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Don Juan
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Hey,
First off, I know the DJ answer to the thread's topic question: "No." But, today was just kind of odd, so let me explain it real quickly to the climax of why I'm posting this.
Basically, yesterday, for some reason, I woke up tired but after I got in/out of the shower and went to school, my mood went up and I just felt pretty good overall. This influenced my day to the point where nothing bad really happened to much or anything amazing, but it just seemed to be an overall great day. Today, I tried the same thing, except several hours into the school day, I somehow hit a wall (screwed up a math worksheet-part of class found out and poked me around about it). I tried to mentally brush it off, but it brought on something that happened for the rest of the school day pretty much which was me feeling like a little kid in a teen's body. I've had this problem before where I would just feel less than everyone else, and I don't know how to get out of it (and no, I don't think saying I'm the best to myself in my head helps that much).
Also, for the thread topic, near the end of the school day, this acquaintance I have known since the beginning of the school year (and his girlfriend since near the beginning of high school), as we were talking, he asked seriously if I was a homosexual. I thought he was messing, so I was like which one is the straight one, homo or hetero because I'm the straight one or whatever. And apparently, he was serious. This was a huge blow to my ego that made me go into, "I'm a defenseless little-kid" mode for the next couple hours that I talked about earlier. :nervous:
First off though, since I am here, I am obviously not a homosexual. But I have never made out with a girl, kissed a girl on the lips, felt a girl up, or had a serious girlfriend in my life. However, I sometimes think of myself as one of the most-into girls guys at my school as I find myself walking through the halls at school checking out the girls (particularly their @$$
). Also, even in classes, I get distracted if there are hot/cute girls in front or around me. But, I have just never had a serious girlfriend or the real guts to cold-approach hardly any of them. Sometimes I wonder if college will be better for guys like me.....but I thought the same thing about high school when I was in middle school.
Anyways, now I am at the point where I wonder if I need a girlfriend, not only for myself obviously, but also for my social character. Any tips?
Also, this is a secondary question, but in one of my classes-probably the one I am most social in right now, there's this pretty cute girl I think I might want to try to go for. However, she is the really shy and innocent type. Also, she sits on the other side of this girl I know that I talk to frequently (can't really use her for help though because of her personality I think). I find myself talking frequently to a lot of girls around me (this is a nerd class kind of, so most girls I'm not really interested in=easy to talk to), but not her. Also, I am most likely imagining this, but sometimes I think she is checking me out. I am most likely stretching the truth though, but it's just a thought. I also added her as a friend on Facebook a few weeks ago, but I haven't really talked to her since the beginning of the school year. Approaching her now, would just seem weird probably. Any tips?
So, for both these situations, any tips?
Thanks.
First off, I know the DJ answer to the thread's topic question: "No." But, today was just kind of odd, so let me explain it real quickly to the climax of why I'm posting this.
Basically, yesterday, for some reason, I woke up tired but after I got in/out of the shower and went to school, my mood went up and I just felt pretty good overall. This influenced my day to the point where nothing bad really happened to much or anything amazing, but it just seemed to be an overall great day. Today, I tried the same thing, except several hours into the school day, I somehow hit a wall (screwed up a math worksheet-part of class found out and poked me around about it). I tried to mentally brush it off, but it brought on something that happened for the rest of the school day pretty much which was me feeling like a little kid in a teen's body. I've had this problem before where I would just feel less than everyone else, and I don't know how to get out of it (and no, I don't think saying I'm the best to myself in my head helps that much).
Also, for the thread topic, near the end of the school day, this acquaintance I have known since the beginning of the school year (and his girlfriend since near the beginning of high school), as we were talking, he asked seriously if I was a homosexual. I thought he was messing, so I was like which one is the straight one, homo or hetero because I'm the straight one or whatever. And apparently, he was serious. This was a huge blow to my ego that made me go into, "I'm a defenseless little-kid" mode for the next couple hours that I talked about earlier. :nervous:
First off though, since I am here, I am obviously not a homosexual. But I have never made out with a girl, kissed a girl on the lips, felt a girl up, or had a serious girlfriend in my life. However, I sometimes think of myself as one of the most-into girls guys at my school as I find myself walking through the halls at school checking out the girls (particularly their @$$
). Also, even in classes, I get distracted if there are hot/cute girls in front or around me. But, I have just never had a serious girlfriend or the real guts to cold-approach hardly any of them. Sometimes I wonder if college will be better for guys like me.....but I thought the same thing about high school when I was in middle school.Anyways, now I am at the point where I wonder if I need a girlfriend, not only for myself obviously, but also for my social character. Any tips?
Also, this is a secondary question, but in one of my classes-probably the one I am most social in right now, there's this pretty cute girl I think I might want to try to go for. However, she is the really shy and innocent type. Also, she sits on the other side of this girl I know that I talk to frequently (can't really use her for help though because of her personality I think). I find myself talking frequently to a lot of girls around me (this is a nerd class kind of, so most girls I'm not really interested in=easy to talk to), but not her. Also, I am most likely imagining this, but sometimes I think she is checking me out. I am most likely stretching the truth though, but it's just a thought. I also added her as a friend on Facebook a few weeks ago, but I haven't really talked to her since the beginning of the school year. Approaching her now, would just seem weird probably. Any tips?
So, for both these situations, any tips?
Thanks.
