So a woman has to be on an emotional high to go out with you...

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What should i do before asking her out to get her laughing and wanting to go out with me?
 

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It's no one's job here to change your diaper. You've been here 9 months and have not read the DJ Bible. If you had, you would not be asking 'day one, post one' questions in thread after thread after thread.

Get lost.
 
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marmel75

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Dude you need to stop posting these dumb ass questions constantly, you need to do a lot reading, a lot of practicing and a lot of internalizing.

The problem is you are are trying to "act" a certain way to get a result instead of simply being that way which would naturally lead to a result. This comes off as fake, try hard and is not something that is going to lead you to success.

You need to spend serious time working on yourself.
 

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ever meet a dude and you just "became instant friends" and started hanging out?
its that, but with sex...
and females "bro"
 

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Making someone laugh is an art, not a science. Every woman is different and each woman will have a different reaction to your sense of humor. You can either tailor it on the fly or take it as a sign she's not in line with your values. My sense of humor is witty, dark, sexual and offensive. If I get a woman laughing, I know she's laid back and fun. No one anywhere can answer that question for you.

Focus on making interactions fun however you can do that. Go read the bible start to finish as well.
 

RangerMIke

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She doesn't have to be on an emotional high to go out with you, she just has to like you.

If you want to move to more than her just liking you, you have to connect emotionally, and display male strength characteristics.

Getting her to laugh is one way, but if you are not a funny person, or your sense of humor isn't something she appreciates, then trying to be something you are not is a waste of time, she'll see right through it and you will fail.

You connect emotionally buy building report and communicating with emotion. And always make sure she knows you are interested in fvcking her without being over the top obvious about it.
 

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I guage women and what they find interesting and funny and then I go from there, some women don't find the same humor funny, just like people don't find the same comedians funny. Even if you are not funny, make sure you can talk about a range of subjects and leave her thinking and curious. You don't need to be constantly funny and come off as annoying or goofy
 

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i just got a woman who visbly repulsed, reactivly pulled away and really thought it was horrible that I used the word "fvck" on the first date
she used it herself in a creative manner 3 days later
(non native english speaker)

just saying it's not what you say... it's who you are
 

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It's funny that nobody wonders how to make someone angry, you just gotta do something that pisses them off. When it comes to laughing and happy all of a sudden it's more complex? Not really, just do something people think is funny and makes them happy.
 
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