so I finally got a girls number...

aoper

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On Tuesday, my first day at college, I was sitting beside a girl at the bus stop infront of the school. We started talking, but a few minutes later a friend i haven't seen in a while came by, so I started talking to him and just sort of ignored her ( I did introduce them ). Her bus came along, so I got her number before she got on.

I called her on Thursday, at about 2:30, and asked her if she was done school yet. She said " I have one more class in 10 minutes then I am done, are you leaving?", I said I was was to stay around and study for a bit. I stayed at school for 2 hours and finished all my homework, she hadn't called yet so I just left.

While I was just about to get on the bus she walked by, so I said hello and she told me she got her schedule mixed up and she actually had two classes left. ( I don't know why she didn't call in between ). She asked if that was my bus, and I said "Ya, want to come with me? I am going to get a coffee downtown". She said she didn't have time, she had to go home and get ready for work, but she definitely wants to some other time and she would call me Friday when she is done school.

On Friday she texted me while I was in class and said she has to work again but she is getting off at ten and she asked if I had plans. I texted her back saying I didn't, and I would call her when I am done class. I called her half an hour later, she didnt answer so I left a message.

She didn't call me back and still hasn't. Should I call her back and see whats up? Should I just wait until I see her at school again? or just forget about it?
 

B4IFURU18?

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Either,

A) Wait till you run into her again
B) Call her up in a few days.

I like option B, I'm persistent without being creepy, and it usually works. If you go route A, you're just hoping that you'll bump into her, and it's a crapshoot. Be aggressive, and get what you want. Call her up in 3 or 4 days.

Wednesdays are the best days to set **** up. Do something on a weeknight, you'll run less of a chance at her bailing out. Whereas on a weekend date she might be "busy". People want their weekends open, especially if they just met someone. No one wants to kill a Friday night with a date with someone you hardly know.
 

Aspiring_DJ

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You don't want to sound like you are too desperate. Try to appear more busy. If she flakes again next her.
 
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