so i'm a virgin... but she thinks otherwise

[foomee]

i'm a virgin... and this girl says she wants to f*ck me this weekend, but she thinks i'm not a virgin. apparantly my friend told her i've had sex with 5 girls, but her usual thing is virgins because they're clean. but this girl still wants me.... what should i do? just tell her the truth? or try to fake it and perform the best i can......?

 

[Jester]

Originally posted by foomee
i'm a virgin... and this girl says she wants to f*ck me this weekend, but she thinks i'm not a virgin. apparantly my friend told her i've had sex with 5 girls, but her usual thing is virgins because they're clean. but this girl still wants me.... what should i do? just tell her the truth? or try to fake it and perform the best i can......?

old grey woman jumped outta bed
out of the window she popped her head
crying john john the great goose is gone
and the fox is on the towno

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

Originally posted by foomee
what should i do? just tell her the truth? or try to fake it and perform the best i can......?

Telling her the truth could ruin your chances. I say "fake it till you've made it."

 

[BlahBlah]

Well, you can tell her the truth and lose the possibility of... you know... ACTUALLY having sex with her. But if it would make you feel better to risk possibly losing her interest in order to compensate for the possibility of appearing inexperienced (when you indeed ARE inexperienced) if, in fact, she would still want to have sex with you, go for it.

If it were me, I'd just let her think what she thinks. Your sexual performance will remain the same whether she knows you're a virgin or not, so at least go and get a lil' summ-summ lol.

 

[ego]

If you plan to stay with her you tell her the truth. If she's just a one-timer no need to let her know.

It really is that simple.

 

[seagull]

Don't tell her anything. Your friends told her that you shagged five girls, not you. What she believes is her business, all you should care about is poking that hole.

 

[rascal]

read a book, i recommend David D's secret of sensual lovemaking. talk about hour orgasms it really works 50% of the time, the other 50% the girl just really enjoys it.

 

[flexion_]

Say nothing.

 

[blinkwatt]

Just dont jump right in,try to tease her as much as you can. I know this will be hard because of the tempation to nail her. The ability to push stuff off and tease her will trick her into thinking you know your stuff,instead of a rookie in bed. Instead of just eating her out,lick around her va6ina for a few and float around the area instead of just jumping in. Now with fcuking her just come in and out like they do in a porno instead of going to full power at first. The aspect of teasing continues in the room. Good Luck!

 

[Centaurion]

I say wing it. Don't tell her that you are a virgin. Spank the monkey a couple of times before you meet her so you don't bust a nut within 2 seconds when you are with her. If you have watched pron you should have the basics down. Just don't over-complicate sh!tt. You can always blame that you're too tired/drunk if something happens.

 

[Tomatoes]

2 choices.

Choice 1: Watch loads of diffrent porno's before going into action. Learn what you can. Ask people who wont blow your cover on tactics and stuff and fake it

Choice 2: Tell her the truth. She will still have sex with you in my opinion but you do risk losing it.
However with this option if you perform crap (which you prob will being a virgin. no offence) then she may just think you are crap in bed and not see you again.

I think you should tell her and let her teach you

but you can do what you want.

Both have pro's and con's

 

[Tomatoes]

Originally posted by ego
If you plan to stay with her you tell her the truth. If she's just a one-timer no need to let her know.

It really is that simple.

Thats the best advice about tbh.

 

[GropeDope]

In addition to what everyone else said about jacking off before you see her, my recommendation for you is to cut your nails before you see her and make sure they aren't sharp at all. When you're with her start off SLOW.

When you are sick of making out, finger f*ck her first for a good 5 - 10 minutes BEFORE you bang her. Just poke a finger or two in there while you're making out and move it in and out for a little bit. This way you'll at least have SOME chance of getting her cummin. (If you know how to find her cl!t then you should also try to gently rub it with your thumb while your finger(s) is/are in there but don't worry about this too much for now.) If she's lying back then use your other hand to rub her breasts and caress her face while you finger f*ck her with the other hand.

After your fingers get tired or she pushes them away, put on the jimmy hat and start banging her.

You are probably going to end up busting within 5 minutes once you get your d!ck up in there, but if you manage to make her orgasm with your fingers before that happens, you won't have to worry too much about it since she got hers and you got yours. She will probably not suspect you're a virgin but will think you have ejaculatory control issues. This means if she likes you enough she will give you another shot later on.

 

[Tomatoes]

I will post my sex tips in a sec...Just got to find em from another post where i posted them. **watch this space**

Editted with tips:

Postions wise you should always aim to hit a women in the G-Spot with your d1ck. You can get it with your fingers which are not as long as your d1ck and it will make a women go CRAZY. For all of you that dont know where it is. When you finger a girl. (Assuming shes on her back) Put your fingers in and then bend them up as if you were beconing someone to come to you with them. When she gasps....thats the spot. Hitting it with your d1ck is a little harder. Best way is either Doggie when you are raised slightly....(pushing your penis into the desired spot.) or a standing missionary. Basically find it with your hand then aim with your d1ck. You will have girls going crazy.

With the cl!t its at the top of the virgina under a hood. Best is to stroke it fast over the hood with the occational flip underneth so you catch it direct. Making a girl cvm from the cl!t is ALOT harder than the g-spot. 50% of women have not cvm from ****oral stimulation. This is why i would spend 5-8 mins on the cl!t. Then go in for the G-spot. Hit that sh!t hard and deep. Remember...in...and up...Within 2-3 mins she should be wetting your hand. If not your doing something wrong.

After that go in for the shag. Foreplay is essential thow. She may want to blow you off too which is cool. You can hint that sh!t but thats a whole diffrent story.:woo:

 

[ego]

Great advice from everybody ... and, unfortunately you totally overanalyze everything. Now it's a bigger deal than ever before.

Follow my advice dude - And first ask yourself:

What's my intentions? (To keep her or leave her when you're finished?).

And when it comes to the sex itself:
A lot of foreplay will get her horny. Use your mouth and fingers to satisfy her. If you blow your load too fast(whatever the definition of too fast is) just tell her she made you too horny. Then keep going with fingers or tounge.

 

[The_Lifter]

For the more experienced - delay condoms work wonders. Even if you haven't cleaned the pipes beforehand, you get the same (if not better) duration and can still have the monster load at the end.