunch time you have to go to the cafeteria or library. I find myself talking to women mostly. Not so much men, I guess it's cause over the last year or two I know how to talk to women better and they want to talk to me. I hear a lot of talk on the board about girls only liking the most popular guys at school which is sooo true. Even some of the ugliest guys get better girls than me just cause they are more popular. yeah, that makes sense Women... and where do your friends go after you get out of highschool , you'll probably never talk to them after hs again when you go to college or whatever. All these social circles are is power for getting woman and not getting bored in my opinion. For some afcs, it is just for the sake of saying that they're important to others. That's why they have these friends. stupid bastards

 

[686]

so meet girls outside your school and date them.

it is good to try to hang out with more than one group of friends, definitely.

 

[y2playa]

I feel ya

I can understand where youre coming from. As you progress in high school you become more mature and responsible others get stuck in that phase between freshman and sophmore. Just focus on your grades and keep it real with those that keep it real with you.