So I had a 3-some for the first time this weekend......

[FM 3321]

This is a weird thread but maybe you're wondering why I'm asking for advice.

Well over the weekend I went out with some friends and met a couple of girls in the group and long story short, all three of us were flirting the whole night and then we ended up going to a motel and had an awesome 3-some. Just a combination of having lots of fun, teasing, reading signals and all that stuff led to an amazing 3-some.

So this is my first time having two chicks at the same time and they loved it. The next morning and afternoon we had lots of fun joking about it and for some reason I'm feeling nervous about details about who to call, when to call or how things are gonna turn out down the road.

I ended up calling one of the girls tonight to see how she was doing and that I might be in her town this weekend and to be honest I was feeling nervous during the conversation. It's not that I want to date this girl or (girls) or pursue anything serious but they would make great fvck buddies.

So I feel great about having a 3-some over the weekend but the nervous AFC or whatever you want to call it, uncertainty?...is creeping in. I don't want to be rude and call just one girl and not the other but I already called the other girl two hours after I dropped her off but her phone was off. So if girl #1 was wondering why I didn't call her I can say that I already did. I talked to girl #2 which I really just met that night but I did feel nervous.

I'm not sure what I'm asking but maybe it's just like.....what in the hell do you do after a 3-some? Whats' the "ettiquite?"

 

[spukee]

Chances are the girls saw it as a one-night-thing. Don't be afraid of hurting their feelings by not calling right away; they're not concerned, and calling right away was likely a bad move on your part.

You're not dating both of them (hell, you're not even dating one of them), so don't act like it. If you found one (or both) of them interesting, do what you'd normally do: Call her sometime later this week, and hang out with her. Play some kino, and if she's interested in another go-around you'll know.

Don't stress - there's nothing to stress about. Just bask in the glory that is every man's dream

 

[FM 3321]

Originally posted by spukee
Chances are the girls saw it as a one-night-thing. Don't be afraid of hurting their feelings by not calling right away; they're not concerned, and calling right away was likely a bad move on your part.

You're not dating both of them (hell, you're not even dating one of them), so don't act like it. If you found one (or both) of them interesting, do what you'd normally do: Call her sometime later this week, and hang out with her. Play some kino, and if she's interested in another go-around you'll know.

Don't stress - there's nothing to stress about. Just bask in the glory that is every man's dream

Yeah.......that's how I saw it, just a one night thing. I honestly was gonna let them just call me but maybe I made a mistake by calling them. Something inside me said I should call them but, like you said, why stress? I did two chicks at the same time.

I guess I'll just let them call me. I'm supposed to be in their town again next weekend so we'll just see. I guess the AFC in me didn't want the "jerk" to take over and NOT call.

Hell, I'm overanalyzing. Again like you said, "there's nothing to stress about"

 

[spider_007]

a-hole

im jeleous
:cheer: congads

 

[italostud]

Welcome to the 3some club bro! It's something every man should experience AT LEAST once in their lives!

 

[s m0ney]

is it gay 2 have a threesome with another guy and girl? as long as u dont touch or do anything to the other guy?

 

[spukee]

Originally posted by s m0ney
is it gay 2 have a threesome with another guy and girl? as long as u dont touch or do anything to the other guy?

That all pretty much boils down to where you personally draw the line. Ask yourself this: Does it really matter? If you're comfortable with the idea, go for it; if you're not, then leave it alone.

 

[FM 3321]

Originally posted by s m0ney
is it gay 2 have a threesome with another guy and girl? as long as u dont touch or do anything to the other guy?

I would never have a 3-some with another guy on the bed. I only share my bed with females.

 

[FM 3321]

Originally posted by spider_007
a-hole

im jeleous
:cheer: congads

Heh, thanks.

 

[s m0ney]

what if its her bed though? its not like youre fondeilng the guy.. shes giving head to 1 while the other is doing her.. no biggie

 

[Skullcrusher]

Originally posted by s m0ney
what if its her bed though? its not like youre fondeilng the guy.. shes giving head to 1 while the other is doing her.. no biggie

That sounds gay.

 

[penguin]

Thy only thing I personally would have against a MMF threesome is not measuring up to the other guy or not being as good, and feeling inadequate.... that would suck.

Anyway, congrats on the score.

 

[Dominant]

Originally posted by s m0ney
is it gay 2 have a threesome with another guy and girl? as long as u dont touch or do anything to the other guy?

Fvck yeah it is. What is your balls touch? Or some of his jizz hits you? You would have to cut that part off your of your body if that happened.

The only way I'd have another dude around is if there was more than one girl. I wouldn't penetrate the same girl with another dude.

 

[Dominant]

Originally posted by FM 3321
This is a weird thread but maybe you're wondering why I'm asking for advice.

