Look up EFT.
Emotional Freedom techniques
http://www.emofree.com/
Watch this video:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=iI_6Ktta2QE
Stop looking for approval.
Stop trying to be Perfect.
Stop repressing your feelings.
Stop second guessing yourself. Stop letting yourself be controlled byu what others have doen to you inthe past.
Let go of the resentment and shame other people have put into you.
Understand and appreciate yourself and whio you yreally are.
Being UNIQUE is better than BEING PERFECT.
You don't have to have anyone's Permisiion anymore.
You don't need anyone's valdiation anymore.
You don't need to make everybody happy and feel good.
You don't need to keep listening to negative self talk and accept other's negative beliefs about you.
Understand that your parents were not perfect.
Understand that the people whio have hurt you did so out of ignorance.
Let go of anger and resentment,.
Your voice is still worth being heard.
Your soul is still worth letting out and shining.
Your personality is good enough for anyone and everyone.
Your interests are interesting and yours and yours alone.
Let go of others "judging" you.They cannot.
Stop judging yourself.
You're too hard onyourself. Other people aren't even a third critical as you are to yourself.
Stop tryibg to be perfect.
Stop needing other's acceptance of you.
Stop being so obsessed with how you look or what you say.
let your personality shine through. Let your voice come through. Let your idead and thoughts come out.
It doesn't matter what anyone thinks of them.
The only thing that matters truly in the entire universe is what YOU DO WITH YOUR LIFE>
Your hapopiness.
That's it.