so im laying in bed w. my girlfriend, and..

[jay07]

I ask her if she wants to get food and she shrugs it off. Then her phone vibrates and she says "so-and-so texted me" then walks upstairs.

When she gets back he texts her again and while she was upsgairs she sent "bring me food".Which pisses me off since i just asked her if she wanted to go w. Me to get food. And apparently hes bringing it to her. But i got dressed and told her i was leaving.

Now she texted me some crap but would you guys pull the attention away from her and not text her back for a while or am i blowing this out of proportion. I think its disrespectful she asks another dude to bring her food while im laying right next to her ass

 

[JohnChops]

These wh0res are too much. Your girlfriend is low quality. Whether you are going to dump her now that you realize this or settle because most girls today are garbage, up to you.

alright PRF, you have gotten so jaded brother. realax. Who is banging her? you? k good. the other guy is most likely an orbiter. i would just ignore her for a week and let that sink in. she will be crawling back to you, if not then just keep staying NC.

its a good way to test her IL as well and her IL within the relationship.

 

[Albatross953]

I don't think you're blowing that out of perspective. Who brings a chick food if you're not wanting to bang her?

And what quality chick lets him when she has a boyfriend? Food is a deep connector in human anthropology, that is why you eat with your family, friends, mate. Its why most dates are food or drink.

Who the f is the guy?

 

[Bible_Belt]

It sounds like a sh!t test from her to get you to show dominance. I think the ultimate amog would have been to stay, and then eat all of the food he brought.

 

[jay07]

Mutual friend. Dude has a gf but i noticed hes been calling mine lately. And she even said "whoah its weird hes texting me" but im gettin the vibe he wants some.

Didnt want to think i was overreacting but its a little odd. Im gonna ignore her today

 

[JoeMarron]

alright PRF, you have gotten so jaded brother. realax. Who is banging her? you? k good. the other guy is most likely an orbiter. i would just ignore her for a week and let that sink in. she will be crawling back to you, if not then just keep staying NC.

its a good way to test her IL as well and her IL within the relationship.

I actually agree with him. This type of woman shouldn't be taken seriously. jay act as if you're single and start spinning plates. Monogamy is a joke to these type of women so don't bother.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Man, yall dudes be taken mad disrespect from your girlfriends. If you guys are messing with nice looking females like I am then you should know that no man wants to be their friends. NOT ONE unless it's their family. So for exchanging numbers and texting they should not have no reason to be texting or talking on the phone unless it is work related.

I think its disrespectful that she is textin another dude period. I think it's more disrespectful to be texting while you guys are laying in bed. That's trifling playa.

This girl is low quality and you need to dump her. Your limiting yourself to her but she ain't doing the same.

Edit: This is only if you take the relationship seriously. If you didn't take it seriously it really doesn't matter what she does.

 

[jay07]

Man, yall dudes be taken mad disrespect from your girlfriends. If you guys are messing with nice looking females like I am then you should know that no man wants to be their friends. NOT ONE unless it's their family. So for exchanging numbers and texting they should not have no reason to be texting or talking on the phone unless it is work related.

I think its disrespectful that she is textin another dude period. I think it's more disrespectful to be texting while you guys are laying in bed. That's trifling playa.

This girl is low quality and you need to dump her. Your limiting yourself to her but she ain't doing the same.

Edit: This is only if you take the relationship seriously. If you didn't take it seriously it really doesn't matter what she does.

Thats what im sayin. And shes sending me sad faces now cause i wont respond.

Like i dont even think these chicks understand what they do is disrespectful until we do it to them.

How can someone be so stupid.

 

[Maximus Rex]

This is What You Need To Be Mad About

I ask her if she wants to get food and she shrugs it off. Then her phone vibrates and she says "so-and-so texted me" then walks upstairs.

Why didn't you check her about texting in private. She should have been comfortable enough to respond with you right there. That was a sh*t test and you failed.

When she gets back he texts her again and while she was upsgairs she sent "bring me food".Which pisses me off since i just asked her if she wanted to go w. Me to get food. And apparently hes bringing it to her.

F*ck this not wanting to eat with you, bullsh*t. What you needed to be mad about is her punk a$$ not tellin' Mr. Simp to bring you something to eat also, old selfish a$$ inconsiderate b*tch.