Well over the weekend I went out with some friends and met a couple of girls in the group and long story short, all three of us were flirting the whole night and then we ended up going to a motel and had an awesome 3-some. Just a combination of having lots of fun, teasing, reading signals and all that stuff led to an amazing 3-some.

So this is my first time having two chicks at the same time and they loved it. The next morning and afternoon we had lots of fun joking about it and for some reason I'm feeling nervous about details about who to call, when to call or how things are gonna turn out down the road.

I ended up calling one of the girls tonight to see how she was doing and that I might be in her town this weekend and to be honest I was feeling nervous during the conversation. It's not that I want to date this girl or (girls) or pursue anything serious but they would make great fvck buddies.

So I feel great about having a 3-some over the weekend but the nervous AFC or whatever you want to call it, uncertainty?...is creeping in. I don't want to be rude and call just one girl and not the other but I already called the other girl two hours after I dropped her off but her phone was off. So if girl #1 was wondering why I didn't call her I can say that I already did. I talked to girl #2 which I really just met that night but I did feel nervous.

I'm not sure what I'm asking but maybe it's just like.....what in the hell do you do after a 3-some? Whats' the "ettiquite?"

I doublt you're going to be able to keep doing threesome after threesome with these girls.

I don't know these girls, but I think the chances are low.

The chances you can keep these girls as ****-buddies is high if you play it right. That would be an individual thing, not a threesome.

It really shouldn't be hard man. Just call them and kick it with them one on one. Watch a movie in your room or go to a club just you and the girl. Just isolate with her and she's yours.

GWM if you really want to work on this type of game.

-Dominant

 

[Dominant]

Re: Re: So I had a 3-some for the first time this weekend......

Originally posted by Dominant
I doublt you're going to be able to keep doing threesome after threesome with these girls.

I don't know these girls, but I think the chances are low.

The chances you can keep these girls as ****-buddies is high if you play it right. That would be an individual thing, not a threesome.

It really shouldn't be hard man. Just call them and kick it with them one on one. Watch a movie in your room or go to a club just you and the girl. Just isolate with her and she's yours.

GWM if you really want to work on this type of game.

-Dominant

Oh yeah, you can read up some posts from Player Supreme if you want to work on owning the woman so that she's really yours.

This has to do with building a team of women, and just getting in their heads.

I don't know if this is what you had in mind, but can create a more permanent **** buddy. You could also get a lot more out of the woman than just sex.

But whatever you want to do, sex with these girls again shouldn't be hard.

-Dominant

 

[platinumike]

hey id like to hear the long story, was alchol involved? tell us how you got 2 chicks to get it on with you

 

[FM 3321]

Re: Re: Re: So I had a 3-some for the first time this weekend......

Originally posted by Dominant
Oh yeah, you can read up some posts from Player Supreme if you want to work on owning the woman so that she's really yours.

This has to do with building a team of women, and just getting in their heads.

I don't know if this is what you had in mind, but can create a more permanent **** buddy. You could also get a lot more out of the woman than just sex.

But whatever you want to do, sex with these girls again shouldn't be hard.

-Dominant

Thanks Dominant, I guess you can say my main goal is to keep one of them as a good **** buddy. Too bad they live about an hour and a half away but that's no problem.

I'll definetly look into the GWM and Teambuilding stuff. Although this was great, I still have alot to learn. I still can't even muster up asking a girl if she's single in public.

 

[FM 3321]

Originally posted by platinumike
hey id like to hear the long story, was alchol involved? tell us how you got 2 chicks to get it on with you

How? Damn that's gonna like take 10 pages if you want all the details. It started with both girls thinking I was very cute, me flirting with them hardcore, teasing them, scaring them (acting like I was lost out in the middle of nowhere and joking about it), holding hands......hell alot of stuff.

I could tell they were interested right off the bat and I took off from there.

Anyway as an update, one of the girls called me and she was asking if I was coming back to her town. Conversation was fun, we were laughing and giggling. So she's looking forward to seeing me again.

 

[rollthedice]

dude, 3 somes rock!!!!!! if there's ever an experience that can bring a smile to your face at any given moment its the memory of two hotties at once. i'm lucky enough to be married to a bisexual woman. i get this kind of play rather frequently and it never gets old!!!!!!!
about the guy thing--- no its not gay!!! do you think all those porn stars that tag team chicks all day are gay?? i've been involved in several experiences that involved more than one guy and i'm far from gay!!!! if you're secure and confident in your own sexuality its easy to be comfortable and open in freaky sexual situations and leads to alot more fun.
cheers on the accomplishment bro!!!

 

[just_4_fun]

whats the obsession with guys and three sums??

I honestly I don't see the big deal....