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I'm not trying to be one of those guys who whines about the market, but....

So I finally got to talking to a decent looking girl from POF. I feel like today was a major learning experience. I started out kind of being shy about bringing up the topic of sex, not wanting to drive her away.

Turns out she already had 2 **** buddies. She could care less about money. So apparently girls like d1ck more than money, which is understandable.

Now it's about finding out how to get them to want it from me? All she said about her **** buddies was that they had good d1cks. She didn't necessarily like their personalities and she didn't mention their looks at all. She DEFINITELY didn't say they were rich.

But also what comes to my attention is that I am now involved in the "game" of a 23 year old girl and unfortunately have to abide by it's rules in order to get any. She has 4 cats and watches TV all day when she's not at work. Why should I have to impress this? And when you say "I shouldn't," I would like to say that there's no evidence that the next girl will be any less stupid.

This includes even those hot girls working outside of clubs down town. Perhaps they go home to a bunch of cats and television shows as well and truly have nothing to offer.

Perhaps the market is indeed sh!t.
 
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Go back to the fundmentals..

Go out more..

Humans arnt meant to interact through symbols on an elctronic device.

Find girls that dont live their life online.

Find girls that have good fathers and dont need constant valifadtion stimulus

Girls with multiple **** buddys %80 of the time are hurt from their last breakup

You arnt going to win on social media, no point in trying.. dont start a business from scratch in an overflooded market.

Dont even play that game.
 
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So here's how things went with this girl since the last time I posted. Keep in mind that I don't think this girl is special in any way. So basically my last post was saying how she's retarded.

So she was telling me that she spends her time either playing with cats, watching TV, or organizing her planner and filling it with stickers. At this point, I thought she was a total insane loser with no value and no sense in her head... which is probably still actually true. But anyway, I played along. She told me that "she's lame" for doing those things. And I said something like "no, you're not lame... I'm way lamer." And she asked me how I was lame.

I told her that I collect ancient coins. That I have coins from the Roman Empire that are almost 1,700 years old as well as some Chinese and Mongol coins that are roughly 800 years old and a few others as well. She told me that wasn't lame, that it was actually really cool. I told her I just spent $845 on a piece of Panamanian paper currency from 1941 and that it is very rare because they only printed it for 1 week before their government was overthrown and the new government tried to burn all the old currency. I told her that $845 was actually a really good deal and that I've seen it sell for over $3,000. She replied by saying that $845 is more than she makes in a month.

So this girl had previously told me that she doesn't care at all about money, which was a breath of fresh air as opposed to the Seeking Arrangement girls I've been talking to. But also take into account the fact that she's only 23, so how much could she really know about the importance of money? Perhaps she just "isn't there yet."

So just to keep the conversation going, I ask what she wants out of her life. She told me she wants to be a stay at home mom. Ah... now THIS is important.

So she wants to have kids. Obviously she needs a male to have kids with (at least for now until the liberal retards promote some gender bending nonsense that will allow females to reproduce without males). She does not have a good job. She told me that she makes less than $845 in a month, so she obviously would need financial help if she even had one baby. This is where MONEY IS IMPORTANT TO HER whether she realizes it or not.

And that's not to say she would even make a good mother. For f uck's sake, she plays with cats and watched TV all day. I probably couldn't tolerate that for one minute. I don't even own a TV and don't want any animals around me or any children I might have.

So while she did seem like a "cool person" for a while, it is still a fact that she has very little to offer other than a hole. A hole I would get very bored of in a short time.

For me to be thinking of just having sex with her is very shirt sighted.... let alone something totally stupid as getting a picture of her topless, which is just completely childish, although I will still probably ask tomorrow just for the hell of it even though there's no point.
 
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Dear diary
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
You don't have a real argument. Just childish words.
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Well is it? Whats the probability u will wake up tomorrow and decide to come on here and stop being a baby back b1tch? Idk i dont think it will happen but we can hope right?
 
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Chev.Chelios said:
Go back to the fundmentals..

Go out more..

