So Suave= The Pvssy "Prize" Cult?

[HumbleNinja]

Is it me or anyone else feel like this So Suave "Seduction Community" is run like a cult?

It has a lot of the typical cult mentality.

Let lost marks come to you looking for answers to obtain a "prize" or something to "complete" them IE: “pvssy”.

Recruit or better yet have your own members recruit new members to join: Wingmen

Tell them you have the answers to obtain the "prize" they seek. “pvssy”

Isolate them from social circles or slowly draw and invite them into your "community". (Tell them social circles are a “crutch”.)

Have them share stories to gather intelligence on them.

Relate to them and enable them.

Control their thoughts and emotions with praise and negativity.

If they question anything in the communities group think then attack them and then pretend they are the hostile or "clueless" one.

Encourage other members of the group think to change their mind or attempt to ostracize them as "punishment".

Slowly brainwash them and tell them it's everything else's fault to serve as their own excuse. (Feminisim, multi-cultural "f@ggots", Western Chicks, fat chicks, etc.) or other mass conspiracy theories.

The power to make any given women desire you and go to bed with you does not and will never exist.

Get yourselves a solid social circle of real life friends and meet people. Because for all the talk of online dating being a “crutch” your online seduction community “friends” are also your crutch and they’ll stick by you for as long as you suit their own agenda, much like chicks who use online dating.

If there are millions of dudes having success without needing “game” the problem isn’t with them…It’s with you. Wake up. The truth is right in front of you in the mirror.

 

[Chamber36]

I am surprised to hear this from you.

I think opinions are discussed alright on this site. People can agree, or they can disagree. People only really get banned for being giant trolls. Sometimes they're treated a bit harshly when they're disagreed with, but that's what goes with having a strong frame. One person is sure they're right and the other is wrong.

TBH I have never heard anyone call social circles a 'crutch'... There's different roads that lead to rome anyway. Some people do great at solo-game, some people do great at wing-man clubbing game, some people are good at social circle game. Some are better at day-game, some go in through the 'friend' route.

I thought people here were more easy-going than that. If it works - it works, but if it doesn't then it doesn't.

Who are you talking about specifically anyway?

 

[Mike32ct]

Maybe not so much on SS, but there has been this attitude in the pickup community that ONLY bar and club pickups are legitimate. Like if you got laid via a social circle or online or whatever, it wasn't "real game" lol. You're still a virgin or no better than a guy that got a hooker LOL.

I'm not saying I agree with that; I don't. But some guys think like that.

 

[JohnChops]

Ninja, have you gone off the deep end again?

 

[CaptainSaveAh0]

I would agree somewhat on the cult accusation if you are referring to different "methods" of PUA because everyone thinks their method is the best and that there is no other method but not about So Suave.

This website gives a wide knowledge and opinion based on everyone experience and the way you interpret the information is up to you. If you come on here with an open mind you can learn lots of things that will improve your game. No one is FORCING their ideas here down your throat, read it, keep an open mind and interpret it however you want to.But I do agree, no matter how much you read it will always be down to making the changes yourself.

Having a big social circle or network always helps, but I know some guys who just don't need it to get women. Its all opinion and it all depends on the person.

 

[SeymourCake]

This is why I don't ask advice on this forum, because it drives you crazy.

 

[HumbleNinja]

Ninja, have you gone off the deep end again?

Lol. Hell no. Gotta keep things lively on So Suave. Though I do believe a lot of this "seduction" sht is like some cult sht and it will fvck your head up.

Especially if you are purchasing seduction stuff.

Read up on quick things about online cults etc. Some start off innocently and the brainwashing will slowly amp up. (It's not all "devil or religious" sht either or what people would assume all cult like things are about.)

Notice conspiracy theories on SS, products advertised, etc..Don't think there aren't dudes trolling for that. They look for any percieved "weakness" in people and PVSSY is the hook on here.

Pretty much telling dudes to use your own brain. Don't get too deep into sht. It's easy to say you'll "never" get svcked into a cult but a lot of stuff etc. on here can been seen as cult like.

