So ****ing frustrated!!

[Young Money]

Haven't had a wank in 4 days now and I'm getting really frustrated and finding it hard to concentrate on something.

On the plus side I feel the urge to go out get rid of my AA and pull.

Do you guys find it hard to get down to something or do I need to get the hang of it? Would you guys recommend stopping wanking all together or stick to 1 a week?

 

[Halcyonique]

...Why have you stopped wanking?

 

[Young Money]

...Why have you stopped wanking?

To get my sex drive up, to force me to go out and get rid of my AA.

I'm looking at pictures of hot chicks on FB right now and I'm going crazy.

Note to any other beginners like me, proper food and sleep works wanders for your sex drive. I went without both properly for a few weeks and I had no drive. Wanking or no wanking.

 

[Halcyonique]

To get my sex drive up, to force me to go out and get rid of my AA.

I'm looking at pictures of hot chicks on FB right now and I'm going crazy.

Note to any other beginners like me, proper food and sleep works wanders for your sex drive. I went without both properly for a few weeks and I had no drive. Wanking or no wanking.

If I were you, I'd just wank when horny as usual. Reason being: if you go out and communicate with hot chicks whilst you're absolutely dying for relief, you could be a lot more sensitive (and much more frustrated!) in response to any rejection. I think a lot of sexual frustration could also potentially mess with your game. I think if I were you I'd just stick to eating and sleeping properly and keeping yourself healthy.

Though if you find it does work in your favour, and you are okay with doing it (i.e. it doesn't drive you mad) go for it - different strokes for different folks!

 

[Chamber36]

You gotta keep going. Before, my record was 5 days, then it was a week, now my record is 2 weeks.

I have trained myself to *** without ejaculating though, by tightening the pelvic muscles, so that I don't waste any of that vital fluid.

The Testosterone buzz will get women noticeably more attracted to you. You need will-power, but it's worth it. It makes u think much much more clearly aswell, for some reason.

I noticed it when I jerked off for the first time after a week, my brain just shut off completely and I went to sleep. The sensation was also like new. Also when I was in the club getting kino, the kino was like I had never felt before. It gave everything a sense of novelty.

Edit: BTW I also noticed during my Jiu Jitsu class after I didn't jerk off for a week that I was much more focused in class.

 

[Young Money]

The Testosterone buzz will get women noticeably more attracted to you.

Your probably right, but how? How do all these small variables make such a big difference on women.

How does 2 weeks without wanting compare to 1?

if you go out and communicate with hot chicks whilst you're absolutely dying for relief

Aren't the two of your views conflicting?

Thank you to both of you.

 

[pdx1138]

I have trained myself to *** without ejaculating though, by tightening the pelvic muscles, so that I don't waste any of that vital fluid.

I've heard about that.

I need to learn the technique.

 

[Iceberg]

Your probably right, but how? How do all these small variables make such a big difference on women.

How does 2 weeks without wanting compare to 1?



Aren't the two of your views conflicting?

Thank you to both of you.

My advice....not that you asked for it....

If you need to abstain from jerking off, or some other tricks or gimmicks, then you're doing something wrong.

You know a couple guys in your life who are good with women, right? Is this how you think they became good? By not jerking off?

No, they have hobbies they are passionate about. They have social skills. They work out.

If this routine of not wanking is helping you, then by all means, continue. But if this is just something you read somewhere, and you think that it's the final "top secret trick" to getting laid, then you're wrong.

 

[Jack Wealthy]

Not masturbaring is something you do for you. It is to focus you, don't do it to make you feel like you deserve girls.