Humans arnt meant to interact through symbols on an elctronic device.

Find girls that dont live their life online.

Find girls that have good fathers and dont need constant valifadtion stimulus

Girls with multiple **** buddys %80 of the time are hurt from their last breakup

You arnt going to win on social media, no point in trying.. dont start a business from scratch in an overflooded market.

Dont even play that game.
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But I don't think that searching for a unicorn is the answer. I think the answer is to minimize my expectations.

At this point, if I find a girl who has an IQ above 50, who doesn't think her butt is worth $1,000,000, and isn't a drug addict, I would take that as a success.

And even if I'm being overly pessimistic, that's okay for now. Because then, when I allow myself to see girls as valuable again, maybe I will appreciate them more.

When I went out the other night, I wasn't impressed by the club girls.
 
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Chev.Chelios said:
Go back to the fundmentals..

Go out more..

Humans arnt meant to interact through symbols on an elctronic device.

Find girls that dont live their life online.

Find girls that have good fathers and dont need constant valifadtion stimulus

Girls with multiple **** buddys %80 of the time are hurt from their last breakup

You arnt going to win on social media, no point in trying.. dont start a business from scratch in an overflooded market.

Dont even play that game.
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But yea you're right.
 
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Why the hell are you bringing up sex in this manner? It makes you look clueless and desperate. Stop that.

Get them out with you on a date and then escalate. Simple as that.
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
I'm not trying to be one of those guys who whines about the market, but....

So I finally got to talking to a decent looking girl from POF. I feel like today was a major learning experience. I started out kind of being shy about bringing up the topic of sex, not wanting to drive her away.

Turns out she already had 2 **** buddies. She could care less about money. So apparently girls like d1ck more than money, which is understandable.

Now it's about finding out how to get them to want it from me? All she said about her **** buddies was that they had good d1cks. She didn't necessarily like their personalities and she didn't mention their looks at all. She DEFINITELY didn't say they were rich.

But also what comes to my attention is that I am now involved in the "game" of a 23 year old girl and unfortunately have to abide by it's rules in order to get any. She has 4 cats and watches TV all day when she's not at work. Why should I have to impress this? And when you say "I shouldn't," I would like to say that there's no evidence that the next girl will be any less stupid.

This includes even those hot girls working outside of clubs down town. Perhaps they go home to a bunch of cats and television shows as well and truly have nothing to offer.

Perhaps the market is indeed sh!t.
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You gotta get off online dating. Get out and talk to girls at bars
 
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RichardTheFrog said:
So just to keep the conversation going, I ask what she wants out of her life. She told me she wants to be a stay at home mom. Ah... now THIS is important.

So she wants to have kids. Obviously she needs a male to have kids with (at least for now until the liberal retards promote some gender bending nonsense that will allow females to reproduce without males). She does not have a good job. She told me that she makes less than $845 in a month, so she obviously would need financial help if she even had one baby. This is where MONEY IS IMPORTANT TO HER whether she realizes it or not.

And that's not to say she would even make a good mother. For f uck's sake, she plays with cats and watched TV all day. I probably couldn't tolerate that for one minute. I don't even own a TV and don't want any animals around me or any children I might have.
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Biology man, mother nature is *****. Even woman that say they don't want kids (small %), guess what....their bodies still crave that desire!! Ever date a broad that can't have kids?
Yeah the majority are mentally fvcked in the head. Family life and blue pill is engraved in woman waaay more than men.

Sperm banks flourished in the 1970's so yeah females have been making babies without males for awhile now. I'm not sure how you don't know this.

The good news is you are on the right track by minimizing your expectations. It's seems like you are seeking validation and entertainment from these woman. Stop thinking you need a woman in your life and more of a want perspective.

POF is the Walmart of online dating.
 
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marmel75 said:
Why the hell are you bringing up sex in this manner? It makes you look clueless and desperate. Stop that.

Get them out with you on a date and then escalate. Simple as that.
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Just to test her I guess. She currently has 2 **** buddies, so it's not like she's innocent.

How do I escalate in public?
 
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