 

[bukowski_merit]

Sosuave is not a single cult...

It's a group of competing cults...

Hardcore tribal mentality goes on around here... And bullsh!t claims of being separated from the matrix from these same people...

The biggest sign of a cult is not how much they pat each other on the back... It's how hard they throw rocks at their enemies...

 

[Mr_Stinky]

Ninja, have you gone off the deep end again?

I agree.

For someone who ostensibly hates this place -- you seem unable to ever leave it HN

 

[HumbleNinja]

I agree.

For someone who ostensibly hates this place -- you seem unable to ever leave it HN

lol Hate is a strong word. Are we not allowed to mention things that seem to contradict the mantra of So Suave at times? Or should we all just "agree" everytime?

 

[skinnyguy]

To answer your question Humble, yes, this place is a cult.

There are a substantial number of closed minded sociopaths here who will call you a faggot if you want a girlfriend or a wife.

 

[VladPatton]

Hear Ye, Hear Ye! The Cult of the Cünts is now in session! Order! Order!

 

[Poop1337]

Obviously a good real life social circle is great. This place is a lot less cult like aka PC religious than most other forums. I have to disagree with you. Also anything can be used as a buffer so yeah get out there and start doing keyboard jockeys.

 

[MillionBillionaire]

We are all like the cult bomber in the movie "Contact." Only we like to talk about dating..

 

[TenOfSpades]

Reminds me of Fight Club. Oddly enough there is a seduction guru who goes by Tyler Durden.

SSer's are space monkeys through and through. They come here with problems. Get identical advice spewed at them by everybody. Learn the advice being used, such as "go ghost" or "you are friendzoned". Then they go regurgitate it as there advice in another thread. Reminds me a lot of "His name was Robert Paulson" some nonsense they hear, spit back out.

 

[CrimsonPanther]

To answer your question Humble, yes, this place is a cult.

There are a substantial number of closed minded sociopaths here who will call you a faggot if you want a girlfriend or a wife.

i don't see the point of purely trolling threads/posts.
HJ if you want attention go try to pick up some girls, or post on facebook, don't create useless threads just to "stir up some waters". it is pointless.

and skinnyguy, you are hopeless. you hang around in a forum that makes you feel bad, and 90% of your posts is ranting. we get it, you like to be a loser, and you have no intention of evolving. no need to show it in every post, it just makes you look bad.

even the title is misleading, and untrue. if this is what you understand from this forum, you need to grow up and get off the mushrooms.

SS is a forum to help guys get laid. that's it. no need for self proclaimed troll-messiah's to come preach about what they think the forum should be about. the internet is free, open yourself a "diick prize" cult forum if you want.

there's a lot of wierd unhappy philosophers with an attitude here lately, who instead of adding some value threads, just monkey around and throw poop, and feel special when people react. they mistake it for attention.

someone mentioned a matrix-related expression? uh-uh-uh let's bash it, and feel special.
someone uses the word alpha? uh-uh-uh let's bash it, and feel special.
let's call SS a cult, wow, such creativity, much coolness, so epic, wow.

you act like a 16yo. attention ***** trying to get false attention by being all rebellious and sheet, it's so cool bashing the mainstream, yay.

well get over it. there are different types of people here, some more pragmatic, some more emotional, some more tough, to each his own. what has no place here is trolls and crybabies.

and people, when you see obvious troll threads, do yourself a favor and let them die fast, don't reply.

OP: i could just shame you and the other lamers, but you obviously don't care, because your integrity is something non existent already. also i would advise you that instead of trying to feel all cool and rebel by acting like a fool, hit the gym, make friends and meet girls. this also seems in vein, because you have a lot of women around you (or so you say) :crackup: sure you are mate. people who get laid regularly don't feel the need to troll. skinnyguy at least admits to having high expectations, thus his weenie is fading away along with his manliness (high expectations require the ability to also OFFER quality stuff). i can understand you feeling neglected by everyone, but trying to get false attention on an internet forum is NOT the step in the right direction.