So she's a nutcase, what now?

[someguyuk]

So, third date with girl tonight, nailed her. She then starts coming out with all this sh!t about us.

She says's I'm fat. OK, fair one, im overweight. She tells me I need to loose the weight so "You can be nice".

I made the mistake of mentioning I've applied for officer training with the army, dependent on getting my fitness levels up, and how I wanted a posting to the DET in northern Ireland. She starts going on abourt how she doesnt want me to go away and fight.

I take tablets for my medical condition and made the mistake of leaving my pills next to my bed. She starts how I need to get off them because "their no good"

I love Horror. I read any horror novel that comes out, Roleplay using the WoD system and own about 70 horror DVDs, apparently I need to get rid of them.

My other passion is writing, apparently my PC is "A pile of crap" and my writing is a "pipe dream".

So, what the hell? Is it worth this or is it a case of NEXT?

 

[flexion_]

I'm not sure why you are asking us? Maybe you are venting. You know what to do. You don't change who you are for a woman - either put your foot down or use those feet for walking.

 

[johnmich]

eesh sounds like a right ***** the you way you put it. Not to offend you or anything

 

[Manonamission]

Gee THAT'S ALL? Yo man I'm no DJ, i'm just in training and even I know that this one is a def. NEXT.

Don't let her try to control your life, either try to tell her to pipe down, and if she doesn't shut her yap, then give her the boot. You don't need that ****.

 

[superchristx]

Run, screaming.

Really.

 

[johnmich]

she tells you not to follow your goals aims (army thing)
give up your hobby (horror films)
effecting your health (the pills)

my god theyre like the most important things to be honest

PS - i know i posted twice but im bored

 

[Charm]

She just has low self-esteem and tries to bring others down to her level. Be careful that she doesn't get to you. Just don't let her comments bother you.

Laugh at her and take what she says with a grain of salt. If she gets obnoxious, tell her that she needs to get to know you better before you give a lot of weight to her suggestions about changes you need to make."

 

[El MonoLoco]

You said it yourself in the last word of your post.....



damn all that after only sleeping with her 1 time.....wow....




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