This thread is based on one of the Pooks old posts about ********.
I have a female 'friend' who I see as an invaluable source for experimentation in 'the ways of the woman'.
I have used my 'friend' to test many of the techniques expressed on this forum with interesting results.
The current situation is this: She is seeing a guy and she is definitely the one wearing the pants in the 'relationship'.
He is very jealous of me and my presence around 'his girl' and I don't blame him. What makes it worse for him is that my friend has made it clear that he can like it or lump it.
Now, my 'friend' spends rather a lot of time in my company. I do not personally agree with girlfriend stealing but, I would like people’s opinion on my scenario.
In the Pooks ******** post he suggested that if a woman is expressing feelings about her man this is bad (whether the feelings are positive or negative).
If she talks about actions he takes she is using social proof to point out that she is a 'catch'
Does the following sound like: 'you are my emotional tampon soak up my pain' or
'I think you could be the man, prove it to me'
She is always telling me that her man does not take her out. Not in a whiney way but as a matter of fact.
She has commented on his 'lack' of sexual prowess and... Ahem, equipment shortage.
She seems to go out more with me than him and actively invites me out to do things.
She shows all the signs of attraction and interest.
I personally think she is using me as a 'pseudo boyfriend' to do the things her 'man' won't do, as in friends without benefits.
More recently she has been creating reasons to see me more and more WTF.
Don't worry I know the drill, limit her access, do my own thing etc.
I am just interested in what you guys think her game is.
I wondered if she might just be trying to get her man jealous so he'll get off his butt and do something.
She is pretty hot, but so are plenty of other women.
Humour me and pass judgement.
I have a female 'friend' who I see as an invaluable source for experimentation in 'the ways of the woman'.
I have used my 'friend' to test many of the techniques expressed on this forum with interesting results.
The current situation is this: She is seeing a guy and she is definitely the one wearing the pants in the 'relationship'.
He is very jealous of me and my presence around 'his girl' and I don't blame him. What makes it worse for him is that my friend has made it clear that he can like it or lump it.
Now, my 'friend' spends rather a lot of time in my company. I do not personally agree with girlfriend stealing but, I would like people’s opinion on my scenario.
In the Pooks ******** post he suggested that if a woman is expressing feelings about her man this is bad (whether the feelings are positive or negative).
If she talks about actions he takes she is using social proof to point out that she is a 'catch'
Does the following sound like: 'you are my emotional tampon soak up my pain' or
'I think you could be the man, prove it to me'
She is always telling me that her man does not take her out. Not in a whiney way but as a matter of fact.
She has commented on his 'lack' of sexual prowess and... Ahem, equipment shortage.
She seems to go out more with me than him and actively invites me out to do things.
She shows all the signs of attraction and interest.
I personally think she is using me as a 'pseudo boyfriend' to do the things her 'man' won't do, as in friends without benefits.
More recently she has been creating reasons to see me more and more WTF.
Don't worry I know the drill, limit her access, do my own thing etc.
I am just interested in what you guys think her game is.
I wondered if she might just be trying to get her man jealous so he'll get off his butt and do something.
She is pretty hot, but so are plenty of other women.
Humour me and pass judgement.