Now she texted me some crap but would you guys pull the attention away from her and not text her back for a while or am i blowing this out of proportion. I think its disrespectful she asks another dude to bring her food while im laying right next to her ass

Put her a$$ on "punishment," for a few days and freeze her out. When you talk to her again, you explain to her what she did wasn't cool and that you didn't appreciate her feeling the need to text in private. It gives you the impression that she's hiding something from you. You need to tell her that any relationship that you engage in (even with your male friends,) is one that's built on trust and openness, and the very next time you catch her doing some triflin sh*t like that, it's a f*ckin wrap. Then you tell her to call Mr. Simp, and have him bring y'all something to eat.

 

[jay07]

Rex youre right.

I didnt know what she was goin upstairs for, i just kno she sent the text upstairs, then she purposely wanted me to see it cause she opened and responded as we were layin down. Thats when i got up put my **** on and told her i was leaving. She kept saying "whatswromg" but she knew, i just said "im still hungry im gettin food"

When you say freeze her what do you mean?

 

[jay07]

You shoulda seen her first text to me after i left to..

"Im sorry if i upset you, i had so much fun last night! Smile!"

Like wtf. I wanna throw her phone in the toilet.

 

[usernamedox11]

You shoulda seen her first text to me after i left to..

"Im sorry if i upset you, i had so much fun last night! Smile!"

Like wtf. I wanna throw her phone in the toilet.

First of all, happy new years everyone.

She's low quality. Not relationship material. Just ghost her and move on, IMO.

Up to you, though.

 

[Maximus Rex]

The Freeze Out

Rex youre right. When you say freeze her what do you mean?

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=211040

It's not "freeze her," but rather " The Freeze Out," This thread explains it.

 

[om1xr]

If there is one thing that you should never compromise or let girls step over it is Respect because the moment you let them disrespect you is the moment they carry your balls in their purses.

But from another side that was a **** test and you failed in it! learn your lesson for next time but for now Rex's advice sounds good!

 

[SamTheHobit]

These wh0res are too much. Your girlfriend is low quality. Whether you are going to dump her now that you realize this or settle because most girls today are garbage, up to you.

Definitely agreed. Listen to this advice.

 

[jay07]

I didnt leave w. An attitude or anything, just distant. So when she contacts me asking what she did what do i tell her..

" think about it, how woukd you have reacted if i pulled that **** with you layin next to me?"?

 

[Maximus Rex]

Shakin' My Muthaf*ckin' Head

I didnt leave w. An attitude or anything, just distant. So when she contacts me asking what she did what do i tell her..

" think about it, how woukd you have reacted if i pulled that **** with you layin next to me?"?

Nigga, Rex, TOLD YOU WHAT TO SAY! Now go back, read Rex's initial post in this thread and tell her that verbatim. Damn, y'all muthaf*ckas are slow.

 

[Peaks&Valleys]

I agree it's disrespectful. Chicks can be really dumb.

If she's good looking then she's always going to have guys trying to bang her, that's just the way it is. As an Alpha man, you can't get butt hurt, or let other guys hitting on your girlfriend bother you. It's going to happen. Lots of these chicks are accustomed to guys doing $hit for them, it's always been that way for them.

That being said, looking back, I would have confronted her then and there. Said something along the lines of: "I'm here spending my time with you, and you're inviting someone else over without asking me if I would mind." You two were lying in bed and she just invites some dude over. It's an inconvenience to you. Sometimes these chicks just need to be aware of what the fvck they're doing. She probably got away with this crap in the past so she either thinks it's okay, or she's giving you a $hit test like another poster mentioned.

I would have given her the chance to correct herself, and/or apologize. If she tried to argue with you, or turned it into a big deal, then I would have left.

 

[papawapa]

your mutual "friend" is talking to your girl and bringing her food. You need to call him out on that...sure aint something a "friend" would do.

 

[VladPatton]

Next time you're chilling with her in the bed tell her "oh...the next time some guy messages you and you leave me to go text him back I'm kicking you right the phuck outta my house. Did you understand what I've just told you?"

Look her dead in the eyes when you say this. If she makes a huuuuuge scene, she's guilty of something. You then kick her out and never see her again.